how to play hard to get with a guy

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Who knows how to play hard to get with a guy? if so i need help?

Okay so me and this guy have been hanging out.. 3 times to be exact.. we've kissed every time and the problem is he has a girlfriend he's been dating for awhile but has been wanting to end things with her cause shes caused him a lot of problems but he likes me and i like him and have for a while.. but how do i play hard to get to make him like me even more? any ideas/suggestionsWho knows how to play hard to get with a guy? if so i need help?
dont play hard to get. its dumb and it makes guys think you dont WANT them. then they stop trying.

How does a girl play Hard to Get, while still letting the guy know that you're interested in him?

What I mean is that how does a girl play hard to get with a guy, while still appearing interested in him. I don't want to look too earnest to go out with him, yet I want him to know that I still like him! How does a girl play hard to get???How does a girl play Hard to Get, while still letting the guy know that you're interested in him?
make eye contact and look away and smile .How does a girl play Hard to Get, while still letting the guy know that you're interested in him?
playing hard to get is allways a tricky game .. the girl should know it

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Flirt your *** off, and if or when he figures it out and asks you out, say no
Flirt a little, but then give some time in between when you see him. Dont make it an everyday encounter. talking for a day, then not for 2 keeps him on his toes.
Don't play to hard to get,because he will go looking elsewhere.
umm just go out with him and STOP playing hard-to-get....it makes me mad...i dont know bout the rest of you..
say some sweet or kinky things to him and then leave or hang up dont answer every phone call and dont call him alot either
say hey to him like your gonna start a conversation but then ignore him and walk away or something. Just remmber guys love a chase
two words:

eye flirting

you act like u do dont care, but then u always make i contact, or in other words, eye flirt. then get his crew to go to the movies with ur crew and take it from there.
Why would you want to play stupid games and take the chance of losing him? If you like him, let him know. I doubt he is interested in playing games...
Brush him off nicely and then a smile and a wink will make him crazy about you! (I can't believe I'm giving away the secrets!!! LOLOL)
be a ***** to him but wen he does even a lil thang 2 get ur attention show him u notice it DNT SHOW UR interestid tats wat playin hard 2 get iz al bout

Do Guys Play ';hard to get'; just like girls do?

Because i like this guy and we both exchanged numbers and everything and have been texting back and forth almost every day for the last week and a half...him texting me first most of the time.

But it was good conversation, and im kinda confused now because he would text me things like on my b-day, ';So your commin over for b-day penunt butter and jelly sandwich and coffee right?';....and the one night he asked me to go to breakfast with him...but then directly after he ask me he told me ';nevermind..i didnt realize the time';...LOL...

So he came in to my job on Friday, because he said he was meeting people there to go out BUT THEY NEVER SHOWED...so he ended up talking to me FOR like a half hour on my break while i ate and ppl saw us talking at my job walking around...and they even noticed that we were flirting ....

Soo right when he left that night he text me and asked me to ';Come over his house to show him my skillz';...meaning how i can massage cause im good at that...i didnt, BUT THE THING IS HE HASNT TEXTED TO OR REALLY COMMUNITCATED WITH ME EVER SINCE THAT NIGHT----- WHAT IS HE DOING??? -----I REALLY LIKE HIMDo Guys Play ';hard to get'; just like girls do?
No most guys don't play games.

He either is too busy to talk to you or just doesn't think of you in that way.

What you need to do is make your self more available to him and be more positive. Guys HATE negative, Caty girls. Jealous girls are a total turn off for most guys, if you want to attract a good man you have to stop being a b1t@#!Do Guys Play ';hard to get'; just like girls do?
I've seen guys play hard to get, but it doesn't happen very often. It's possible that he's just busy. He could be caught up with work or other things, but he still should have time to text you. I'd say try giving him a call; that way if he answers, you can ask him what's been going on.
Yeah guys play hard to get, it can be fun and sometimes it's done to make them seem like they have a life - it's strategic. It's possible that he feels he messed up since you said no and that you weren't interested. You could always try the hard, effective route of talking to him about having a crush on him and asking if he feels the same way - we're living in the 21st century, girls can do that nowadays too.
Maybe he lost his phone, cuz that sounds a little weird that he just stopped talking to you altogether. I think maybe there's something else you're leaving out? The story just doesn't sound right. He must've had something happen to his phone or you are leaving out some details.
seems like he wants to bone you.

watch out because he just might want to do only that and it's gonna hurt if you do fall for him and he turns out a regular scumbag.

ask him directly.see what he says.
Text him back. Even though most guys wont admit it, we play hard to get. and sometimes even, we dont realize it.

Do Guys Play ';hard to get'; Just Like Girls Do?

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Why do guys try to play hard to get and how do i get back at him?

My best friend (for a few years) and I have recently fallen head over heels for each other - we were not expecting this at all - we truly care and adore each other but we decided that right now is not a good time in our lives to have that serious relationships we long from each other. He's been STRESSED with financial/schoo/work - as for me too but we're still great friends.

I heard that SOME guys will play hard to get with the girl so that the next time the girl sees them, she'll ';miss him'; and want him more - flirtier. I notice with this guy is that he'll say ';you need to get over me'; yet he'll initiate the moves and his actions show that he REALLY wants to be with me. Then after we'll ';get close';, he'll ';limit'; himself but not completely avoid me. I'm confused - i thought he didn't want a relationship right now - i thought he wanted something serious for later? and why did he say that we needed to get over each other?

What do i do? Play hard to get back and see wht he does?Why do guys try to play hard to get and how do i get back at him?
Its a game, it has been since the dawn of humans. Its not a game of logic, although logic can be a weapon.

Don't think about this too much. Also if you want to be in a relationship just do it. Theres no such thing as the right timing for a relationship.

That ';you need to get over me'; comment- it depends the tone and context in which it is said. It sounds as if he said it without being very serious- that is just playing. Its VERY immature. But there you go, the game of love is often immature.

Don't play anything. You will just twist yourself up. You don't sound like the game playing type. That thing about making people miss you-- I think its only wise to like give people time to think after a date for example- you know if you call the next day it takes the excitement away a little.

Just be straight up. He is probably just insecure about you and hence the game playing. In fact if I were you I would just lay it out for him and be quite earnest. He won't want to play you then and he will take you very seriously as a possible partner. Think about it, do you want someone in the long run who plays games? No its just part of the mating ritual

Good luckWhy do guys try to play hard to get and how do i get back at him?
iv heard that too. some guys try to play the silly game ';hard to get';. most of the guys that i have liked in the past don't play the silly game. i have also heard that they look at the female a lot so then she will start liking them. and that actually does work for me. not on all guys though. but maybe he is trying to resist you with his sentience ';we need to get over each other';
Not worth your hassle. If he's seriously interested in you - he'll get the message and play less hard =\
i say grow up and find a mature relationship
thats it you play the game to .let him have it good
read this: www.sosuave.com. this will give u a glimpse of his mental state. it's a site for men, hod to play games with women. after reading it any man is an open book for me. very very useful tips about those dumb men
Tell him ';I really look forward to the day when we can have a real relationship, because I'll be able to do much more of this.'; Then grab him and kiss him. Then walk away.

THAT will change the game ...
What makes you think you're ready for the hassle he's gonna be. He is obviously impressed with himself, and with you considerably less.

Tell him to cut the crap because he knows he loves the attention. Tell him this train's getting ready to pull out of this station. So, if he's gonna get onboard, he better make up his mind before its too late.
for me, act normal. u know the way u treat him like a friend. coz let say if he is being sweet and u also respond more than that, its like he's making a temp check if u still like him. in some way, u r making urself too available for his comfort. probably he said that line just to confuse u more. just act normal and when he's being overly romantic or way too sweet/flirty ignore it. ignore meaning u dont have to respond on the same way. probably acknowledge the action but no need to act the same way.
Well if it's not going anywhere now anyway, I say let him be a jerk, and if he feels like being nice then be friends. In the meantime, try finding some new BF material-- someone more MATURE. Friend lovers never seem to work out, I'm sorry this is so frustrating... Good luck!!!
Sounds like he is scared of it. Show him it wont bite. Kidding. Really he may be a virgin. Some guys are scared.
Grown ups don't play games. Real men don't play hard to get either. This guy is messing with your head. He probably likes you but I think he thinks you like him a bit more than he likes you so, he's got some control and he's loving it. He can make moves without any expectations from you because that's how he's got it set up.

No man will put off a realtionship (ie sex!) because of work, etc. If they like you, they'll figure out a way to fit the realtionship into their life. That's just common sense. This guy doesn't want a realtionship. He wants to string you along and so far, it's working.

Your best bet is just to keep it on a friend level. Take his advice and get over him. He's saying that for a good reason. Like I said before, he thinks your feelings are stronger for him than his are for you and he's trying to tell you that's he going to let you down. He knows exactly what he's doing so, don't think he's confused.

If you want this stuff to continue, don't change a thing. If you want things to change, you need to put a stop to his fickleness. You can do that by stopping his little moves before they get started. Set up boundaries and keep them.

If you really can't tell him no because you think he'll stop liking you or something, stop hanging out with him altogether. I can tell you, he's not going to wake up one day and decide he wants to be with you. He's already made up his mind and right now, he's just playing with you head. You deserve better than that. He might be a good friend but, he's a lousy person. If he cared for you, he wouldn't be confused and playing games. You either like someone or you don't. He doesn't like you enough to stop being a douchebag so, stop it for him. Find someone who is mature and doesn't play headgames. Good luck!
This guy isn't worth your time, and you're not ready for a serious bodyfriend. Next.

How Do you Play Hard to Get with a Guy?

On text preferably :)How Do you Play Hard to Get with a Guy?
By not getting got..... and ending up alone.

By text? Just block incoming texts, and don't respond or send anything.How Do you Play Hard to Get with a Guy?
ignore them every so often come up with excuses like oh i forgot you text i was busy oh really let me check my schedule

Women, do you ever play ';hard to get'; or other games with guy's you like?

When you like a guy, do you ever play ';games'; with him??

How come?

Are there any games a guy can play that work on a girl?Women, do you ever play ';hard to get'; or other games with guy's you like?
yes, yes i do. what worked on me: be into me, then not into me, into me, then not into me etc. idk y it worked!!!Women, do you ever play ';hard to get'; or other games with guy's you like?
mm yeah, its fun. it depends on the guys though, if they like the chase or not.

b/c some guys HATE when girls play hard to get but then again some guys looove it!

so, there are advantages and disadvantages.

don't play mind games with her or anything, cause then that will just turn her off. Just tease her and flirt with her, be sarcastic.