When girls play hard to get, how to prove we're INTERESTED, but not come across as desparate?

We all know that girls play hard-to-get with us to see just how really we're interested in them. When a guy pursues them, they know that he is into her, and not just in it for the sex. But sometimes a guy may fall into her trap, and come off as desperate. See where the problem is now?



Girls, how should us guys show you that were GENUINELY interested, but not come off as desparate? For example, lets say a girl on purposely ignores our phone call. If we don't call her back until the next day, we might come across as not genuinely interested. But if we call again, we come off as desperate. How should we show that we're REALLY into you and that we're willing to pursue you without looking desperate?When girls play hard to get, how to prove we're INTERESTED, but not come across as desparate?
honestly when a guy comes off as not too desperate it messes with the girls mind



like if u call..and she doesnt pick up

and u dont call back she WILL be freaking out even thought she might not show it the next time u see her



so in other words just playing it slick will work better..but im not saying totally neglect her either...





..its complicated

lolWhen girls play hard to get, how to prove we're INTERESTED, but not come across as desparate?
You have to show that you want her, but you don't NEED her, and you'd be willing to walk away at any moment.
Keep on asking us out. You won't be desperate if you don't beg and just walk away when we say no.
well you have to play hard to get aswell and then they'll seem like they don't care but they do
well i dont know i played hard to get but i answered the calls....maybe this girl doesn't really like you...try to take her out to the movies or something
wow i never thought of it that way but i see where your going because you make alot of sense lol but yea well me personally since im a girl i think yea if a girl ignores your call on purpose don't call back because in her head she will think you will call back and you just wait and call her back later that day because then she will be wondering and wanna call you its confusing but yea thats what us girls think
That's a tough question; it only comes off as desperate if you call like ten times in a row. If she doesn't answer the first time call a couple hours later.
If you call her and she doesn't pick up, leave a message '; hi this is__ I was just thinking about you and decided to give you a call to see how you were doing'; and leave it at that. She may not call back b/c remember she's playing hard to get. So she'll pretend like she didn't get the message or didn't care, why? b/c she wants to see if you will call her back. Now you do call back but not until late the next night. This whole time she's waiting and wondering and hoping you will. When you do finally call her again if she answers ask her to go out. The thing about a girl who plays hard to get is, she likes the guy, but isn't quite ready to admit it. So the more you show interest the more confidence she gains. What you have to do is show you interest in her, while letting her think that if you don't show interest in me soon there is someone else who will.