how to play hard to get with a guy

Sunday, December 11, 2011

How do girls play hard to get toward a boy that is already playing hard to get?

Alright. There's this guy and I never noticed him B4. My two closest friends come up to me all happy and told me OMG! theres this guy and he asked us for your number. They say hes really popular ( they go to school with him) and he is interested in you. The next time I see them at an event we go to once a week, he is there and the loud-mouth friend 1 points him directly out, and automaticly he knows whats going on. I watched a while (he didn't know I was) to see whats he like, he knew everyone and was cool with them too. He even came over to Friend2 and shook her hand like they were cool and friend2 said they were'nt even that close. And with Loud-mouth friend1 he played with her almost flirting with her and grabbed her by the arm that she had brocken and tryed to hug her. She pulled away though. He flirted with all these older girls and stuff right in front of me.He already knows how to play hard 2get OBVIOUSLY or trying to be a player. What should I do or tecniques that I should use to let him know I'm not easy to get with or that I'm despereate and I'll take what I can get.Any rules or guideleines I can use.How do girls play hard to get toward a boy that is already playing hard to get?
flirt with his friends! great fun ;) lol

or get your friends (make sure the loud mouth one doesnt give the game away) to talk about the other guy 'brad' (example lol) who has been really sweet, who is also good looking and it really interested in you.

flirt with the hard to get guy, then ten seconds later brush him off. but when things get serious, stop playing hard to get, because he will think that you arent interested

have fun :)How do girls play hard to get toward a boy that is already playing hard to get?
'Playing hard to get' with someone 'Playing hard to get', can really screw the head up.

Answer: ''STOP''. Stop playing silly bloody games.

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I need advice on how to play HARD TO GET in a LONG DISTANCE relationship!!?

I've been dating this guy for a little more than a month now and I know he LOOVEESS the ';Chase';. hes an adventurous sagittarius and likes knowing that he has to work to get me. it was easy to play hard to get when i was with him but now we're long distance and i won't see him for another month or so. in the mean time i want him to get more and more intrigued by me and make sure i keep him on his toes and play veryyy hard to get (thats what he likes). How exactly do i play hard to get in a long distance relationship tho? PLEASE i NEED ADVICE! as of right now, we talk about once a week - i make sure to only have him call me, this way i don't seem like im pursuing/chasing him. WHAT ELSE CAN I DO TO PLAY HARD TO GET? for instance, how can i play 'hard to get' while on the phone with him?? should i ever text or call him? or is that considered me chasing him?? please i wanna be exciting and fun! its how i am when im with him -im extremely coy, but im not sure how to play that long distance?!I need advice on how to play HARD TO GET in a LONG DISTANCE relationship!!?
Sounds like an exhausting way to spend a relationship. What happens in the future when your out of surprises? A LDR takes a lot of work and being hard to get is not one of them.

When girls play hard to get, how to prove we're INTERESTED, but not come across as desparate?

We all know that girls play hard-to-get with us to see just how really we're interested in them. When a guy pursues them, they know that he is into her, and not just in it for the sex. But sometimes a guy may fall into her trap, and come off as desperate. See where the problem is now?

Girls, how should us guys show you that were GENUINELY interested, but not come off as desparate? For example, lets say a girl on purposely ignores our phone call. If we don't call her back until the next day, we might come across as not genuinely interested. But if we call again, we come off as desperate. How should we show that we're REALLY into you and that we're willing to pursue you without looking desperate?When girls play hard to get, how to prove we're INTERESTED, but not come across as desparate?
honestly when a guy comes off as not too desperate it messes with the girls mind

like if u call..and she doesnt pick up

and u dont call back she WILL be freaking out even thought she might not show it the next time u see her

so in other words just playing it slick will work better..but im not saying totally neglect her either...

..its complicated

lolWhen girls play hard to get, how to prove we're INTERESTED, but not come across as desparate?
You have to show that you want her, but you don't NEED her, and you'd be willing to walk away at any moment.
Keep on asking us out. You won't be desperate if you don't beg and just walk away when we say no.
well you have to play hard to get aswell and then they'll seem like they don't care but they do
well i dont know i played hard to get but i answered the calls....maybe this girl doesn't really like you...try to take her out to the movies or something
wow i never thought of it that way but i see where your going because you make alot of sense lol but yea well me personally since im a girl i think yea if a girl ignores your call on purpose don't call back because in her head she will think you will call back and you just wait and call her back later that day because then she will be wondering and wanna call you its confusing but yea thats what us girls think
That's a tough question; it only comes off as desperate if you call like ten times in a row. If she doesn't answer the first time call a couple hours later.
If you call her and she doesn't pick up, leave a message '; hi this is__ I was just thinking about you and decided to give you a call to see how you were doing'; and leave it at that. She may not call back b/c remember she's playing hard to get. So she'll pretend like she didn't get the message or didn't care, why? b/c she wants to see if you will call her back. Now you do call back but not until late the next night. This whole time she's waiting and wondering and hoping you will. When you do finally call her again if she answers ask her to go out. The thing about a girl who plays hard to get is, she likes the guy, but isn't quite ready to admit it. So the more you show interest the more confidence she gains. What you have to do is show you interest in her, while letting her think that if you don't show interest in me soon there is someone else who will.

How Can I Play Hard To Get?

Their's this guy that works at a store my mom and I always go to. He has been flirting with me for almost 2 weeks now. The other day on myspace he told me ';He's kinda seeing someone'; and he's not the kinda guy I wanna be with and we should be friend's. Alot of people seem to think he is lying about having a GF and he is trying to play hard to get, so that's what I wanna do, Any suggestion's on how I can play hard to get? Now remember..I'd have to play hard to get in a store because I only see him when he works because he doesn't live around where I live. That being said..How can I play hard to get?How Can I Play Hard To Get?
be on the phone with a guy when you are checking out, or bring a guy friend with you to the store. And ignor him some but not a lot.

Hope this helps!How Can I Play Hard To Get?
WOW you need help ??
You say ';OK'; and stop flirting with him. It's all business. Take him off your silly Myspace. Why do you want a liar on your Myspace?
One of the latest seventeen magazines was refering to hard to get flirting tipss.

they metioned to only GLACE at him for a couple seconds before you turn your head away.. dont keep eye contact for longer than a second,

make sure you hold your head up and KNOW you're sexy l0l

and make sure you give the impression that you KNOW you don't need him,...

How do you play hard to get?

I know this sounds really silly, but I never understood what it was? I am 19 years old, I have had boyfriends etc, but I never played hard to get, atleast I don't think I did, I am friends with this guy, who I kind of like (read here for more details http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsPVRFJ6UkKkd7JPRLX.wR7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100412164440AAozJ5b ) and a lot of you out there told me to play hard to get, can anyone tell me how to do this? thanks xoHow do you play hard to get?
Read all about it...

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How to play hard to get after being overly into him?

Well I wouldnt say I have been overly into him, but just playing off what he was saying and going along with it. In most situations this would be what i would do. Maybe play abit hard to get at first but once we know eachother better just go off emotions and conversations. But recentlly (few months ago) I started talking to an old friend from high school (only graduated 3 years ago) we always had abit of a connection but he moved away before it ever turned into anything. When I first met him he was really into this girl, and he always was so cute and tried so hard to do cute things and get her to like him. She played hard to get and she got the cute more romantic side out of him. He eventually gave up because she didn't seem to return his feelings. Anyways when we first started talking again I played hard to get becuase I just got out of a serious relationship and wasn't ready to be all over a guy without knowing how he felt. after a while he asked me if i cared about him and i said i did. But i also gave into his wants (not like sex or anything because he still lives over an hour away and dont see each other often) we talk almost everyday for hours and kind of told him what he wanted to hear (it was true). I want to start playing hard to get again because i know it works with him. But how can i do it after letting him know i cared about him and being overly nice? we are not dating because of situations but maybe some day and I want to make him crazy in the mean time. haha long questions but need answers. please help!How to play hard to get after being overly into him?
stop being overly nice and start acting like you don't give a **** about him.. it will drive him up the wall! he will be so turned on and want you more than ever! eventually when the sexual tension becomes so thick you can cut it with a knife, give in to him. you will then have the best sex of your life!How to play hard to get after being overly into him?
ok your description was to long so i didnt read it but i will say this if you want to seem hard to get after being a suckup u should try overeacting during an arguement in order to isolate yourself but make sure he doesnt break it off from then on out you should try avoiding face to face contact and instead communicate through texting, dont agree to go with him everywhere but maintain a steady participation in the relationship or it will break down and lastly try sending him pictures on the phone that are sexual in nature but not frontal nudity like lifting your shirt in a tease this will make him try harder to get a little more

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How do I play hard to get?

ok so im a 14 year old girl and i like a kid in my grade. the problem is im pretty sure he thinks that im head over heels for him and that i would do anything for him so he is just going along with it. my friend took my phone and said this:

my friend pretending to be me: katie (me) wants to make out with you!!!

the kid: no ****

my friend: would you make out with her?

the kid: idk we'll see

the next day he asked a few people if he should make out with me. he thinks im easy. how can i play hard to get? we are going to go to a movie soon and i know he is going to make a move. at the very least he will put his arm around me, but im pretty sure he is going to make out with me. yes, i want to, but i dont him to think its easy. also when we text.. how can i play hard to get and make him not so confident that i will make out with him? how do i make him want me? how can i play hard to get? please help!

btw dont tell me im too young or to find another guy please.How do I play hard to get?
Don't sit next to him.

Stop his lips if he tries.

ONLY hug him, at most.

Don't text often, like sometimes skip a day or two.

You gotta confuse them. One day, give him attention, the next day you stop.

Don't laugh at his jokes.

You know how guys are like ';don't call her until after 3 days'; when they pick up a girl? Same theory.

If you are to sit next to him, do NOT tilt your head in his direction. That's probably the best advice I can give. Maybe lean on the arm-rest opposite to him. If he says ';lay your head on my shoulder'; you can say ';Nah, that's alright, I'm comfortable like this';

If you have popcorn, and he tries to eat some, you can smack his hand, so he doesn't get any, at the same time it can be playful, sending him mixed signals.

It's VERY easy for a girl to play hard to get. But remember, a guy can play hard to get too, so don't fall for his tricks. Like:

-Avoiding you

-Talking to your friends more than you

-Being more playful with them than you

-Talking to you one moment, and then not another

-Don't repeat things twice, just cause you think he didn't hear it

-Teases you (don't feel too inclined to tease him back, that's the point)

Reserve yourself.How do I play hard to get?
Quit throwing yourself out there so hard core and just relax. Say no at first and say you want to take it slow.
If he already thinks you're easy and/or doesn't have a lot of respect for you, then it's not going to work. Not that I would recommend it anyway.
You'll act like you don't care and he'll lose interest and move on to the next girl like all 14 year olds do. If you want a boyfriend then make it clear. Just go ask him out instead of making it a cat and mouse game.
That'll just make a guy not pursue you.
dont play hard to get ...just dont be a whore
Why do you have to play hard to get?
You have to understand that you are the jewel. He has got to treat you that way. Draw the line, and do not compromise. Most guys will respect you. The guys that don't, are not worth it. The guys who respect you are worth it.
Okay! here we go! Haha, well, first off, playing hard to get is a way of telling a guy you are interested, but don't want to seem easy. GOOD JOB! You got the concept of it :)

Okay, he was being kind of rude about it..saying ';no ****'; and stuff, so be careful if he's really your type.

If you go to the movies, and he kisses u. Kiss him ONCE gently, and then turn away and smile. Don't makeout. Not the first date.

When you're going home, go in for a kiss, but then pull away %26amp; smile..and say something like ';talk to you later'; %26amp; walk away with a flirty attitude.
whenever he texts you, don't respond right away. if he calls, don't answer and call him back. (don't say you were talking to another guy cuz thats too obvious) just show him that there are other things in your life besides him. and honestly if he makes a move, i would just go for it. making out is fun. but after that if he just wants to do that then you know he's only in for that and you can make the decision of whether you want to stay friends with benefits of if you want more. then you can say no to movies and everything else
This is classic 14 year old thinking.

Playing hard to get -- why play games? Its dumb.

I get having crushes at 14 - but keep it simple. Dont chase, dont be aloof. Just be yourself and if he thinks you are head over heets, that is his problem. It also doesnt give him license to take advantage of that and treat you bad or worse. Always maintain your self respect!

Good luck
if you were easy, you would be making out with all the boys. if you like him then don't hold back or play games. if you don't want to kiss when he tries to kiss you than just tell him that you can kiss later. you say to him let's have fun now and kiss later. i promise you a kiss if everything goes well and you be good.
Hello Young Lady:

I think that there are too few young ladies that have the same perspective as you on this dating thing. I hope my daughter is as concerned when she is your age.

First things first, you don't need to ';Make out'; with a guy to keep his interest if he is interested. If all he wants is to ';Make out'; I suggest you should avoid that until you know if he really ';respects you'; or not. The worst thing in the world for a young lady is to be in a position where a young man wants to ';Make out'; just to tell all his buddies that he did.

Back to your answer, playing hard to get is not necessary, play ';I appreciate you as a young man and I hope you respect me'; and wait until it seems that he is really interested in you and not the conquest to tell his buddies about. If you go to the movies it is hard to talk. Have lunch after you see the matinee and ask him a lot of questions about him. If he continues talking about himsel;f, and not interested in asking questions about you, it is a good sign he is into himself and may not be interested in you for the right things. If he is asking alot about you, and comments often about ';How cool'; or I did not know that about you'; and similar things, give him an opportunity to have a nice little kiss goodbye.

The rule for everyone interested in a lasting relationship, even 14 year olds, is leave them wanting more.

I hope this helps you and I certainly hope you keep your view of not wanting to be the girl everyone talks about. You are moving in the right direction.
first off,find a way to make him jealous.

like at the movies,smile at another boy or something.

make sure hes looking.

then when hes talking to you,smile at him and looks at his lips alot..

he'll think you wanna make out,but then look away or down or something.

but keep smiling.

also,if you asks a question like a personal question,dont tell him everything. leave detail out,make him wanna keep asking more to know more.

Also,dont act like a whore lol. seriously i know some girls do that

not that i know you do but yeah.

Maybe when he puts his arm around you,give him a kiss on the cheek but not the lips,and dont let him kiss you either.

Straight up-just make him want more.

Act like your water and he's really thirsty..Get me.? (:

-when he texts you,and asks ';what are you doing'; or something

say something like ';stuff';' or ';hangin with a this one favorite person';

Well thats all i can think of right now

But hopefully i helpedd!!

if not,sorryy

Good Luckk.!(:

How do I play hard to get?

Does it work to play hard to get?

There is this guy, I ran into him a few times. He finally asked me for my phone number. He had the guts to come up and talk to me at a club. We where going to meet up one night and it never happened, there was a miscommunication in between messages, he messaged me and I wasn鈥檛 sure whether I was meant to call back, thought that men are meant to do all the calling. I really like him; I鈥檓 just confused with this hard to get business. Does it really work? How do I play hard to get? How do I let him know that I鈥檓 interested? How do I get him to ask me out on a date again? I know that he was interested in me.Does it work to play hard to get?
Forget about him hon, men arent afraid to even stalk a girl till she accepts to go out with him. Men are pretty straightforward, if he wants you he will call you.Does it work to play hard to get?
The guy turned out to be a player. Didnt end up going on a date with him, but found out he went on a date with another girl.

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Hard to get is a game, and games are played in school, if you are out of school and old enough to go to the clubs, then no its not hard to get -- its so immature to play games
yea you should play hard to get. its part of the seduction hun. play it cool although you really want to see him mostly, but you should learn how to control that urge. your absence will leave him thinking about you. then when you see each other again give him reassuring signals that you want him. but sometimes be a little bit mysterious and sort of confuse him lol.... and bring out your inner sexiness. :p guys chase after what's unobtainable to somehow give that impression to him.

be a tease.
HONEY, YOU DO NOT NEED TO PLAY HARD TO GET FOR ANYONE. JUST BE YOURSELF. YOU CAN CALL HIM, AND ASK HIM IF HE WOULD LIKE TO JOIN YOU FOR LUCH OR A DRINK. THAT TO ME IS THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO FOR YOURSELF. I AM 65YEARS OLD, A FEMALE. ITS TRUE IN MY TIME WE NEVER CALLED ON A GUY, TODAY ITS DIFFERENT. PEOPLE DO NOT NEED TO PLAY HARD TO GET, ITS CHILDISH, AND NOT SINCERE. SO CALL THIS GUY CHAT FIRST, THEN ASK. GOOD LUCK DEAR
playing hard to get is about not giving in to o fast or otherwise someone might think you are loose. It does work at times but at other times it might put someone off. On your situation it is probably better to do so for if a guy is reaally interested in you he will call you or text you, It also deopends on how you met and ypou guys met at a club so its much better to do so while you learn what kind of guy he is. Good luck.
Some times playing hard to get can loose you a good man. Try talking to him the next time you see him. Keep it general, talk about simple things such as your intrests, the music in the room, if he's intrested he'll keep talking. If he doesn't ask you out ask him out to cofee, make it non threating if it doesn't feel like a come on he may take the lead after the coffee if he doesn't he's not intrested. If it works always keep a conversation because without one your relation wont last after the magic of the first part of dating begins. Look for compatibility, that lasts forever then look for the sexual attraction
It depends on the guy. Most men enjoy the chase. You can play hard to get. Call him, tell him you will call him again at a certain time. But don't call. He'll be wondering and waiting for you call.Heeheehee...Just make sure that the conversation you have with him is one that will get a reaction from him.(it could even be a voice mail) The book the Art of Seduction is great! Get it if you can. Playing hard to get can work. Just remember you plan is ';to get'; not make him run away.
You aren't a natural games-player and you know it.

If you like the man ring him and invite him for a sunday walk.
You know that you are playing hard to get and would like to be pursued but he probably thinks your just not interested or lost whatever interest you had in him...Confident guys move on to another girl that doesen't play mind games...
Well you could call him for a change. Stop the texting. Just talk on the phone with him and ask him if hed be interested in trying to go on a date again. It is likely when he tried the first time he figured you flaked on him and therefore were only wasting his time. Call him, if you ask him out and he says yes, bot hmake clear time commitments and see what happens. Good luck.
no dont play hard to get, some guys just aren't up for it or they just don't know that your playing hard to get at all, he may just think you dont like him. if you really like this guy, then don't play a stupid game or else you might never get a chance to be with him.
I don't feel he is worth your time, if you are unsure then 99% of the time you will be right. ^-^
if he respected you he would be calling u at a decent hour i feel u being put on stand by when he drinking when he cant get anything better sorry! loose him and find someone decent
';Playin' hard to get'; is not a mind game. Your face should always light up when you make eye contact with him upon first meeting. Greet him warmly. Let him know that you are happy to see him. Talk with him for about 10 minutes whether in person or by phone, then excuse yourself and hang up, or move on [when at a social function ]. It's okay to talk with him again, but again limit it to no more than 10 - 12 minutes. Then move on. Keep yourself occupied, you'll come across as slightly mysterious. It's up to him to arrange for a date. Regardless of whether there has been some miscommunication between messages, if he wants to contact you, let him be the one to initiate it. Don't call him. A confident woman always knows how a man feels about her because he will do whatever he has to do to get the point across to her, that he finds her to be appealing. If you phone him, you'll be putting him on the spot and give the impression that you are insecure. I would never date a man who ignored me, or didn't take the time to pursue me passionately as tho I were Marilyn Monroe, reincarinated.
He would call you at a decent hour if he was interested.move on.

Who's the worst NHL Play by Play person?

Seeing as how I live in Canada, I'm stuck with Canadian play by play guys, so I was wondering if there are any ones elsewhere that are REALLY bad?

By the way, my vote goes to Joe Bowen and Harry Neale from the Leafs.

Bowen SCREAMS at every little thing, even if it is just a harmless shot from the blueline, and his ';Holy Macanaw'; is used way too much now.

Harry Neale reminds me of those announcers from video games who after playing 3 games you've heard everything they're gonna say and they keep repeating themselves. Everytime there is a slash that brakes a stick he always says ';The DNA evidence is on the ice to prove it'; or if someone gets hit with a high stick he always says ';he tried his hardest to bleed but couldnt do it'; (referring to the 4 minute high sticking rule)Who's the worst NHL Play by Play person?
All the Leafs` players are the worst in the LNH. The b盲stards took our chance to play in the play off.... next season we`re gonna make it to the finals!! Go Habs Go!

How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

how can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

i need good advise fast!! i let one of my friends know that i like the guy in our job, my friend who's really my x sister in law because she's divorced from my brother always was jellous of me. well my x-sister in law was working at this job 3 years before me, so she knows everybody their before me. i just started this job one month ago and this really cute guy got my attention, i would always see him staring at me and once in a while he would say hi, or something like that, but ever since i told my x sister in law that l really like this guy, i feel he tries to keep away from me even hide. i suspect she told him i like him, well how can i fix this problem and is their a way i can have a chance with this really cute guy or has he lost interest in me?How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
your friend messed it all up for sure..asking her is the only way to find out about the whole thing but she doesnt sound reliable!How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
Do you really trust your sister in law
Sounds like your ex sister in law told him some bad stuff about you. And now he is freaked out.
Approach him and ask him if your x sister in law said anything to him to make him uncomforable around you. You could explain to him that your xsister in law and you are not always on the best terms and that she has been known to bad mouth you...and see if that is the reason he is avoiding you...maybe she told him you hate him...who knows?
If he ';lost'; interest in you because he found out you were interested in him, then - sad to say - that's a pretty clear sign he wasn't interested in you to begin with, at least not romantically.

Of course, it could be that your wicked ex-S.I.L. used the knowledge that you liked him against you in a different way. Maybe she didn't tell him you liked him. Maybe she told him something bad (and likely, untrue) about you, just because you like him. Is she that spiteful?

There is only one grown-up way to settle this and get on with your life: put on your confident-woman shoes, channel the spirit of Carrie Bradshaw, and ASK HIM OUT. Yes, if he rejects you, it will be an embarrassing two minutes, but then you'll know exactly where you stand, you can stop obsessing, and start dating someone new. The ';hard to get'; routine really should not continue past high school.
No sense beating a dead horse! He has lost interest, probably because of something she told him or just by himself....move on

P.S: DON'T EAT WHERE YOU SHIIT!
Almost the same thing happend to me and the guy I liked went away for a while.I started to forget about him and live my life and be me and he came back around.I guess guys are just weird at times and have to be looked over.So I think u still have a great chance.Just don't be nervous around him act like theres no problem you have to worry about be confident.He'll be attached soon.

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How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

how can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

how can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???

i need good advise fast!! i let one of my friends know that i like the guy in our job, my friend who's really my x sister in law because she's divorced from my brother always was jellous of me. well my x-sister in law was working at this job 3 years before me, so she knows everybody their before me. i just started this job one month ago and this really cute guy got my attention, i would always see him staring at me and once in a while he would say hi, or something like that, but ever since i told my x sister in law that l really like this guy, i feel he tries to keep away from me even hide. i suspect she told him i like him, well how can i fix this problem and is their a way i can have a chance with this really cute guy or has he lost interest in me?How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
I would approach him and just ask what she said about me, he may tell you or may not. It will put him on the spot and give him a chance to say something to you, if he likes you. Good luck and don't ex SIL nothing else.How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
Only way for you to know is to strike up a conversation with him. Casually get to chat with him and see if you can arrange a lunch break together.

You have to start somewhere, if you want to know him well.
always was jealous of you? sorry to say it, but i think you were backstabbed by your best friend.

think about it.

since she's single and has known him longer than you have, maybe she has a thing for him too. maybe she told the guy you liked that he should stay away from you- that you are a skank... etc. etc.

even if you don't believe what i'm saying, you should at least confront the guy and ask him why he hasn't been speaking to you. that's the only way to get to the heart of the matter.

good luck, girl! ^_^
Er... you probably won't like my advice, but here goes:

Playing hard-to-get is old school. By that I mean, forget about it. It doesn't strike too deep into what a real relationship with that guy will be like. Playing games is just that--games. But don't take my word for it. In my experience, playing hard to get was merely a waste of time and I wound up attracting more muck from the bottom of the pond than I struck it rich, if you know what I mean. I would talk to the guy of interest. Then again, I wouldn't be interested in a guy simply because he was 'cute'
Your x sister in law probably told him things that would make him not interested in you, since she's jealous of you. Confront him and ask him if she talks about you or just start telling him she is a compulsive liar and he'll second guess what she said about you. or you could play the game....make up something about HIM and ask him about it pretending that your x sister in law said it and you just wanted to clear the rumor. you'll look like the hero!
Just let it be. Go about your business. If he's interested, he'll come around. And don't tell your ';friend'; anything else!

How do i ';play it cool'; with a guy i like?

i'm always easy when it comes to guy.

no guy really has to work hard to get with me and i think that ruins the fun for them.

how do i play it cool and kinda make them work a little??

i just want a no care attitude...???How do i ';play it cool'; with a guy i like?
You have the right idea!!! I'm really glad you realized that being easy doesnt work. being like that will keep guys around for just as long as they can have fun with you, or get all that they can until they get bored. its sad but true. you have to be a little distant. best relationship book i ever read: why men love bitches. the author didnt mean b***** as in a mean snotty woman. just someone that stands up for herself and doesnt take any crap from anybody. if they do something wrong, say it. dont let them slide and dont complain in a whiny way. just say it matter of factly. it takes a lot of confidence. just tell yourself that you are a goddess, and worthy of only the best. if someone is not at that standard, let them go. and also, dont ALWAYS be available. if they ask u out tell them that you will have to check your schedule and get back to them later. they will be intrigued. and dont always run when they call. they will want you more and more. im glad someone is getting smart on here!

How do i play hard to get?

okay so next year i will be going to the 10th grade..And im going to be all about school, and my sports, volleyball and track..I really have my eye on a 6 foot 3 guy with a nice body and about his school and sports too. he plays football and basketball. anyways i wear very nice clothes,jewelry. and i don't want ANY guy to pull me if he wanted. no sirrr

so i wanted to know how can i act like i don't care or not even intrested even if i am?How do i play hard to get?
Don't talk to him.

Wait until he talks with you.

That is if you guys have already spoken before.

Also,

Don't call him.

Let him call you.

Get where i'm going?How do i play hard to get?
Try to act like you don't care, or that you're not even interested.

Who's the worst NHL Play by Play person?

Seeing as how I live in Canada, I'm stuck with Canadian play by play guys, so I was wondering if there are any ones elsewhere that are REALLY bad?

By the way, my vote goes to Joe Bowen and Harry Neale from the Leafs.

Bowen SCREAMS at every little thing, even if it is just a harmless shot from the blueline, and his ';Holy Macanaw'; is used way too much now.

Harry Neale reminds me of those announcers from video games who after playing 3 games you've heard everything they're gonna say and they keep repeating themselves. Everytime there is a slash that brakes a stick he always says ';The DNA evidence is on the ice to prove it'; or if someone gets hit with a high stick he always says ';he tried his hardest to bleed but couldnt do it'; (referring to the 4 minute high sticking rule)Who's the worst NHL Play by Play person?
That irritating radio guy for the Sabres is pretty bad. Annoying voice and he has to scream ';score'; for at least 5 minutes after a goal in the highest pitched voice ever uttered by a male.

I'm not a big fan of the Penguins local TV announcers, mostly because I love the amazing Mike Lange who used to do it and now does the Pens radio broadcast.Who's the worst NHL Play by Play person?
mike lange is a TOTAL ASSHOLE

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Say what you will about Rick Jearnerette. He's as much a part of Sabres hockey as anyone on the team. We all love him. RJ calls the game with the excitment that all us Sabres fan have when we're watching them.

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the tampa bay chief is not about hockey. spends all time criti.. ref..

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jim hughson dude. that guys voice just plain pisses me off.
earlier this year, i was in pittsburgh for a game and watched thier local guy, i don't know his name, but he was horrible. it was boring, like watching a baseball game, zero emotion, zero inflection. just boring.
I don't know but the best is Gary Thorne.
The Colorado guys...

not sure their names, but during intermission, they showed some out of town scores.

lo and behold they get to a Sabres game and, of course, the Sabres hosed the team they were playing and Rick Jeanneret was going crazy.

So the guy in Colorado proceeds to say: ';And this guy would go bonkers 5 more times.';

#1 - Being excited about the sport and your team winning is a good thing.

#2 - Who the hell are you??? Some herb *** living in Aspen...RJ is written about in hockey commentator legend..

Wake up Colorado dudes.
The announcers on Versus. I don't even know who they are; I mute the TV and turn the radio on to listen to Rick Jeanneret so that I hear hockey instead of them talking about what they wore to dinner last Thursday night. OMG they're AWFUL!
Every one on VS except for John Forslund %26amp; Mike Emrick. They have to be the best by far, but other than them all the rest of the broadcasters on VS are the worst. They never call the game and just talk and laugh back and forth. Its annoying as crap.-
Really? You don't like Harry Neale? I love him, he's just so old school, and you know he knows everything there is to know about the game.

One year during the playoffs, Scotty Bowman (who lives right near Neale in Buffalo) was driving up to the Leafs games with Harry and all I could think of is how do I stow away in the backseat and just listen to these two geniuses.

I of course will say the best is Rick Jennerette. He's the most enthusiastic, insightful, entertaining guy around. You never know what he's going to say and he can make a dull game exciting.
Dude...I love Bowen. He's the best one out there. The best thing about him is that he makes it really exciting since you are listening to it on radio. Many radio announcers are soo boring. I know many people who mute the TV and listen to Bowen's commentary whilst watching TV. IMHO, Bowen is one of the best out there. I hope you're not hating him because you're an Ottawa fan and he's from the Leafs :) I've been listening to him from way back in the 80's. Nowadays, Bowen only does the Saturday games for the Leafs on the radio.
Anyone on Versus...I can't stand listening to them! I die a little on the inside when I hear their crappy commentating.

Let's Go Pens!!!
whoever is doing the game for the sharks/predators game right now....calling the penalty box the bad boy box is a bit too much
Has to be Pierre McGuire on TSN. This guys voice is more irritating then my ex-wife's.
Right Now If u put Doc ';Mike'; Emrick and Harry Neale Together for a devils game, you would love that couple and would want to hear them again, joe bowen can suck my ****
Used to be John Davidson, he would do all of the nationally broadcasted games, was very good, but now he's president of the st.louis blues
are either one of these guys the one who dresses up thinks he looks good but looks like a clown(a canadian announcer)?if one of them are i would say you hit the nail on the head,i can't even listen to him!!!!!
Chico Resch and Doc Emerick of the Devils broadcast.

Yesterday they had the trivia and Sergei Brylin was one of the choices, and Chico and Doc were discussing the ansers and I quote Chico here ';Yeah I dont think its gays (Sergei, trying to sound all cool by shortening the name) was playing that long';. And Doc is the king of throwing long vocabulary words into spots they dont belong, I was watching a Devils Islanders game, and if you know the Isles jerseys the dashes on the shoulder he said ';And the Islanders are wearing their home blue with the white and orange chevrons on the shoulder';.

I was watching a game earlier this year where Madden was behind the net and threw a pass to Dowd at the far blueline who went in and scored, the puck was on the ice and popped over the Florida d-man, and Chico started saying how Madden was brilliant and planned that, the puck hit a rut in the ice and it popped over his stick. Every save by Brodeur is his greatest save ever, and the Devils never make a mistake, everything is always perfect by the Devils. And Doc has a new saying this year ';very deliberately';, ';And Elias very deliberately dumps it on net, and it kareeeeems off the post and into the corner';. And Doc is so annoying when the Devils score, its a crescendo and then the puck is in the net SCOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRE. And of course every puck can go in according to him, so he starts screaming when they dump the puck on net, then of course Chico makes the save seem like the greatest save Brodeur has ever made, terrible just terrible.

I could go on and on about those 2.
those idiots on versus.....i cant stand em, luckely so far all the games on versus have also been on cbc, they are much better on cbc.....but i like fsn detroit, i'm pretty sure you dont get that but those guys are the best.
I think the announcers on VS or OLN or whatever the hell the call themselves this year are by far the worse ever. I hate when my team (Sabres) play on VS because then I can hear one of the best announcers Rick Jennerette. He really makes a game exciting. The guys on VS sit there and talk about the most irrelevant stuff ever. Just call the game and sound a little excited about will ya's????

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How do I deal with an out of town relationship with a guy I just met 2 months ago who left for a job(temporary?

I met a really great guy 2 months ago who just left for a job out of town for an undetermined time. I was told to play ';hard to get'; and not always answer the phone when he calls. Is this the way to date? I need some advice this since I don't really want to lose him-or should I just give up on this relationship since I won't be seeing him much?How do I deal with an out of town relationship with a guy I just met 2 months ago who left for a job(temporary?
move on its over

Does this guy like me anymore or is he just playing hard to get?

theres this guy. hes like overly popular and is in 3 of my classes...so its hard to not see him. but over the past three months....hes been hearing rumors about me liking him (they're true....no reason in lying now...) and well...after he heard this realli big rumor that i wanted to date him he kinda started hanging around me more... you know how guys kinda go out of their way to be on the same side of the room as you? well thats wat he was doing...he was smiling and looking deep into my eyes....wen i decided to make a drastic move.....i figured he was over me. because for the past three weeks he hasnt given me the littlest stare. not even a hi. i would say hi and he'd shrug.....i have a better realtionship with a random monkey in the chimpanzee section of the zoo......but....jus wondering...i know he liked me before...but has he just gotten bored?? and if he has.....wat can i do capture his attention again?Does this guy like me anymore or is he just playing hard to get?
looks like he is after 1 thing.. and that's what's between your legs..

What is the best way to get a guy to fall hard for me?

I have been seeing this guy for the last 2 months and I really like him. But he comes straight from the movie, ';Failure to Launch.'; He seems to be so content to stay that way. Never been married, still lives with his folks, and does whatever he wants. But when we are together he is so good to me! And he is so good to my kids. But I new from the beginning he was a player. How do I get him to quit playing and fall head over hills for me?What is the best way to get a guy to fall hard for me?
YOU DON'T, JUST BE YOURSELF AND ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE WITH HIM, HE IS LIVING HIS LIFE AS HE WANTS, WHAT DO YOU CARE? WHY THE HURRY TO MARRY,? HAVE FUN AT LEAST HE IS INCLUDING YOU IN IT. SO WHAT IF HE LIVES WITH HIS PARENTS? RENT IS HIGH THESE DAYS, NOTHING WRONG WITH LIVING HOME, HE IS JUST DOING HIS THING. GIVE HIM SOME SLACK.....What is the best way to get a guy to fall hard for me?
Give him some time, do no push. Show him how happy a family of his own could be, do things and include the kids. Then again, he may be happy with his life and no one could change his mind right now. He sounds like a gentleman, but he may also be a mama's boy, probably pays no rent, she cooks for him, washes his clothes and he likes it like this. If he is a mama's boy, it might be a little harder to make him fall hard. Besides, slow down, what will be will be.

How do I keep a new guy interested?

I do not want to sleep with him for a while but I want to keep him interested. he has been single for 3 years and seems that he is the unattainable type, but I know he likes me because he wants to spend time together quite often. Do I play hard to get?date other guys?How do I keep a new guy interested?
dont be dating other guys that may give him the oppurtunity to find other women %26amp; i wouldnt play too hard to getHow do I keep a new guy interested?
Make him jealous and tell him you're going out with me.

Now that I have your attention, just be real, no games and be adult if it's appropriate.
be flirty with him be fun be a tease hell liek it...if he doesn't maek the first move you ask him out
dont date other guys. because that will give him the impression that your are not interested in him and he'll move on to someone else. play hard to get. it always gives guys a challenge and it most defiantly keeps the guy interested. it would make him want to know more about you, thus by spending more time together, he'll eventually want to get involved in a relationship with you. hope this helps good luck. =]

How do i play hard to get when hes playing hard to get too!?

okay so theres this guy and we have dated a few times but its odd i always have to be the one to text him or call him and if were at a party i always have to go up and say hello to him and if i dont he wont. and so when im with him he will flirt with every girl but me and he acts like hes ingoring me. but then he always wants to hookup later in the night.

and so one of my friends asked him what was going on between us and he said hes playing hard to get.

and i know him well enough to know he always wants what he cant have.

but last time i tried playing hard to get he got upset with me

how should i play hard to get and make him want me even more?

any help!!

please!How do i play hard to get when hes playing hard to get too!?
keep playing games, you'll go far in lifeHow do i play hard to get when hes playing hard to get too!?
hes not that into you!!!! in the first place...move on!
You CAN'T.

Use logic. If BOTH of you are playing hard to get (being passive) how will you get together????

Answer: You won't. ONE of you has to make a move.
If you BOTH play hard to get, you're going to defeat the purpose of getting to know each other.

Helpful Tip: Playing hard to get only makes you look bad. People can tell you're trying TOO hard and games aren't appealing to many people.

What's hotter? Being bold and walking UP to the guy and talking to him.
well why don't you try this: for about 5 days or 5 opportunities of seeing him don't call or talk to him for reasons like ';u didn't notice him'; or ';you were busy';(they really don't like that one) and i know he will talk to you or call you out of the blue to see ';whats up'; if not then he's probably not that to you

try it

good luck!
Stop playing games. Stop letting this guy use you for sex. What is there for you in the relationship? You might get him playing hard to get, but once you give in he will be gone. He isn't the only guy like that in the world. They are everywhere and they leave nothing but heartache in their paths. You can't get someone to ';want you more';. Either the feelings are there or they aren't. I'm sorry to say that it sounds like they aren't with this situation. However, once you except that and move on he will suddenly ';appear'; to care. That will last just long enough to get you back to where he wants you and where you don't want to be.

P.S. You can't win a man with sex. Stop having sex with a guy that doesn't treat you with respect ALL of the time.
Without being unkind, it does sound like he is using you.

You need to really step back from this relationship and see how he reacts once you arn't available at the next party or to return emails perhaps. Playing games is okay for awhile but this could wear you down in the long run not knowing where you stand with him. Good Luck with him !

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