How do girls play hard to get toward a boy that is already playing hard to get?

Alright. There's this guy and I never noticed him B4. My two closest friends come up to me all happy and told me OMG! theres this guy and he asked us for your number. They say hes really popular ( they go to school with him) and he is interested in you. The next time I see them at an event we go to once a week, he is there and the loud-mouth friend 1 points him directly out, and automaticly he knows whats going on. I watched a while (he didn't know I was) to see whats he like, he knew everyone and was cool with them too. He even came over to Friend2 and shook her hand like they were cool and friend2 said they were'nt even that close. And with Loud-mouth friend1 he played with her almost flirting with her and grabbed her by the arm that she had brocken and tryed to hug her. She pulled away though. He flirted with all these older girls and stuff right in front of me.He already knows how to play hard 2get OBVIOUSLY or trying to be a player. What should I do or tecniques that I should use to let him know I'm not easy to get with or that I'm despereate and I'll take what I can get.Any rules or guideleines I can use.How do girls play hard to get toward a boy that is already playing hard to get?
flirt with his friends! great fun ;) lol

or get your friends (make sure the loud mouth one doesnt give the game away) to talk about the other guy 'brad' (example lol) who has been really sweet, who is also good looking and it really interested in you.

flirt with the hard to get guy, then ten seconds later brush him off. but when things get serious, stop playing hard to get, because he will think that you arent interested

have fun :)How do girls play hard to get toward a boy that is already playing hard to get?
'Playing hard to get' with someone 'Playing hard to get', can really screw the head up.



Answer: ''STOP''. Stop playing silly bloody games.





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I need advice on how to play HARD TO GET in a LONG DISTANCE relationship!!?

I've been dating this guy for a little more than a month now and I know he LOOVEESS the ';Chase';. hes an adventurous sagittarius and likes knowing that he has to work to get me. it was easy to play hard to get when i was with him but now we're long distance and i won't see him for another month or so. in the mean time i want him to get more and more intrigued by me and make sure i keep him on his toes and play veryyy hard to get (thats what he likes). How exactly do i play hard to get in a long distance relationship tho? PLEASE i NEED ADVICE! as of right now, we talk about once a week - i make sure to only have him call me, this way i don't seem like im pursuing/chasing him. WHAT ELSE CAN I DO TO PLAY HARD TO GET? for instance, how can i play 'hard to get' while on the phone with him?? should i ever text or call him? or is that considered me chasing him?? please i wanna be exciting and fun! its how i am when im with him -im extremely coy, but im not sure how to play that long distance?!I need advice on how to play HARD TO GET in a LONG DISTANCE relationship!!?
Sounds like an exhausting way to spend a relationship. What happens in the future when your out of surprises? A LDR takes a lot of work and being hard to get is not one of them.

When girls play hard to get, how to prove we're INTERESTED, but not come across as desparate?

We all know that girls play hard-to-get with us to see just how really we're interested in them. When a guy pursues them, they know that he is into her, and not just in it for the sex. But sometimes a guy may fall into her trap, and come off as desperate. See where the problem is now?



Girls, how should us guys show you that were GENUINELY interested, but not come off as desparate? For example, lets say a girl on purposely ignores our phone call. If we don't call her back until the next day, we might come across as not genuinely interested. But if we call again, we come off as desperate. How should we show that we're REALLY into you and that we're willing to pursue you without looking desperate?When girls play hard to get, how to prove we're INTERESTED, but not come across as desparate?
honestly when a guy comes off as not too desperate it messes with the girls mind



like if u call..and she doesnt pick up

and u dont call back she WILL be freaking out even thought she might not show it the next time u see her



so in other words just playing it slick will work better..but im not saying totally neglect her either...





..its complicated

lolWhen girls play hard to get, how to prove we're INTERESTED, but not come across as desparate?
You have to show that you want her, but you don't NEED her, and you'd be willing to walk away at any moment.
Keep on asking us out. You won't be desperate if you don't beg and just walk away when we say no.
well you have to play hard to get aswell and then they'll seem like they don't care but they do
well i dont know i played hard to get but i answered the calls....maybe this girl doesn't really like you...try to take her out to the movies or something
wow i never thought of it that way but i see where your going because you make alot of sense lol but yea well me personally since im a girl i think yea if a girl ignores your call on purpose don't call back because in her head she will think you will call back and you just wait and call her back later that day because then she will be wondering and wanna call you its confusing but yea thats what us girls think
That's a tough question; it only comes off as desperate if you call like ten times in a row. If she doesn't answer the first time call a couple hours later.
If you call her and she doesn't pick up, leave a message '; hi this is__ I was just thinking about you and decided to give you a call to see how you were doing'; and leave it at that. She may not call back b/c remember she's playing hard to get. So she'll pretend like she didn't get the message or didn't care, why? b/c she wants to see if you will call her back. Now you do call back but not until late the next night. This whole time she's waiting and wondering and hoping you will. When you do finally call her again if she answers ask her to go out. The thing about a girl who plays hard to get is, she likes the guy, but isn't quite ready to admit it. So the more you show interest the more confidence she gains. What you have to do is show you interest in her, while letting her think that if you don't show interest in me soon there is someone else who will.

How Can I Play Hard To Get?

Their's this guy that works at a store my mom and I always go to. He has been flirting with me for almost 2 weeks now. The other day on myspace he told me ';He's kinda seeing someone'; and he's not the kinda guy I wanna be with and we should be friend's. Alot of people seem to think he is lying about having a GF and he is trying to play hard to get, so that's what I wanna do, Any suggestion's on how I can play hard to get? Now remember..I'd have to play hard to get in a store because I only see him when he works because he doesn't live around where I live. That being said..How can I play hard to get?How Can I Play Hard To Get?
be on the phone with a guy when you are checking out, or bring a guy friend with you to the store. And ignor him some but not a lot.

Hope this helps!How Can I Play Hard To Get?
WOW you need help ??
You say ';OK'; and stop flirting with him. It's all business. Take him off your silly Myspace. Why do you want a liar on your Myspace?
One of the latest seventeen magazines was refering to hard to get flirting tipss.

they metioned to only GLACE at him for a couple seconds before you turn your head away.. dont keep eye contact for longer than a second,

make sure you hold your head up and KNOW you're sexy l0l

and make sure you give the impression that you KNOW you don't need him,...

How do you play hard to get?

I know this sounds really silly, but I never understood what it was? I am 19 years old, I have had boyfriends etc, but I never played hard to get, atleast I don't think I did, I am friends with this guy, who I kind of like (read here for more details http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsPVRFJ6UkKkd7JPRLX.wR7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100412164440AAozJ5b ) and a lot of you out there told me to play hard to get, can anyone tell me how to do this? thanks xoHow do you play hard to get?
Read all about it...

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How to play hard to get after being overly into him?

Well I wouldnt say I have been overly into him, but just playing off what he was saying and going along with it. In most situations this would be what i would do. Maybe play abit hard to get at first but once we know eachother better just go off emotions and conversations. But recentlly (few months ago) I started talking to an old friend from high school (only graduated 3 years ago) we always had abit of a connection but he moved away before it ever turned into anything. When I first met him he was really into this girl, and he always was so cute and tried so hard to do cute things and get her to like him. She played hard to get and she got the cute more romantic side out of him. He eventually gave up because she didn't seem to return his feelings. Anyways when we first started talking again I played hard to get becuase I just got out of a serious relationship and wasn't ready to be all over a guy without knowing how he felt. after a while he asked me if i cared about him and i said i did. But i also gave into his wants (not like sex or anything because he still lives over an hour away and dont see each other often) we talk almost everyday for hours and kind of told him what he wanted to hear (it was true). I want to start playing hard to get again because i know it works with him. But how can i do it after letting him know i cared about him and being overly nice? we are not dating because of situations but maybe some day and I want to make him crazy in the mean time. haha long questions but need answers. please help!How to play hard to get after being overly into him?
stop being overly nice and start acting like you don't give a **** about him.. it will drive him up the wall! he will be so turned on and want you more than ever! eventually when the sexual tension becomes so thick you can cut it with a knife, give in to him. you will then have the best sex of your life!How to play hard to get after being overly into him?
ok your description was to long so i didnt read it but i will say this if you want to seem hard to get after being a suckup u should try overeacting during an arguement in order to isolate yourself but make sure he doesnt break it off from then on out you should try avoiding face to face contact and instead communicate through texting, dont agree to go with him everywhere but maintain a steady participation in the relationship or it will break down and lastly try sending him pictures on the phone that are sexual in nature but not frontal nudity like lifting your shirt in a tease this will make him try harder to get a little more

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How do I play hard to get?

ok so im a 14 year old girl and i like a kid in my grade. the problem is im pretty sure he thinks that im head over heels for him and that i would do anything for him so he is just going along with it. my friend took my phone and said this:


my friend pretending to be me: katie (me) wants to make out with you!!!


the kid: no ****


my friend: would you make out with her?


the kid: idk we'll see


the next day he asked a few people if he should make out with me. he thinks im easy. how can i play hard to get? we are going to go to a movie soon and i know he is going to make a move. at the very least he will put his arm around me, but im pretty sure he is going to make out with me. yes, i want to, but i dont him to think its easy. also when we text.. how can i play hard to get and make him not so confident that i will make out with him? how do i make him want me? how can i play hard to get? please help!








btw dont tell me im too young or to find another guy please.How do I play hard to get?
Don't sit next to him.


Stop his lips if he tries.


ONLY hug him, at most.


Don't text often, like sometimes skip a day or two.


You gotta confuse them. One day, give him attention, the next day you stop.


Don't laugh at his jokes.





You know how guys are like ';don't call her until after 3 days'; when they pick up a girl? Same theory.





If you are to sit next to him, do NOT tilt your head in his direction. That's probably the best advice I can give. Maybe lean on the arm-rest opposite to him. If he says ';lay your head on my shoulder'; you can say ';Nah, that's alright, I'm comfortable like this';





If you have popcorn, and he tries to eat some, you can smack his hand, so he doesn't get any, at the same time it can be playful, sending him mixed signals.





It's VERY easy for a girl to play hard to get. But remember, a guy can play hard to get too, so don't fall for his tricks. Like:


-Avoiding you


-Talking to your friends more than you


-Being more playful with them than you


-Talking to you one moment, and then not another


-Don't repeat things twice, just cause you think he didn't hear it


-Teases you (don't feel too inclined to tease him back, that's the point)





Reserve yourself.How do I play hard to get?
Quit throwing yourself out there so hard core and just relax. Say no at first and say you want to take it slow.
If he already thinks you're easy and/or doesn't have a lot of respect for you, then it's not going to work. Not that I would recommend it anyway.
You'll act like you don't care and he'll lose interest and move on to the next girl like all 14 year olds do. If you want a boyfriend then make it clear. Just go ask him out instead of making it a cat and mouse game.
That'll just make a guy not pursue you.
dont play hard to get ...just dont be a whore
Why do you have to play hard to get?
You have to understand that you are the jewel. He has got to treat you that way. Draw the line, and do not compromise. Most guys will respect you. The guys that don't, are not worth it. The guys who respect you are worth it.
Okay! here we go! Haha, well, first off, playing hard to get is a way of telling a guy you are interested, but don't want to seem easy. GOOD JOB! You got the concept of it :)


Okay, he was being kind of rude about it..saying ';no ****'; and stuff, so be careful if he's really your type.


If you go to the movies, and he kisses u. Kiss him ONCE gently, and then turn away and smile. Don't makeout. Not the first date.


When you're going home, go in for a kiss, but then pull away %26amp; smile..and say something like ';talk to you later'; %26amp; walk away with a flirty attitude.
whenever he texts you, don't respond right away. if he calls, don't answer and call him back. (don't say you were talking to another guy cuz thats too obvious) just show him that there are other things in your life besides him. and honestly if he makes a move, i would just go for it. making out is fun. but after that if he just wants to do that then you know he's only in for that and you can make the decision of whether you want to stay friends with benefits of if you want more. then you can say no to movies and everything else
This is classic 14 year old thinking.


Playing hard to get -- why play games? Its dumb.


I get having crushes at 14 - but keep it simple. Dont chase, dont be aloof. Just be yourself and if he thinks you are head over heets, that is his problem. It also doesnt give him license to take advantage of that and treat you bad or worse. Always maintain your self respect!





Good luck
if you were easy, you would be making out with all the boys. if you like him then don't hold back or play games. if you don't want to kiss when he tries to kiss you than just tell him that you can kiss later. you say to him let's have fun now and kiss later. i promise you a kiss if everything goes well and you be good.
Hello Young Lady:


I think that there are too few young ladies that have the same perspective as you on this dating thing. I hope my daughter is as concerned when she is your age.


First things first, you don't need to ';Make out'; with a guy to keep his interest if he is interested. If all he wants is to ';Make out'; I suggest you should avoid that until you know if he really ';respects you'; or not. The worst thing in the world for a young lady is to be in a position where a young man wants to ';Make out'; just to tell all his buddies that he did.


Back to your answer, playing hard to get is not necessary, play ';I appreciate you as a young man and I hope you respect me'; and wait until it seems that he is really interested in you and not the conquest to tell his buddies about. If you go to the movies it is hard to talk. Have lunch after you see the matinee and ask him a lot of questions about him. If he continues talking about himsel;f, and not interested in asking questions about you, it is a good sign he is into himself and may not be interested in you for the right things. If he is asking alot about you, and comments often about ';How cool'; or I did not know that about you'; and similar things, give him an opportunity to have a nice little kiss goodbye.


The rule for everyone interested in a lasting relationship, even 14 year olds, is leave them wanting more.


I hope this helps you and I certainly hope you keep your view of not wanting to be the girl everyone talks about. You are moving in the right direction.
first off,find a way to make him jealous.





like at the movies,smile at another boy or something.


make sure hes looking.





then when hes talking to you,smile at him and looks at his lips alot..


he'll think you wanna make out,but then look away or down or something.





but keep smiling.





also,if you asks a question like a personal question,dont tell him everything. leave detail out,make him wanna keep asking more to know more.





Also,dont act like a whore lol. seriously i know some girls do that


not that i know you do but yeah.





Maybe when he puts his arm around you,give him a kiss on the cheek but not the lips,and dont let him kiss you either.





Straight up-just make him want more.


Act like your water and he's really thirsty..Get me.? (:





-when he texts you,and asks ';what are you doing'; or something


say something like ';stuff';' or ';hangin with a this one favorite person';





Well thats all i can think of right now


But hopefully i helpedd!!





if not,sorryy





Good Luckk.!(:

How do I play hard to get?

ok so im a 14 year old girl and i like a kid in my grade. the problem is im pretty sure he thinks that im head over heels for him and that i would do anything for him so he is just going along with it. my friend took my phone and said this:

my friend pretending to be me: katie (me) wants to make out with you!!!

the kid: no ****

my friend: would you make out with her?

the kid: idk we'll see

the next day he asked a few people if he should make out with me. he thinks im easy. how can i play hard to get? we are going to go to a movie soon and i know he is going to make a move. at the very least he will put his arm around me, but im pretty sure he is going to make out with me. yes, i want to, but i dont him to think its easy. also when we text.. how can i play hard to get and make him not so confident that i will make out with him? how do i make him want me? how can i play hard to get? please help!





btw dont tell me im too young or to find another guy please.How do I play hard to get?
i hate hard to getHow do I play hard to get?
flirt alot but dont like give in..
your going out with him there isnt really supposed to be hard to get

Does it work to play hard to get?

There is this guy, I ran into him a few times. He finally asked me for my phone number. He had the guts to come up and talk to me at a club. We where going to meet up one night and it never happened, there was a miscommunication in between messages, he messaged me and I wasn鈥檛 sure whether I was meant to call back, thought that men are meant to do all the calling. I really like him; I鈥檓 just confused with this hard to get business. Does it really work? How do I play hard to get? How do I let him know that I鈥檓 interested? How do I get him to ask me out on a date again? I know that he was interested in me.Does it work to play hard to get?
Forget about him hon, men arent afraid to even stalk a girl till she accepts to go out with him. Men are pretty straightforward, if he wants you he will call you.Does it work to play hard to get?
The guy turned out to be a player. Didnt end up going on a date with him, but found out he went on a date with another girl.

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Hard to get is a game, and games are played in school, if you are out of school and old enough to go to the clubs, then no its not hard to get -- its so immature to play games
yea you should play hard to get. its part of the seduction hun. play it cool although you really want to see him mostly, but you should learn how to control that urge. your absence will leave him thinking about you. then when you see each other again give him reassuring signals that you want him. but sometimes be a little bit mysterious and sort of confuse him lol.... and bring out your inner sexiness. :p guys chase after what's unobtainable to somehow give that impression to him.

be a tease.
HONEY, YOU DO NOT NEED TO PLAY HARD TO GET FOR ANYONE. JUST BE YOURSELF. YOU CAN CALL HIM, AND ASK HIM IF HE WOULD LIKE TO JOIN YOU FOR LUCH OR A DRINK. THAT TO ME IS THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO FOR YOURSELF. I AM 65YEARS OLD, A FEMALE. ITS TRUE IN MY TIME WE NEVER CALLED ON A GUY, TODAY ITS DIFFERENT. PEOPLE DO NOT NEED TO PLAY HARD TO GET, ITS CHILDISH, AND NOT SINCERE. SO CALL THIS GUY CHAT FIRST, THEN ASK. GOOD LUCK DEAR
playing hard to get is about not giving in to o fast or otherwise someone might think you are loose. It does work at times but at other times it might put someone off. On your situation it is probably better to do so for if a guy is reaally interested in you he will call you or text you, It also deopends on how you met and ypou guys met at a club so its much better to do so while you learn what kind of guy he is. Good luck.
Some times playing hard to get can loose you a good man. Try talking to him the next time you see him. Keep it general, talk about simple things such as your intrests, the music in the room, if he's intrested he'll keep talking. If he doesn't ask you out ask him out to cofee, make it non threating if it doesn't feel like a come on he may take the lead after the coffee if he doesn't he's not intrested. If it works always keep a conversation because without one your relation wont last after the magic of the first part of dating begins. Look for compatibility, that lasts forever then look for the sexual attraction
It depends on the guy. Most men enjoy the chase. You can play hard to get. Call him, tell him you will call him again at a certain time. But don't call. He'll be wondering and waiting for you call.Heeheehee...Just make sure that the conversation you have with him is one that will get a reaction from him.(it could even be a voice mail) The book the Art of Seduction is great! Get it if you can. Playing hard to get can work. Just remember you plan is ';to get'; not make him run away.
You aren't a natural games-player and you know it.



If you like the man ring him and invite him for a sunday walk.
You know that you are playing hard to get and would like to be pursued but he probably thinks your just not interested or lost whatever interest you had in him...Confident guys move on to another girl that doesen't play mind games...
Well you could call him for a change. Stop the texting. Just talk on the phone with him and ask him if hed be interested in trying to go on a date again. It is likely when he tried the first time he figured you flaked on him and therefore were only wasting his time. Call him, if you ask him out and he says yes, bot hmake clear time commitments and see what happens. Good luck.
no dont play hard to get, some guys just aren't up for it or they just don't know that your playing hard to get at all, he may just think you dont like him. if you really like this guy, then don't play a stupid game or else you might never get a chance to be with him.
I don't feel he is worth your time, if you are unsure then 99% of the time you will be right. ^-^
if he respected you he would be calling u at a decent hour i feel u being put on stand by when he drinking when he cant get anything better sorry! loose him and find someone decent
';Playin' hard to get'; is not a mind game. Your face should always light up when you make eye contact with him upon first meeting. Greet him warmly. Let him know that you are happy to see him. Talk with him for about 10 minutes whether in person or by phone, then excuse yourself and hang up, or move on [when at a social function ]. It's okay to talk with him again, but again limit it to no more than 10 - 12 minutes. Then move on. Keep yourself occupied, you'll come across as slightly mysterious. It's up to him to arrange for a date. Regardless of whether there has been some miscommunication between messages, if he wants to contact you, let him be the one to initiate it. Don't call him. A confident woman always knows how a man feels about her because he will do whatever he has to do to get the point across to her, that he finds her to be appealing. If you phone him, you'll be putting him on the spot and give the impression that you are insecure. I would never date a man who ignored me, or didn't take the time to pursue me passionately as tho I were Marilyn Monroe, reincarinated.
He would call you at a decent hour if he was interested.move on.

Who's the worst NHL Play by Play person?

Seeing as how I live in Canada, I'm stuck with Canadian play by play guys, so I was wondering if there are any ones elsewhere that are REALLY bad?



By the way, my vote goes to Joe Bowen and Harry Neale from the Leafs.



Bowen SCREAMS at every little thing, even if it is just a harmless shot from the blueline, and his ';Holy Macanaw'; is used way too much now.



Harry Neale reminds me of those announcers from video games who after playing 3 games you've heard everything they're gonna say and they keep repeating themselves. Everytime there is a slash that brakes a stick he always says ';The DNA evidence is on the ice to prove it'; or if someone gets hit with a high stick he always says ';he tried his hardest to bleed but couldnt do it'; (referring to the 4 minute high sticking rule)Who's the worst NHL Play by Play person?
All the Leafs` players are the worst in the LNH. The b盲stards took our chance to play in the play off.... next season we`re gonna make it to the finals!! Go Habs Go!

How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

how can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

i need good advise fast!! i let one of my friends know that i like the guy in our job, my friend who's really my x sister in law because she's divorced from my brother always was jellous of me. well my x-sister in law was working at this job 3 years before me, so she knows everybody their before me. i just started this job one month ago and this really cute guy got my attention, i would always see him staring at me and once in a while he would say hi, or something like that, but ever since i told my x sister in law that l really like this guy, i feel he tries to keep away from me even hide. i suspect she told him i like him, well how can i fix this problem and is their a way i can have a chance with this really cute guy or has he lost interest in me?How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
your friend messed it all up for sure..asking her is the only way to find out about the whole thing but she doesnt sound reliable!How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
Do you really trust your sister in law
Sounds like your ex sister in law told him some bad stuff about you. And now he is freaked out.
Approach him and ask him if your x sister in law said anything to him to make him uncomforable around you. You could explain to him that your xsister in law and you are not always on the best terms and that she has been known to bad mouth you...and see if that is the reason he is avoiding you...maybe she told him you hate him...who knows?
If he ';lost'; interest in you because he found out you were interested in him, then - sad to say - that's a pretty clear sign he wasn't interested in you to begin with, at least not romantically.



Of course, it could be that your wicked ex-S.I.L. used the knowledge that you liked him against you in a different way. Maybe she didn't tell him you liked him. Maybe she told him something bad (and likely, untrue) about you, just because you like him. Is she that spiteful?



There is only one grown-up way to settle this and get on with your life: put on your confident-woman shoes, channel the spirit of Carrie Bradshaw, and ASK HIM OUT. Yes, if he rejects you, it will be an embarrassing two minutes, but then you'll know exactly where you stand, you can stop obsessing, and start dating someone new. The ';hard to get'; routine really should not continue past high school.
No sense beating a dead horse! He has lost interest, probably because of something she told him or just by himself....move on

P.S: DON'T EAT WHERE YOU SHIIT!
Almost the same thing happend to me and the guy I liked went away for a while.I started to forget about him and live my life and be me and he came back around.I guess guys are just weird at times and have to be looked over.So I think u still have a great chance.Just don't be nervous around him act like theres no problem you have to worry about be confident.He'll be attached soon.

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How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

how can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

how can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

i need good advise fast!! i let one of my friends know that i like the guy in our job, my friend who's really my x sister in law because she's divorced from my brother always was jellous of me. well my x-sister in law was working at this job 3 years before me, so she knows everybody their before me. i just started this job one month ago and this really cute guy got my attention, i would always see him staring at me and once in a while he would say hi, or something like that, but ever since i told my x sister in law that l really like this guy, i feel he tries to keep away from me even hide. i suspect she told him i like him, well how can i fix this problem and is their a way i can have a chance with this really cute guy or has he lost interest in me?How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
I would approach him and just ask what she said about me, he may tell you or may not. It will put him on the spot and give him a chance to say something to you, if he likes you. Good luck and don't ex SIL nothing else.How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
Only way for you to know is to strike up a conversation with him. Casually get to chat with him and see if you can arrange a lunch break together.



You have to start somewhere, if you want to know him well.
always was jealous of you? sorry to say it, but i think you were backstabbed by your best friend.



think about it.



since she's single and has known him longer than you have, maybe she has a thing for him too. maybe she told the guy you liked that he should stay away from you- that you are a skank... etc. etc.



even if you don't believe what i'm saying, you should at least confront the guy and ask him why he hasn't been speaking to you. that's the only way to get to the heart of the matter.



good luck, girl! ^_^
Er... you probably won't like my advice, but here goes:



Playing hard-to-get is old school. By that I mean, forget about it. It doesn't strike too deep into what a real relationship with that guy will be like. Playing games is just that--games. But don't take my word for it. In my experience, playing hard to get was merely a waste of time and I wound up attracting more muck from the bottom of the pond than I struck it rich, if you know what I mean. I would talk to the guy of interest. Then again, I wouldn't be interested in a guy simply because he was 'cute'
Your x sister in law probably told him things that would make him not interested in you, since she's jealous of you. Confront him and ask him if she talks about you or just start telling him she is a compulsive liar and he'll second guess what she said about you. or you could play the game....make up something about HIM and ask him about it pretending that your x sister in law said it and you just wanted to clear the rumor. you'll look like the hero!
Just let it be. Go about your business. If he's interested, he'll come around. And don't tell your ';friend'; anything else!

How do i ';play it cool'; with a guy i like?

i'm always easy when it comes to guy.

no guy really has to work hard to get with me and i think that ruins the fun for them.

how do i play it cool and kinda make them work a little??

i just want a no care attitude...???How do i ';play it cool'; with a guy i like?
You have the right idea!!! I'm really glad you realized that being easy doesnt work. being like that will keep guys around for just as long as they can have fun with you, or get all that they can until they get bored. its sad but true. you have to be a little distant. best relationship book i ever read: why men love bitches. the author didnt mean b***** as in a mean snotty woman. just someone that stands up for herself and doesnt take any crap from anybody. if they do something wrong, say it. dont let them slide and dont complain in a whiny way. just say it matter of factly. it takes a lot of confidence. just tell yourself that you are a goddess, and worthy of only the best. if someone is not at that standard, let them go. and also, dont ALWAYS be available. if they ask u out tell them that you will have to check your schedule and get back to them later. they will be intrigued. and dont always run when they call. they will want you more and more. im glad someone is getting smart on here!

How do i play hard to get?

okay so next year i will be going to the 10th grade..And im going to be all about school, and my sports, volleyball and track..I really have my eye on a 6 foot 3 guy with a nice body and about his school and sports too. he plays football and basketball. anyways i wear very nice clothes,jewelry. and i don't want ANY guy to pull me if he wanted. no sirrr



so i wanted to know how can i act like i don't care or not even intrested even if i am?How do i play hard to get?
Don't talk to him.

Wait until he talks with you.

That is if you guys have already spoken before.



Also,

Don't call him.

Let him call you.



Get where i'm going?How do i play hard to get?
Try to act like you don't care, or that you're not even interested.

Who's the worst NHL Play by Play person?

Seeing as how I live in Canada, I'm stuck with Canadian play by play guys, so I was wondering if there are any ones elsewhere that are REALLY bad?





By the way, my vote goes to Joe Bowen and Harry Neale from the Leafs.





Bowen SCREAMS at every little thing, even if it is just a harmless shot from the blueline, and his ';Holy Macanaw'; is used way too much now.





Harry Neale reminds me of those announcers from video games who after playing 3 games you've heard everything they're gonna say and they keep repeating themselves. Everytime there is a slash that brakes a stick he always says ';The DNA evidence is on the ice to prove it'; or if someone gets hit with a high stick he always says ';he tried his hardest to bleed but couldnt do it'; (referring to the 4 minute high sticking rule)Who's the worst NHL Play by Play person?
That irritating radio guy for the Sabres is pretty bad. Annoying voice and he has to scream ';score'; for at least 5 minutes after a goal in the highest pitched voice ever uttered by a male.





I'm not a big fan of the Penguins local TV announcers, mostly because I love the amazing Mike Lange who used to do it and now does the Pens radio broadcast.Who's the worst NHL Play by Play person?
mike lange is a TOTAL ASSHOLE

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Say what you will about Rick Jearnerette. He's as much a part of Sabres hockey as anyone on the team. We all love him. RJ calls the game with the excitment that all us Sabres fan have when we're watching them.

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the tampa bay chief is not about hockey. spends all time criti.. ref..

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jim hughson dude. that guys voice just plain pisses me off.
earlier this year, i was in pittsburgh for a game and watched thier local guy, i don't know his name, but he was horrible. it was boring, like watching a baseball game, zero emotion, zero inflection. just boring.
I don't know but the best is Gary Thorne.
The Colorado guys...





not sure their names, but during intermission, they showed some out of town scores.





lo and behold they get to a Sabres game and, of course, the Sabres hosed the team they were playing and Rick Jeanneret was going crazy.





So the guy in Colorado proceeds to say: ';And this guy would go bonkers 5 more times.';





#1 - Being excited about the sport and your team winning is a good thing.





#2 - Who the hell are you??? Some herb *** living in Aspen...RJ is written about in hockey commentator legend..





Wake up Colorado dudes.
The announcers on Versus. I don't even know who they are; I mute the TV and turn the radio on to listen to Rick Jeanneret so that I hear hockey instead of them talking about what they wore to dinner last Thursday night. OMG they're AWFUL!
Every one on VS except for John Forslund %26amp; Mike Emrick. They have to be the best by far, but other than them all the rest of the broadcasters on VS are the worst. They never call the game and just talk and laugh back and forth. Its annoying as crap.-
Really? You don't like Harry Neale? I love him, he's just so old school, and you know he knows everything there is to know about the game.





One year during the playoffs, Scotty Bowman (who lives right near Neale in Buffalo) was driving up to the Leafs games with Harry and all I could think of is how do I stow away in the backseat and just listen to these two geniuses.





I of course will say the best is Rick Jennerette. He's the most enthusiastic, insightful, entertaining guy around. You never know what he's going to say and he can make a dull game exciting.
Dude...I love Bowen. He's the best one out there. The best thing about him is that he makes it really exciting since you are listening to it on radio. Many radio announcers are soo boring. I know many people who mute the TV and listen to Bowen's commentary whilst watching TV. IMHO, Bowen is one of the best out there. I hope you're not hating him because you're an Ottawa fan and he's from the Leafs :) I've been listening to him from way back in the 80's. Nowadays, Bowen only does the Saturday games for the Leafs on the radio.
Anyone on Versus...I can't stand listening to them! I die a little on the inside when I hear their crappy commentating.





Let's Go Pens!!!
whoever is doing the game for the sharks/predators game right now....calling the penalty box the bad boy box is a bit too much
Has to be Pierre McGuire on TSN. This guys voice is more irritating then my ex-wife's.
Right Now If u put Doc ';Mike'; Emrick and Harry Neale Together for a devils game, you would love that couple and would want to hear them again, joe bowen can suck my ****
Used to be John Davidson, he would do all of the nationally broadcasted games, was very good, but now he's president of the st.louis blues
are either one of these guys the one who dresses up thinks he looks good but looks like a clown(a canadian announcer)?if one of them are i would say you hit the nail on the head,i can't even listen to him!!!!!
Chico Resch and Doc Emerick of the Devils broadcast.





Yesterday they had the trivia and Sergei Brylin was one of the choices, and Chico and Doc were discussing the ansers and I quote Chico here ';Yeah I dont think its gays (Sergei, trying to sound all cool by shortening the name) was playing that long';. And Doc is the king of throwing long vocabulary words into spots they dont belong, I was watching a Devils Islanders game, and if you know the Isles jerseys the dashes on the shoulder he said ';And the Islanders are wearing their home blue with the white and orange chevrons on the shoulder';.





I was watching a game earlier this year where Madden was behind the net and threw a pass to Dowd at the far blueline who went in and scored, the puck was on the ice and popped over the Florida d-man, and Chico started saying how Madden was brilliant and planned that, the puck hit a rut in the ice and it popped over his stick. Every save by Brodeur is his greatest save ever, and the Devils never make a mistake, everything is always perfect by the Devils. And Doc has a new saying this year ';very deliberately';, ';And Elias very deliberately dumps it on net, and it kareeeeems off the post and into the corner';. And Doc is so annoying when the Devils score, its a crescendo and then the puck is in the net SCOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRE. And of course every puck can go in according to him, so he starts screaming when they dump the puck on net, then of course Chico makes the save seem like the greatest save Brodeur has ever made, terrible just terrible.





I could go on and on about those 2.
those idiots on versus.....i cant stand em, luckely so far all the games on versus have also been on cbc, they are much better on cbc.....but i like fsn detroit, i'm pretty sure you dont get that but those guys are the best.
I think the announcers on VS or OLN or whatever the hell the call themselves this year are by far the worse ever. I hate when my team (Sabres) play on VS because then I can hear one of the best announcers Rick Jennerette. He really makes a game exciting. The guys on VS sit there and talk about the most irrelevant stuff ever. Just call the game and sound a little excited about will ya's????

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How do I deal with an out of town relationship with a guy I just met 2 months ago who left for a job(temporary?

I met a really great guy 2 months ago who just left for a job out of town for an undetermined time. I was told to play ';hard to get'; and not always answer the phone when he calls. Is this the way to date? I need some advice this since I don't really want to lose him-or should I just give up on this relationship since I won't be seeing him much?How do I deal with an out of town relationship with a guy I just met 2 months ago who left for a job(temporary?
move on its over

Does this guy like me anymore or is he just playing hard to get?

theres this guy. hes like overly popular and is in 3 of my classes...so its hard to not see him. but over the past three months....hes been hearing rumors about me liking him (they're true....no reason in lying now...) and well...after he heard this realli big rumor that i wanted to date him he kinda started hanging around me more... you know how guys kinda go out of their way to be on the same side of the room as you? well thats wat he was doing...he was smiling and looking deep into my eyes....wen i decided to make a drastic move.....i figured he was over me. because for the past three weeks he hasnt given me the littlest stare. not even a hi. i would say hi and he'd shrug.....i have a better realtionship with a random monkey in the chimpanzee section of the zoo......but....jus wondering...i know he liked me before...but has he just gotten bored?? and if he has.....wat can i do capture his attention again?Does this guy like me anymore or is he just playing hard to get?
looks like he is after 1 thing.. and that's what's between your legs..

What is the best way to get a guy to fall hard for me?

I have been seeing this guy for the last 2 months and I really like him. But he comes straight from the movie, ';Failure to Launch.'; He seems to be so content to stay that way. Never been married, still lives with his folks, and does whatever he wants. But when we are together he is so good to me! And he is so good to my kids. But I new from the beginning he was a player. How do I get him to quit playing and fall head over hills for me?What is the best way to get a guy to fall hard for me?
YOU DON'T, JUST BE YOURSELF AND ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE WITH HIM, HE IS LIVING HIS LIFE AS HE WANTS, WHAT DO YOU CARE? WHY THE HURRY TO MARRY,? HAVE FUN AT LEAST HE IS INCLUDING YOU IN IT. SO WHAT IF HE LIVES WITH HIS PARENTS? RENT IS HIGH THESE DAYS, NOTHING WRONG WITH LIVING HOME, HE IS JUST DOING HIS THING. GIVE HIM SOME SLACK.....What is the best way to get a guy to fall hard for me?
Give him some time, do no push. Show him how happy a family of his own could be, do things and include the kids. Then again, he may be happy with his life and no one could change his mind right now. He sounds like a gentleman, but he may also be a mama's boy, probably pays no rent, she cooks for him, washes his clothes and he likes it like this. If he is a mama's boy, it might be a little harder to make him fall hard. Besides, slow down, what will be will be.

How do I keep a new guy interested?

I do not want to sleep with him for a while but I want to keep him interested. he has been single for 3 years and seems that he is the unattainable type, but I know he likes me because he wants to spend time together quite often. Do I play hard to get?date other guys?How do I keep a new guy interested?
dont be dating other guys that may give him the oppurtunity to find other women %26amp; i wouldnt play too hard to getHow do I keep a new guy interested?
Make him jealous and tell him you're going out with me.



Now that I have your attention, just be real, no games and be adult if it's appropriate.
be flirty with him be fun be a tease hell liek it...if he doesn't maek the first move you ask him out
dont date other guys. because that will give him the impression that your are not interested in him and he'll move on to someone else. play hard to get. it always gives guys a challenge and it most defiantly keeps the guy interested. it would make him want to know more about you, thus by spending more time together, he'll eventually want to get involved in a relationship with you. hope this helps good luck. =]

How do i play hard to get when hes playing hard to get too!?

okay so theres this guy and we have dated a few times but its odd i always have to be the one to text him or call him and if were at a party i always have to go up and say hello to him and if i dont he wont. and so when im with him he will flirt with every girl but me and he acts like hes ingoring me. but then he always wants to hookup later in the night.

and so one of my friends asked him what was going on between us and he said hes playing hard to get.

and i know him well enough to know he always wants what he cant have.

but last time i tried playing hard to get he got upset with me

how should i play hard to get and make him want me even more?

any help!!

please!How do i play hard to get when hes playing hard to get too!?
keep playing games, you'll go far in lifeHow do i play hard to get when hes playing hard to get too!?
hes not that into you!!!! in the first place...move on!
You CAN'T.



Use logic. If BOTH of you are playing hard to get (being passive) how will you get together????



Answer: You won't. ONE of you has to make a move.
If you BOTH play hard to get, you're going to defeat the purpose of getting to know each other.



Helpful Tip: Playing hard to get only makes you look bad. People can tell you're trying TOO hard and games aren't appealing to many people.



What's hotter? Being bold and walking UP to the guy and talking to him.
well why don't you try this: for about 5 days or 5 opportunities of seeing him don't call or talk to him for reasons like ';u didn't notice him'; or ';you were busy';(they really don't like that one) and i know he will talk to you or call you out of the blue to see ';whats up'; if not then he's probably not that to you



try it

good luck!
Stop playing games. Stop letting this guy use you for sex. What is there for you in the relationship? You might get him playing hard to get, but once you give in he will be gone. He isn't the only guy like that in the world. They are everywhere and they leave nothing but heartache in their paths. You can't get someone to ';want you more';. Either the feelings are there or they aren't. I'm sorry to say that it sounds like they aren't with this situation. However, once you except that and move on he will suddenly ';appear'; to care. That will last just long enough to get you back to where he wants you and where you don't want to be.



P.S. You can't win a man with sex. Stop having sex with a guy that doesn't treat you with respect ALL of the time.
Without being unkind, it does sound like he is using you.

You need to really step back from this relationship and see how he reacts once you arn't available at the next party or to return emails perhaps. Playing games is okay for awhile but this could wear you down in the long run not knowing where you stand with him. Good Luck with him !

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Playing hard to get diminish with time ?

for gurls and maybe guyz who care, you know how some gurls always play hard to get cos maybe they think guyz will keep flocking their way, now as single gurls get older (whichever age works for you) do you still play hard to get when a guy comes around, even if its one you didn't picture or one u consider ';Mr. Right';...Playing hard to get diminish with time ?
Yes playing hard to get does diminish with time.

When chicks get older they usually don't play that game unless they're at a bar and want the guy to buy them a couple of drinks. I wouldn't if I didn't consider they guy ';Mr.right';.



That's how I feel.

Hope I helped :)Playing hard to get diminish with time ?
ha, i still play hard to get sometimes, like when me and a guy first meet i do because it makes me laugh and i'm a humerous type of person. but after a while or so i just stop. and i don't really look for the Mr. Right. becauseee how am i supposed to know what he looks like and all that good stuff. i don't think anyone should go looking, i think that they should just wait from them to come to them( :



-katiee

How do I know if this guy is just playing me or if he's legit interested?

There is this guy that I've been talking to for like a month now and me and him had a thing going on a few weeks ago where he would send me flirty text messages, call me ';babe'; and ';hun';, would constantly hold my hand, ignore his friends to be with me, and walk me to class. Great right? Then one day he just stops. I wait a few days to bring it up thinking that maybe he is just in a bad mood. Finally I bring it up and he won't give me an explination. We stop talking and now we are talking again. It's three weeks later and he tells me he was using me to get over some girl when I asked him what happened between us. He admits that he was a jerk and says that I have every right to be mad at him even though I'm not. Now he is flirting with me again and all this and he got this huge smile on his face the other day when I sarcastically said ';love you too babe'; when he was making fun of me. When I asked why he was smiling, he said ';you finally said you loved me'; and he smiles some more. If all this is happening, why does he ignore me at school? Is he just using me again? I do flirt back a lot but at the same time I don't want to seem easy and I want to play hard to get. What should I do?How do I know if this guy is just playing me or if he's legit interested?
the perfecft idea is to keep ignoring him and palying hard to get, but don't ingore him too much..i know that sounds confusing but that's the way you gotto play it, maintain a perfect balance and don't seem to disinterested but don't make yourself look too interested at the same time. hard to get is the way to go i tihnk at least in this situation :D hope i helped/made senseHow do I know if this guy is just playing me or if he's legit interested?
ignore him back and see how he reacts.

Lost and Confused, Need Dating Advice?

We are both 21 and I have been dating this girl for over two months and I have really fallen for her. Weve had some amazing evenings and have so much fun when we are together. She tells me her cheeks hurt when shes around me because she can never stop smiling and says Im such a gentleman for treating her with respect, telling her how beautiful she looks, and remembering all the little things. But after two months, Im the only one that makes an effort to hangout and be together. Ive met her family and her parents love me, but she has not introduced me to any of her friends. About a month into dating, she said to me she thinks she is too young for a relationship which really hurt because it was the day before I planned on setting up a really romantic evening and ask her to be my gf. The dates kept going into what it has become now. We have not talked or seen each other for over a week. I then texted her today and she responded right back saying she misses me and thats where the convo ends once again.



Im really broken up over this, is it worth it for me to continue to ask for evenings to go out knowing that as soon as she leaves my arms I will once again have to plan another time to see each other because she wont. Im being told so many different things by my buddies to do and Im even more confused now. Im too nice and honest of a guy to play hard to get or mindgames, so how do I go about telling her that it bothers me she makes no effort to make time for me when I care so much for her and just want to be with her. Love hurts....Lost and Confused, Need Dating Advice?
Persistance is key !

If you really care about her, show her.

If you just give up, she'll think you didn't care enough to try and do everything you could do to get her.

It sounds like it could turn into something, to me.

So just keep trying. Don't give up on it.Lost and Confused, Need Dating Advice?
I think you should just ask her how she feels. Alot of girls her age are insecure and altho they want to be with the guy, they aren't sure if he feels the same way so they pull back. I think she is very interested in you and she, just like you, don't know where you 2 stand. Tell her you want her to be your gf. But also tell her that you're not sure if she feels the same way because she never initiates dates. Be honest. She will be relieve and you will too.
mary a guy
Sorry for your situation. You have gotten in too deep. Relax about it, if it's meant to be it will work itself out. Spend your time developing your own interests, then you can share them with her if she comes around. If not, you have moved yourself from within the obsession to not thinking about it so much. Have a serious talk with her after you have settled down to the fact that maybe she doesn't care for you on that level anymore. Ask her. The most important thing in a relationship is COMMUNICATION.
Love does hurt.



Don't give up though. Yes, it might hurt, your heart might be crushed and everything, but think about it. Will it be worth it if you end up having her in your arms? I have been in your place, and the thought of pain is completely erased by the good memories that she brings.



Keep planning those evenings, she might be a little confused as well. Then tell her how much she means to you and that you don't want her to leave, you want her to stay.



If she doesn't want to, then just let it go. keep being nice, maybe someday she will come to her senses and something will work.



But don't give up! it's worth the try, with me, I ended up with the girl of my dreams even though I had to work hard to get her.



Best of luck! it will all go alright
Just lay it out and tell her how you feel. The key to a good relationship is communication. She's not a mind reader and assumes everything is ok. If it doesn't work out, just move on. Love hurts, but it won't kill you. Good luck kiddo!
i'm sorry, i don't want to give the wrong advice but do what you think is best. why don't you try calling her up and meet up somewhere? talk about the situation. and remember, it's only been 2 months. you need to slow it down more even if you feel you've known each other for quite a while. believe me, you discover new things about each other even if you've known each other for 3 years or so. keep it casual but romantic. if she's too young to date, fine. go with the flow. remember, your relationship doesn't need a title. if you like her, and she likes you too, that's what matters right now
dont be too nice of a man. you call yourself a man but you act like a girl. lol. j/k. but anyways, you seem pretty sensitive, girls dont need that, they need a man. and if she says shes too young, it can be that also, in which you have to respect it. shes 21 and she wants to have fun. be there to hang out with her and just have fun first. but if you are serious bout this girl then tell her, be honest and have confidence. tell her the last sentence you wrote here. find out why shes drifting away form you. and if she tells you she doesnt wanna be with you then let it go bro. dating game is like fishing. na mean??



HAVE A NICE DAY!!!
well for one..yea love does hurt. secondly, i would suggest that you not play games either. you need to seriously have a talk with her and be completely open and honest about your feelings. tell her you really enjoy spending time with her and like being around her but you feel like she may not feel the same way. you don't want to end up putting your all into this ';relationship'; and then become even more heartbroken when she doesn't reciprocate. just be upfront with her and hopefully she will be upfront with you. tell her you want things to be clear from the get go so there aren't any misconceptions. i hope that helps!
you seem like a nice guy, don't let this girl get you wrapped around her finger. You should just talk to her and tell her that she needs to make some effort if the relationship is to continue. If she doesn't agree to that, then you should pry end the relationship. There's no point in wasting your time with someone who doesn't want a relationship with you. I know its hard but you have to do whats best for you.
you should tell her how u feel, like what u have said. tell her that y she doesn't make any effort to hang out or whatever. maybe she donest want to hangout with u anymore. ';About a month into dating, she said to me she thinks she is too young for a relationship'; i think that is an clue that she want to break up with u or something. it seem that she doesn't know how to tell u that. try to pick up any clue that she want to break up with. i mean if she did liked u and all, she would be making plans with u and all. good luck.
She likes the attention obviously. Plus, she's the one playing hard to get.

If she loves you enough she would initiate a move to see you again. try to decrease your attention and see how she reacts.
You seem like a very sweet guy, you should just tell her the truth and tell her how your feeling, you said it your self your a very honest guy. Im not trying to sound harsh but it's not like if your loosing anything if you tell her how you feel, it sounds like you like her more than she likes you. You are still young and there are lots of girls that would like to go out with a guy like you . Quit waiting around for a girl that doesn't seem so interested in a relationship, she said it her self she's not ready for a relationship. If you really like her and feel like You guys are meant to be together then just tell her that you guys need a break. A BREAK not broken up permanently! In that break you can hangout with friends and see if you really do miss her and if you still want to continue with the relationship. Also in that break it would show your girlfriend if she really wants to be in a relationship or if she jut wants to have friends and not a boyfriend.
Next time she says she misses you ask her when she wants to go out and when the date is set say something like ';i feel like we always do what I want to do, so this time you call the shots.'; This way you are still taking initiative in inviting her out, but its up to her to plan something to do. If she tries to pull the old ';it doesn't matter to me'; insist! Ask her if there's something she always wanted to do, something new to try out? And go with it
I actually just got out of a relationship sort of like this, and my advice is just leave it alone for a while. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, and at the same time the more you mess with it, the more you are going to get yourself hurt. I know that this is hard to do, especially if you are one of those nice, sensitive guys that do everything within your power to make your girlfriend happy, but it really is for the best. If she likes you then she will try to contact you. If she doesn't, then you have saved yourself a little heartache. If you try to make it work over and over again, eventually things will fall apart and you will get hurt even more. Trust me, I know. I wish you all the luck in the world on this one, beacuse I know how badly a relationship falling apart can hurt.

Should i play hard to get to keep her interested? im confused?

soo i met this girl a couple weeks ago and we made out and what not...she said that she really liked me and i really like her....she lives kinda far away like 30 minutes by car and i dont have one yet...so we have been talking online...but in the last week she just dosent seem as interested or at all interested in me..i always talk to her when shes online but she dosent seam as eager to talk to me anymore..i also told her i thought she diddnt like me and she said tht she was on social strike thts why she wouldent talk to me...idk im confused...does she not like me anymore because she likes the challange of trying to get a guy to like her and i was to easy, and if i start to ignore her will tht boost her interest in me back up? why do people like to play hard to get and all these games with peoples emotions ...its really frustrating!! how can you really like someone and then just ignore that person because they like to talk to you..Should i play hard to get to keep her interested? im confused?
People play hard to get to frustrate people and get control of their mind and their emotions.



The game is as old as time itself. The problem is, despite popular belief, you can't play hard to get. You are either hard to get or you aren't. You are not hard to get, so you can't play that card.



She's probably not playing hard to get, she probably doesn't like you that much. But she lied to you, so it's time for you to fire back.



You are going to talk to her on the internet and tell her you like her, but it's too bad she's busy being alone. Really put the screws to her on this one, sounds like she is pretty resilient. Play on cultural stereotypes. For instance, tell her it's too bad you're a guy and you can go up to any girl you want and ask her out, while she has to sit around and wait for a half way decent guy. Even if it isn't true, she'll believe it because it's part of cultural stereotypes.



Tell her it doesn't matter anyway you just wanted to sleep with her. Say ';I'm gonna buy two 40's and send one to your house. A cheap girl deserves a cheap drink. We can toast to your misery and you can get drunk and hate your life alone in your empty room.';



End it like this: ';Sorry i've got to go meet a real girl who knows how to have some fun at this big football game tonight. It's too bad, there are going to be lots of guys there, you could have come with me at least as a friend. Oh well, you're on social strike, and I have no more time to cyber with the internet girls who sit at home and chat alone. Enjoy your social strike. I hope you're not old and wrinkly by the time you figure out how to have fun with a guy. I'll IM you when I get back, I already know you're going to try to ignore me because you couldn't win an argument if your life depended on it. But I want to make sure you not sitting around like a loser.';



You win. Believe me this is no worse than trying to tease her with hard to get. If you can't pull this off, leave her alone. All that will end up happening is she'll come to the realization she was attacked by a weakling. She'll get depressed and angry, not frustrated and fiery.Should i play hard to get to keep her interested? im confused?
sounds like shes possibly bored??? i think she thinks th relationship is going nowhere. i mean she likes u, u like her. ASK HER OUT ALREADY!!! shes waiting!!! n set up a date or something lol
IGNORE HER!



Sadly, you have to play the game. Once she calls you maybe you can ask her if she has talked to her friends about you, sometimes friends are the ones telling you not to call the guy, or telling her to look for a boy that has a car. Make sure they're not turning her against you!



good luck
oh... ignore her... do not pay attention and she will be back, right now she things she have you anyways... stay online but do not say a word untill she says hi... dont go after her... she will be after you.

by the way i dont think she is a good choice if she plays game...but it is up to you
listen 2 me . an exactly trying it wiz ur self.

if u love a women let her hold 2 know how she wanna 2 be touched.u,ve got 2 know her realy . teast her . u have 2 feel her in ur blood when u see unboren child in her eyes . u know realy u loued a women, himo. X
Sounds to me like she may be pushing you away. I don't think that she really knows what she wants. It could be that the long distance thing isn't working for her....Good luck!

Guy issue?????????????????

Guy issue?????????????

there is this guy i like and i think he likes me back.but how do i know for sure some of the things he does that make me think he likes me is he looks at me alot he will once in a while try to get my attention by either bumping into me or complimenting me on somthing i do. but im not sure if tht mean he likes me or im just like thinking to much of it. he will talk to me a little and smile at me somtimes.what is ur take on this do u think he likes me or do u think im blowing this out of porporsion. and if u think he likes me what shoud i do to start a conversation with him



also do u guys think i should play hard to get or just go and start talking to him because im playing hard to get now and its working for me...but i dont know him that well yet but so should i play it hard to get and cool?Guy issue?????????????????
Don't play hard to get it's the biggest turn off. So do this, talk about all the guys you don't like, then when he ask ';what about me?'; you could say that all the guys you mentioned are guys you would not have a relationship with. If he's clever enough he should get what your trying to hint at, if not then ask him what girls he wouldn't go out on a date with.

best way to solve

Ok things that are actually true about guys, written from a guy?

I wrote this list because there's always a bunch of bs lists written by people who AREN'T actually guys. so id thought id make my own. its fine if you don't agree, just post your opinion. some are the same as other lists. these arent guidelines, but they're general.



1.Guys are pigs, and sometimes they are pigs just for the sake of being pigs. Other times they don't know what they are doing.

2.Guys are very touchy feely.

3.Guys love a girl's smile, or a girl's hug, even if he only sees her as a friend.

4.Guys are a lot softer on the inside than they seem, because showing your emotions is weakness.

5.There's definitely a difference when a guy is just annoyed, or when he's really angry.

6.The nice guy does finish last, but definitely ends up the happiest.

7.Guys are simple people, but their feelings are pretty complicated.

8.Lots of guys are really superficial, these ones are usually immature, the mature ones will like you for you.

9.Guys take pride in having a lot of friends, but at the end of the day, they just want to be alone.

10.Guys say they like girls or talk about which ones are hot way too much.

11.Rarely does a guy say a girl is beautiful, because when he does, he really means it.

12.Guys normally have no clue about flower colors, we're more concerned about buying you something pretty.

13.Guys can be drama queens too.

14.Guys look for girls that are like their moms, mostly without knowing it.

15.Guys love to be wanted by girls, but doesn't mean he likes any of them back.

16.A guy will only tell you he loves you if he really means it.

17.Guys have limited control over their body language.

18.A guys facial expressions and body language are often completely unrelated to what he's actually thinking.

19.Guys think more than people get them credit for.

20.Jerks think with their dick.

21.Guys take things way too literally alot.

22.Guys overthink a lot of things.

23.Guys hate fakes.

24.Guys are attracted to teases, but deep down inside, they like straightforwardness.

25.Guys aren't normally open about themselves.

26.Guys don't like getting dirty as much as you think.

27.Guys think smart is sexy.

28.Like girls go for bad boys, guys go for girls that hurt them.

29.Guys are willing to shoulder more blame than they actually should.

30.A guy can spend all day flirting, but when he tries to sleep at night, the one girl that really matters keeps him awake a little bit longer.

31.When a guy talks serious, he really means business.

32.Guys are pretty sentimental.

33.Guys like to listen also.

34.Guys like athletic girls, but not ones stronger than them.

35.A smile and a hug does more than a gift.

36.When he gets rejected by a girl he really likes, he'll sometimes go off thinking forever about how he isn't good enough.

37. If a guy doesn't feel any pain whatsoever after a rejection, he only wanted you for one thing.

38.Guys like to talk things out too.

39.A guy's weakest point is the heart.

40.A guy that admits fear but is willing to face it is a keeper, a guy that says he doesn't fear is a liar.

41.A guy can let you go, but it doesn't mean he's stopped thinking about you.

42.A guy needs experience, not instruction.

43.When a guy stares at you, it doesn't mean he's undressing you in his mind.

44.Guys think girls give better advice.

45.If a guy says you're cute, it probably means he only sees you as a friend.

46.Guys have a harder time getting over girls than girls have getting over guys.

47.Guys obsess over what to say to strike up a conversation.

48.Guys are really bad at playing hard to get.

49.Guys hate talking about their exs.

50.Guys would tell you a lot of things, but they can't.

51.When a guy cries over something, it meant the world to him.

52.Guys would sacrifice time and money just for little things to make a girl happy.

53.One compliment by a girl can build a guy up, and one insult can tear him down.

54.Guys try not to give a **** about gossip, but this normally doesn't work out.

55.Guys like it a lot when they are asked for advice.

56.When a guy gets possessive, it's a sign of weakness.

57.Guys don't understand girls most of the time.

58.What guys actually do know, is how a girl thinks of herself and presents herself, we know that pretty much on sight.

59.Lots of guys actually aren't that secure about their sexuality.

60.When a guy doesn't let you go, you mean the world to him.Ok things that are actually true about guys, written from a guy?
aww you wrote that? if i knew you i'd probably like you :)



you sound really sweet :D



star for you ;)Ok things that are actually true about guys, written from a guy?
pretty good list i think like most of these

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aww thats cute you wrote out all of that. i loveee 30%26amp;60 (:

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Thank you. =)
Hahaha i love the first one!
46.Guys have a harder time getting over girls than girls have getting over guys.



although i don't know if this is actually true .. i would love it to be right now :) lol



this is an awesome list by the waaay .. gives a lot of perspectiveee ! :)
Good list. Most of them are true. I especially like numbers 3, 30, 36, 43, 47, 51, 52, 53, 55, 60.
lol i like it a lot actually. nice to hear from a real guy ha ha.



i think a lot of it actually sounds like a girl, but a girl is more open about their emotions than a guy is.. haha and the guys taking longer than girls to get over someone isn't neccessarily true. girls have a really hard time too. i pretty much fell in love with someone, he broke my heart and it took me for everrr to get over it. like.. it's been a year and a half already. it's not obsession, i just really liked him.



i think if we all got over ourselves, we could really get a long better, unless you are talking to someome really immature.



ah life.. dontcha just love it :)



thanks for posting lol
that is so true especially #30 the only one i disagree with is #49 i like talking to my ex and im fine talking about her. But that only goes for a limited amount of guys because I do know alot of guys who deny even having exs when everyone saw them together. Oh #61. guys hate when a girl shows she doesnt care even if she does and you know it.
As a guy I'm going to second most of that. Except what guy would take the time to type all of that out?? lol
wow, thats all i have to say =]
';16.A guy will only tell you he loves you if he really means it';



I disagree because of my own experience.
well that just raised my confidence level above average with the guys. lol thxs this helped.
wow that all sounds true. its funny though... and know that i think about it, this explains all the guys i know!
I'm not being funny here but most of what you just said is not like any guy I know. For instance, number 45 I have never told a girl she's cute unless she's a relative or I most differently don't want to have sex with her. Next, number 38 guys like to talk things out not really we just want to be heard after then it's pretty much wa wa wa and wa. lastly, number 14, I am not looking for a woman that even remotely looks like my mom or god please forbid someone I want to have sex with but looks like my mom.
Thank you for giving me an inside look at a guys opinion on how most guys are. =] I have often wondered some of these things. You should consider writing for a women's magazine! Lol
23. the younger thye are, they will sleep with anything.

27. guys think ANYTHING is sexy.

29. they will blame you in a heartbeat

32. only about 5% of them

33. same as #32

36. more girl than guys

37. more likely

38. i have heard them over card games and at work

40. NOPE

42. abso-F***CKING-lutely

47. yes, to get some!

59. not yet to be determined

60. agreed. totally. a guy doesn't let his heart get in the way of ';flings'; like a girl does.
Stop posting this gay violation
All i can say is YOU ARE GAY or a GIRL. Either take your man card away or grow a pair!
UR EITHER GAY OR LONELY WITH ALOT OF TIME ON UR HANDS!

Ok things that are actually true about guys, written from a guy?

I wrote this list because there's always a bunch of bs lists written by people who AREN'T actually by guys. so id thought id make my own. its fine if you don't agree, just post your opinion. some are the same as other lists.



1.Guys are pigs, and sometimes they are pigs just for the sake of being pigs. Other times they don't know what they are doing.

2.Guys are very touchy feely.

3.Guys love a girl's smile, or a girl's hug, even if he only sees her as a friend.

4.Guys are a lot softer on the inside than they seem, because showing your emotions is weakness.

5.There's definitely a difference when a guy is just annoyed, or when he's really angry.

6.The nice guy does finish last, but definitely ends up the happiest.

7.Guys are simple people, but their feelings are pretty complicated.

8.Lots of guys are really superficial, these ones are usually immature, the mature ones will like you for you.

9.Guys take pride in having a lot of friends, but at the end of the day, they just want to be alone.

10.Guys say they like girls or talk about which ones are hot way too much.

11.Rarely does a guy say a girl is beautiful, because when he does, he really means it.

12.Guys normally have no clue about flower colors, we're more concerned about buying you something pretty.

13.Guys can be drama queens too.

14.Guys look for girls that are like their moms, mostly without knowing it.

15.Guys love to be wanted by girls, but doesn't mean he likes any of them back.

16.A guy will only tell you he loves you if he really means it.

17.Guys have limited control over their body language.

18.A guys facial expressions and body language are often completely unrelated to what he's actually thinking.

19.Guys think more than people get them credit for.

20.Jerks think with their dick.

21.Guys take things way too literally alot.

22.Guys overthink a lot of things.

23.Guys hate fakes.

24.Guys are attracted to teases, but deep down inside, they like straightforwardness.

25.Guys aren't normally open about themselves.

26.Guys don't like getting dirty as much as you think.

27.Guys think smart is sexy.

28.Like girls go for bad boys, guys go for girls that hurt them.

29.Guys are willing to shoulder more blame than they actually should.

30.A guy can spend all day flirting, but when he tries to sleep at night, the one girl that really matters keeps him awake a little bit longer.

31.When a guy talks serious, he really means business.

32.Guys are pretty sentimental.

33.Guys like to listen also.

34.Guys like athletic girls, but not ones stronger than them.

35.A smile and a hug does more than a gift.

36.When he gets rejected by a girl he really likes, he'll sometimes go off thinking forever about how he isn't good enough.

37. If a guy doesn't feel any pain whatsoever after a rejection, he only wanted you for one thing.

38.Guys like to talk things out too.

39.A guy's weakest point is the heart.

40.A guy that admits fear but is willing to face it is a keeper, a guy that says he doesn't fear is a liar.

41.A guy can let you go, but it doesn't mean he's stopped thinking about you.

42.A guy needs experience, not instruction.

43.When a guy stares at you, it doesn't mean he's undressing you in his mind.

44.Guys think girls give better advice.

45.If a guy says you're cute, it probably means he only sees you as a friend.

46.Guys have a harder time getting over girls than girls have getting over guys.

47.Guys obsess over what to say to strike up a conversation.

48.Guys are really bad at playing hard to get.

49.Guys hate talking about their exs.

50.Guys would tell you a lot of things, but they can't.

51.When a guy cries over something, it meant the world to him.

52.Guys would sacrifice time and money just for little things to make a girl happy.

53.One compliment by a girl can build a guy up, and one insult can tear him down.

54.Guys try not to give a **** about gossip, but this normally doesn't work out.

55.Guys like it a lot when they are asked for advice.

56.When a guy gets possessive, it's a sign of weakness.

57.Guys don't understand girls most of the time.

58.What guys actually do know, is how a girl thinks of herself and presents herself, we know that pretty much on sight.

59.Lots of guys actually aren't that secure about their sexuality.

60.When a guy doesn't let you go, you mean the world to him.Ok things that are actually true about guys, written from a guy?
wow. ur pretty deep = ]Ok things that are actually true about guys, written from a guy?
thats amazing seriously
wow this is good. see a lot of this i didn't know! :D good to know.
Aww that was cute!!!

you sound really sweet and deep and nice

-Megan?
awhh this is cute =]
what's the question?

An since when do you speak for your whole gender?

This sounds really emo



edit: haha, 59 secured my thoughts about you
Wow, that's complete! I think you've got alot of good insight!!
omg so great

and :D number 3 :D

hehe yea i think i relate a bit





---think maybe you could give me some advice on a few things---please if you could send me a message/email---

How do you play hard to get?

I need to get guys attention with giving them a challenge...please help!How do you play hard to get?
In Trinidad and Tobago, we call that ';Bussin' Style!';. All you need to do is well, do something that would catch their attention, and pay no attention to them...How do you play hard to get?
what??!! I thought girls were experts at that...surprised there's some girl that doesn't know how to play hard to get

Playing hard to get?!?

Okay seriously I suck at playing hard to get., cause like I dont want to get hurt and like I dont know what to do how are girls suppose to play hard to get with guys? Like what can girls do to capture their attention!? Like he likes me and I like him too and were talking but I dont want him thinking I'm way into deep, I want a CHALLENGE with him soooo uhhh what can I do!?Playing hard to get?!?
do things lke:

when he asks you to the movies, come up with an excuse--that will show that somethings are more important to you than he is

Should I play hard to get?

My friend likes me and we flirt... a lot! but lately hes been acting really weird around me on msn and not talking to me (even though we talk a lot in person) and everytime i try to start a conversation with him, he doesnt make any attempt to add to the conversation but i dont understand why. my best friend said that i should start playing hard to get because supposedly one of my other guy friends likes me too. i just dont know what i should do, because i really like him. appearently he wants to ask me out but hes not ready yet, but the thing is... he changes his mind a lot. i really want to get him to like me and start talking to me again, but how do i do that?Should I play hard to get?
He is probably getting ready to ask you out and is a little worried about it and is just trying to figure out exactly what he wants to do. I know that happens to me sometimes. I would not advice playing hard to get it has a negative effect from what I have seen.Should I play hard to get?
Chill and let him make the first move.

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How do I play hard to get, when I already made myself look like a psycho?

Me and this guy went out, and then I started acting like a psycho when we broke up. Then a month of e being stupid we finally decided to meet up. I was acting normal, and I guess he was fallin for me again because ever since that he's been calling me more and sending me texts. Now I'm trying to play hard to get, because I havent called him, unless I missed one of his cals. I also am busy now because I have a job and I go to school fulltime so idk. How can I make him think of me as this hard to reach girl now. Like when we met, he kept on trying to get like that with me and I told him no to sex, so I thinkthat makes him want me more.How do I play hard to get, when I already made myself look like a psycho?
Looking to play a game with him does indeed make you look psycho. Why not try to be yourself and forget the games. If you like him then date him. If you don't then move on. As for using sex over him, that's manipulation. How would you feel if he manipulates you? Be a good person.How do I play hard to get, when I already made myself look like a psycho?
Stop playing games. This is what messes up guys. If you like him then act like it. If not then drop him and find someone who you really care about.

What do you think of this situation? (falling for a really hard to read kind of guy)?

So there's this guy.

He has a lot of friends that are girls.

He's pretty flirty and outgoing.

A few weeks ago he started talking about me to a few of his/my friends saying how cute/attractive/seductive and how he'd tap me, ect.

So I sit at his table with one of my friends and we kinda get to know each other. At first he's reallyyyy quiet and barely talks. It's soo obvious he's shy and nervous around me. He flashes me nervous, cute smiles. And is very red.

Then we go to a party and he's there. We don't do much. I stay away because he was staring at me the entire time, checking me out, talking about me, ect. We kinda cuddled on a couch but trust me nothing really went anywhere. I think he thought I wanted to hook up with him or something.

We have made some progress in our like little relationship...but it's not getting anywhere very fast. It's still premature.

He's adorable, attractive and sexy in my opinion, but that view has since faded.

Recently he said some stuff about me to make himself look good in front of some older guys being all like ';Yeah she says she's always there for me, but I'm like ***** nah.'; and ';If she stares at me one more time I'm gonna scream.'; And ';She wants my D.';

Obviously this is being said to make himself look good, and he's playing hard to get.

So does this mean he doesn't like me anymore?

I was told he wants me baddd but is intimidated by me. So if he is, where did he get the nerve to say such **** about me?

He's so confusing and hard to read these days.

I'm thinking of giving up on him.







What do you think of this situation? (falling for a really hard to read kind of guy)?
Ok lets see here it sounds like he probably does like you but for some reason has a hard time approaching you or asking you out. He probably said those things around his buddies due to peer pressure from the ';guys'; and he wanted to sound cool when other guys we talking about other girls that may be into them too. It's stupid game guys play amongst themselves so don't take it as a sign of his not liking you because based on what you've said he is very into you it's just a sign of his immaturityand well no offense to you but this guy sounds really immature and you could do much better than a guy that says things like that about you no matter how ';Cute';he may beWhat do you think of this situation? (falling for a really hard to read kind of guy)?
The best thing to do is, talk to him about it. Just say you didn't like that he was talking about you just so he would look good in front of his friends. Don't give up on him yet, not until he really screws up.
He's a jerk.

Eff him.

He only wants to hook up with you..

No man worth your while is gonna go and tell other guys you want his ';D'; or calling you a *****.

No.I don't think so.

He's been saying **** about you and you're not even that close from what you tell me.



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O.K. Either way, this guy is an immature cretin and going about things the wrong way, even if he ';does'; like you! By talking that crap about you, all he's doing is making you look like some pathetic, desperate hag...and why would you want a guy like that?



My advice is to forget about him and move on. There are a lot of guys out there with just as many positive attributes who will treat you with respect. Honestly, he showed his true colors right away by telling his buddies he'd ';tap that';. He just wants to screw you and bail. Since you're being respectful to him and yourself by waiting until you know him, he's getting frustrated and showing his immaturity.

How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

how can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

how can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

i need good advise fast!! i let one of my friends know that i like the guy in our job, my friend who's really my x sister in law because she's divorced from my brother always was jellous of me. well my x-sister in law was working at this job 3 years before me, so she knows everybody their before me. i just started this job one month ago and this really cute guy got my attention, i would always see him staring at me and once in a while he would say hi, or something like that, but ever since i told my x sister in law that l really like this guy, i feel he tries to keep away from me even hide. i suspect she told him i like him, well how can i fix this problem and is their a way i can have a chance with this really cute guy or has he lost interest in me?How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
Sorry no chance anymore, he knows.How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
confrontation is your best line of defense before this situation gets out of hand ask him if he wants a drink after work or something to that extent good luck.
Wow lots of baggage and very deep trouble. I think you dont have a pray though. Best of luck to you.
Ask your x-sister in law if she told him anything, and ask her what does she know about him... maybe he is married, and it's all in your head.

Next time if you don't trust your friends keep your mouth shut and manage things yourself.
Look at it like this. If he knows now that you like him and still keeps away to the point of avoidance, then you could play EASY to get and it still would not matter ( by the way playing hard to get is for 3rd grade recess, they call it TAG ). On a side note if you know all of these things about your ex-sister in law, do you not find it stupid to confide in her in anyway, never mind go and work where she does. Wow!
It seems this guy was acting in a normally friendly way towards you until your former sister-in-law possibly said something to him. If she cannot be trusted leave her out of the loop entirely.



Best chance to find out how the guy feels about you is to ask him. Don't jump in at the deep end and declare your feelings for him - it could scare him off, especially if he's been told something damaging by ex sis-in-law. No, just ask about his seemingly changed attitude to you and ask, if he has heard some story, to allow you to give your side of it. If all is going well then you could slowly progress towards something deeper - unless he makes a move in that direction faster.



Chances of playing hard to get? Do you really want to play it like that? Play it straight and honest.
Well, are you sure his behavior has changed, or is it just your imagination? If you think your ex-sister in law is jealous, don麓t confide in her again!

As for him changing his behavior because he supposedly know you like him, it just means he麓s not interested. Forget him and move on...
Write him an email explaining the situation. When you talk to someone they can ignore you or interrupt, but there's something about emails that make people curious and they want to read the whole thing. It may be the best way to make your case. If it doesn't work, move on to someone who want you back.

25 year old guy with a 18 year old girl? Dating help and advice? playing Hard to get 10 points to best answer.?

There is a guy who is very interested in me and wants to date me. He is 25 and i am 18. I don't have a problem with the age gap and neither does he. We talk everyday through texting. He randomally texts me. What do you think he really thinks about my age? He knows that i am not going to have sex with him and that i am a virgin. What do you think he really thinks about all of this?

when we text sometimes he responds right away, or 20 mins later and sometimes it takes him 2 hours. Why do you think that is? Is he playing hard to get at that age? how should i respond and do you think i should wait a while before i text him back not to come off as despearate? Should i play hard to get?

THANKS25 year old guy with a 18 year old girl? Dating help and advice? playing Hard to get 10 points to best answer.?
aight, guys r confusing jus like girls

sometimes we'll want to get into a good deep conversation with u

other times were jus takin it easy or jus busy

idk bout him but i respect girls that dnt jus give it up to guys

an hopefully that shows him that ur mature enough

im the same age as u r an its hard to find someone thats mature enough

u can play a lil hard to get to make it fun

guys like a challenge!!

good luck!25 year old guy with a 18 year old girl? Dating help and advice? playing Hard to get 10 points to best answer.?
First things first, don't worry about how long it takes for him to reply to texts. He has a life, which means he doesn't always have time to reply to your texts right away. This game playing stuff is also something younger girls like you play, and is one of the reasons guys his age aren't always game to dating 18 year old girls. Yes, 25 year old girls play games too. But they are different types of games, 18 year olds also over think things and obsess more. These are all things you need to watch out for, don't get caught up in this stuff or else he'll get turned off and remember your age. You need to be a little more mature here, so that way he'll forget you're younger.

How do i play hard to get?

So my last question i asked about this guy that i met recently and hung out with a few times and we hit it off. See, i'm always the one to email him even though he does flirt and in person is very touchy. They suggested he probably likes the chase and i play harder to get. Soo.... how do i play hard to get, and email him today to invite him somewhere this weekend? then if he comes how do i play hard to get and still flirt without playing the make him jealous card cause i don't think that's cool?How do i play hard to get?
you can't be the agressor and play hard to get at the same time.



Your best bet is to be blunt, let him know you're interested but that you have a life and you're not going to wait around for him so if he's interested tell him he needs to make the next move. Balls in his court, if he's interested he'll be chasing after you.How do i play hard to get?
Dating is hard enough without playing hard to get. Do something fun, play a game and tell him if he wins you'll kiss him. Something silly to pass the time.
don't play or he'll get bored and find someone less difficult...
Don't play hard to get, guys are easily discouraged and when women play hard to get it makes us think, ';Does she like me or does she not'; and we feel intimidated and give up and move on to the next woman.
Say, ';hell no douchebag, backs the hell off.'; Thats pretty hard to get, right there.
dont play hard to get
Just ignore him at times. Act like you are interested in other guys....... Flirt in front of him. Let him know you can be with anyone. He'll appreciate the time he has with you.
I think it is best if you refrain from playing hard to get at all. The whole world of singles is way too complicated in the first place and playing games just makes it that much worse. If a guy is interested in something with you, he will make it apparent. If he is one of those men who is ';all about the chase';, then it doesn't seem like a relationship would be feasible anyways because he will not be satisfied once he has you. I suggest you invite him somewhere and if you have a good time, be honest about it. Let him know you're into him! Good luck!

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