ok so im a 14 year old girl and i like a kid in my grade. the problem is im pretty sure he thinks that im head over heels for him and that i would do anything for him so he is just going along with it. my friend took my phone and said this:
my friend pretending to be me: katie (me) wants to make out with you!!!
the kid: no ****
my friend: would you make out with her?
the kid: idk we'll see
the next day he asked a few people if he should make out with me. he thinks im easy. how can i play hard to get? we are going to go to a movie soon and i know he is going to make a move. at the very least he will put his arm around me, but im pretty sure he is going to make out with me. yes, i want to, but i dont him to think its easy. also when we text.. how can i play hard to get and make him not so confident that i will make out with him? how do i make him want me? how can i play hard to get? please help!
btw dont tell me im too young or to find another guy please.How do I play hard to get?
Don't sit next to him.
Stop his lips if he tries.
ONLY hug him, at most.
Don't text often, like sometimes skip a day or two.
You gotta confuse them. One day, give him attention, the next day you stop.
Don't laugh at his jokes.
You know how guys are like ';don't call her until after 3 days'; when they pick up a girl? Same theory.
If you are to sit next to him, do NOT tilt your head in his direction. That's probably the best advice I can give. Maybe lean on the arm-rest opposite to him. If he says ';lay your head on my shoulder'; you can say ';Nah, that's alright, I'm comfortable like this';
If you have popcorn, and he tries to eat some, you can smack his hand, so he doesn't get any, at the same time it can be playful, sending him mixed signals.
It's VERY easy for a girl to play hard to get. But remember, a guy can play hard to get too, so don't fall for his tricks. Like:
-Avoiding you
-Talking to your friends more than you
-Being more playful with them than you
-Talking to you one moment, and then not another
-Don't repeat things twice, just cause you think he didn't hear it
-Teases you (don't feel too inclined to tease him back, that's the point)
Reserve yourself.How do I play hard to get?
Quit throwing yourself out there so hard core and just relax. Say no at first and say you want to take it slow.
If he already thinks you're easy and/or doesn't have a lot of respect for you, then it's not going to work. Not that I would recommend it anyway.
You'll act like you don't care and he'll lose interest and move on to the next girl like all 14 year olds do. If you want a boyfriend then make it clear. Just go ask him out instead of making it a cat and mouse game.
That'll just make a guy not pursue you.
dont play hard to get ...just dont be a whore
Why do you have to play hard to get?
You have to understand that you are the jewel. He has got to treat you that way. Draw the line, and do not compromise. Most guys will respect you. The guys that don't, are not worth it. The guys who respect you are worth it.
Okay! here we go! Haha, well, first off, playing hard to get is a way of telling a guy you are interested, but don't want to seem easy. GOOD JOB! You got the concept of it :)
Okay, he was being kind of rude about it..saying ';no ****'; and stuff, so be careful if he's really your type.
If you go to the movies, and he kisses u. Kiss him ONCE gently, and then turn away and smile. Don't makeout. Not the first date.
When you're going home, go in for a kiss, but then pull away %26amp; smile..and say something like ';talk to you later'; %26amp; walk away with a flirty attitude.
whenever he texts you, don't respond right away. if he calls, don't answer and call him back. (don't say you were talking to another guy cuz thats too obvious) just show him that there are other things in your life besides him. and honestly if he makes a move, i would just go for it. making out is fun. but after that if he just wants to do that then you know he's only in for that and you can make the decision of whether you want to stay friends with benefits of if you want more. then you can say no to movies and everything else
This is classic 14 year old thinking.
Playing hard to get -- why play games? Its dumb.
I get having crushes at 14 - but keep it simple. Dont chase, dont be aloof. Just be yourself and if he thinks you are head over heets, that is his problem. It also doesnt give him license to take advantage of that and treat you bad or worse. Always maintain your self respect!
Good luck
if you were easy, you would be making out with all the boys. if you like him then don't hold back or play games. if you don't want to kiss when he tries to kiss you than just tell him that you can kiss later. you say to him let's have fun now and kiss later. i promise you a kiss if everything goes well and you be good.
Hello Young Lady:
I think that there are too few young ladies that have the same perspective as you on this dating thing. I hope my daughter is as concerned when she is your age.
First things first, you don't need to ';Make out'; with a guy to keep his interest if he is interested. If all he wants is to ';Make out'; I suggest you should avoid that until you know if he really ';respects you'; or not. The worst thing in the world for a young lady is to be in a position where a young man wants to ';Make out'; just to tell all his buddies that he did.
Back to your answer, playing hard to get is not necessary, play ';I appreciate you as a young man and I hope you respect me'; and wait until it seems that he is really interested in you and not the conquest to tell his buddies about. If you go to the movies it is hard to talk. Have lunch after you see the matinee and ask him a lot of questions about him. If he continues talking about himsel;f, and not interested in asking questions about you, it is a good sign he is into himself and may not be interested in you for the right things. If he is asking alot about you, and comments often about ';How cool'; or I did not know that about you'; and similar things, give him an opportunity to have a nice little kiss goodbye.
The rule for everyone interested in a lasting relationship, even 14 year olds, is leave them wanting more.
I hope this helps you and I certainly hope you keep your view of not wanting to be the girl everyone talks about. You are moving in the right direction.
first off,find a way to make him jealous.
like at the movies,smile at another boy or something.
make sure hes looking.
then when hes talking to you,smile at him and looks at his lips alot..
he'll think you wanna make out,but then look away or down or something.
but keep smiling.
also,if you asks a question like a personal question,dont tell him everything. leave detail out,make him wanna keep asking more to know more.
Also,dont act like a whore lol. seriously i know some girls do that
not that i know you do but yeah.
Maybe when he puts his arm around you,give him a kiss on the cheek but not the lips,and dont let him kiss you either.
Straight up-just make him want more.
Act like your water and he's really thirsty..Get me.? (:
-when he texts you,and asks ';what are you doing'; or something
say something like ';stuff';' or ';hangin with a this one favorite person';
Well thats all i can think of right now
But hopefully i helpedd!!
if not,sorryy
Good Luckk.!(:
