I've been talkin 2 this guy 4 about a month now, %26amp; I'm set on him. I wanna date him, I like him, he likes me.
The thing is my friend %26amp; I think he's playin hard 2 get since he doesn't talk 2 me like he use 2, so her method 4 me 2 reel him back 2 me like b4 is 2 play hard 2 get right back.
I wanna try it but i dk how!
If any1 knows it will b helpful because I've looked everywhere %26amp; the internet isn't really giving anything I can understand.
PLZ HELP!!!How do you play hard to get with a guy who seems like he's playin hard to get?
Don't play hard to get. Just jump on top of him and tell him that you want to tap that. Haha, I'm totally kidding. Don't call or text him, let him do it. Hope this helped(:How do you play hard to get with a guy who seems like he's playin hard to get?
Whatever he does, do it twice as strong.
I dont know. sorry.
Dont answer his calls. oooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhh that gets them!
play his games as well
haha mind games. im having the same problem. what i do is.. i tease him.
well for starters you can ignore him one day then talk to him another
Walk up to him.
Kiss him.
Smile and walk away.
He will be butter in your hands
you dont.
sup ******?
play harder
WELL U SHOULD HANG OUT WITH ANOTHER PERSON AND TRY 2 MAKE HIM JEALOUS. HOPE THIS HELPS
well its pretty hard of both yaall play hard to get so lay off a little but dont be completely on him.
Run away when you see him and yell, ';You can't get me!'; That should do it.
forget about him, seriously, when you no longer interested then he won't leave you alone then you may even report him as harassing you...
why play games, just live your life normally and move on, forget about playing games, if he is for you, he will stick around no matter what.
your friend is right!
just stay away from him as much as possible for a certain time, and when he wants to see you again, pretend he doesn't exist. if he says hi, just calmly say ';hi'; back. if you play his game and he seems to not care...you might be in trouble.
don't play hard to get, playing fire with fire only causes a bigger fire.
just be straight up with him, and if he doesn't want you, all you have is one boy that doesn't like you, there are a million more out there
Ignore him completely.
He will come to you and say';you were sick of playing games.
It's then left up to him to make a move or he was just enjoying the idea and play w/ the unknown.
Guys don't tend to play hard to get as much as girls do, because most of them love the chase. He might just be losing interest.
If he's not talking to you as much as he used to, try calling less and less. If he's really interested, he'll pick up the phone.
Just be mean to him and tease him!
playing hard to get never works on a guy. Just be yourself, make sure you keep letting him know that your interested by physical contact like touching his hand, smiling, being playful, guys love it.. dont act desperate, make sure you give him his space and that he gives you ur space.
every thing everyone else said ... lol
you need to seem that you are not always available ... and if he goes to kiss u pull back .... then kiss him after so he knows that he has to work to get you
good luck!
people please answer mine!!!
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Tell you the truth, a real man chases after the girl. The chase is half the fun when it come to relationships, and guys like a challenge. You can't really play hard to get unless he is chasing after you.
I think of the movie ';He's just not that into you'; for some reason. lol
if you have to ask then you are probably an immature child who has no idea what you are talking about!!!! wait till you understand and are old enough to grasp the concept!
say, lets go out the the movies, a club or whatever if he says no, he's busy or blows you off. just dump him and don't call at all. start talking to other guys and forget him. if he wants you, he will come running.
if you are to easy accessible, they don't' want you. men like to be hunting their prey. they love the chase deep down inside.
if he sees you with someone else after you asked him out and he refused, you will know right then and there if he wants you, because your phone will ring. just say, hey, good to see you.be sweet, not arrogant and just have a pleasant time with whoever you are with. it works
Don't play hard to get. If you like some one go for them. Now answer mine.
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text you're heart out to him, and if you don't get the same response= move on and play super hard to get with this guy=
don't just ask him to go out. skip like 4 steps. it wil work out best in the end
look this is what you do...whenever you see him around act like you the type of person that doesnt care about a thing,dont even look at him. then when you are in a group of people and he is in a hearing range make your conversation interesting like you dont know or care that hes listening..but remember dont be to the extent that you dont give a ish about him.All of this should reel him in without pushing to far!!Really hoped i help(i no its a lot)
when he tries to talk to you dont talk back, blow him off like you dont care but dont do it too much cause you risk losing him when me and my boyfriend broke up i knew the one thing that would bring him back and that was making it known to him that i was hangin out with other guys...so do the same let him see you with another guy or make sure he knows that you are hanging out with other guys it will make him jealous and see that you can get other guys and if he really wants to be with you he will stop his games and come runnin to you cause he wont want any other guys to have you, but be careful cause you can also do this so where he thinks you have moved on to someone else and he might not come back....if nothing else go up to him and be straight with him just be like hey i wanna be with you enough with the games ....cause that wil show him for sure what you want and if he wants you he will let you know too
-well when he calls, dont answer call him back and hour later- make him wonder
-dont ever make it seem like another girl is competition or make it seem like you have time to even speak of another girl
- show him you appreciate what he does for you
- make him wait if he texts you
~ good luck
Friday, November 12, 2010
How do you play hard to get?
everyone says when you want a guys attention play hard to get well my ex boyfriend and me dated for 5 months and we recently broke up everyone says im obsessed with him and that when i use to play hard to get with him thats when he noticed me and cared more... I dont know how to play hard to get anymore because I love him now and its so hard... i want him back can someone please tell me how to play hard to get or what i should do im not ready to move on...How do you play hard to get?
playing hard to get is exactly what it means. playing! i think youve gotten past that with him and you love him now. this isnt a time for games. if you love him, than the best thing to do is let him go. in a way, its like playing hard to get but in this case, youre not playing. you have to take that risk. you have to let him go and see if he comes back to you. when you play hard to get, your acting like you dont care and you can find love anywhere you want. well in this case, you have to take a step back and let him be. you cant force what he doesnt want to happend. one of two things will happen. hell either come back to you or hell find someone else and move on. if he does not come back, than it wasnt meant to be. you have to live your life and move on as well. this is a great time to be on your own and take care of you. go out and socialize. spend more time with friends. take care of your needs. its a great feeling when you do this and it will keep the focus off of him. itll help ease the pain. who knows, you might end up meeeting someone you never thought you would. give life a chance. take chances. live your life.How do you play hard to get?
Hard to get doesnt work as well with guys. If he's like me, he'l lose interest and move on.
Hard to get is a silly game, and dishonest. Relationships are for mature people, not game players. If you want to play a game, break out the Monopoly board...otherwise, be straight up about your feelings (without gushing or coming across as needy/clingy). If the other person likes you back, great. If not, then move on.
If you have to pretend not to like someone, to catch their interest, they aren't worth being with in the first place.
just look at a guy then you smile then you ignore them and pretend that they dont exist, then you talk to another guy infront of them. also when you are talking to him, count to 5 before answering. never answer your phone the first time he calls and when he asks why you didnt call back be like ohh you called ohh yeah i guesss i forgot.
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Go and talk to him......you better be straight this time.
Don't play a game if you don't know the rules.
one thing that seems to work really well for guys is ';why do girls go with the jerk than the nice guy?'; I don't know why but it does work. When I was a jerk, I got so much play and so much attention. Then when I started to be nice, my attention dropped. It's one of those things that you have to find a balance too. Ignore him for a while. Give him a call to say hi and talk about the good times you had together, then ignore him for a while. He will keep thinking about why you are not talking to him and try to get your attention.
he was in it for the hunt. move on its for the best. playing hard to get will only atract the guy that are in it for the hunt. if you like the guy let him know.
Hard to get will not work here anymore, he is already gone. You have to start bumping into him everywhere and strike up simple conversations until you perk up interest again. If that does not work, turn out the lights the party is over.
Hah, it neither works well with guys, nor works for guys.
if a dude plays hard to get, its kinda pathetic.
playing hard to get is exactly what it means. playing! i think youve gotten past that with him and you love him now. this isnt a time for games. if you love him, than the best thing to do is let him go. in a way, its like playing hard to get but in this case, youre not playing. you have to take that risk. you have to let him go and see if he comes back to you. when you play hard to get, your acting like you dont care and you can find love anywhere you want. well in this case, you have to take a step back and let him be. you cant force what he doesnt want to happend. one of two things will happen. hell either come back to you or hell find someone else and move on. if he does not come back, than it wasnt meant to be. you have to live your life and move on as well. this is a great time to be on your own and take care of you. go out and socialize. spend more time with friends. take care of your needs. its a great feeling when you do this and it will keep the focus off of him. itll help ease the pain. who knows, you might end up meeeting someone you never thought you would. give life a chance. take chances. live your life.How do you play hard to get?
Hard to get doesnt work as well with guys. If he's like me, he'l lose interest and move on.
Hard to get is a silly game, and dishonest. Relationships are for mature people, not game players. If you want to play a game, break out the Monopoly board...otherwise, be straight up about your feelings (without gushing or coming across as needy/clingy). If the other person likes you back, great. If not, then move on.
If you have to pretend not to like someone, to catch their interest, they aren't worth being with in the first place.
just look at a guy then you smile then you ignore them and pretend that they dont exist, then you talk to another guy infront of them. also when you are talking to him, count to 5 before answering. never answer your phone the first time he calls and when he asks why you didnt call back be like ohh you called ohh yeah i guesss i forgot.
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Go and talk to him......you better be straight this time.
Don't play a game if you don't know the rules.
one thing that seems to work really well for guys is ';why do girls go with the jerk than the nice guy?'; I don't know why but it does work. When I was a jerk, I got so much play and so much attention. Then when I started to be nice, my attention dropped. It's one of those things that you have to find a balance too. Ignore him for a while. Give him a call to say hi and talk about the good times you had together, then ignore him for a while. He will keep thinking about why you are not talking to him and try to get your attention.
he was in it for the hunt. move on its for the best. playing hard to get will only atract the guy that are in it for the hunt. if you like the guy let him know.
Hard to get will not work here anymore, he is already gone. You have to start bumping into him everywhere and strike up simple conversations until you perk up interest again. If that does not work, turn out the lights the party is over.
Hah, it neither works well with guys, nor works for guys.
if a dude plays hard to get, its kinda pathetic.
How to play hard to get as a guy?
Heres the situation, me (am ok better then the others ill say) loves this girl and known her longest. another guy (emo...like reli emo) and theres another who is a cheater and just trying to get in her pants lol. anyways this girl loves attention, and kinda playing with ppl (from the looks of it) if am not there or any another shes over the other guy lol. Anyways reli messed up situation, she says things and does the complete opposite. But i need to know if she has feelings for me, so i need to play hard to get to see if she does. She gives me hints that might lead me into thinking she really does love me. But thanks in advance! and please dont tell me not to do it :p
p.s also any tips over the net? we talk on that too aswel irlHow to play hard to get as a guy?
Playing hard to get is a really good idea but basically you just need to walk down the hall way while your with her and say D*** she is hot (about other girls) and stuff like that. Then whens she brings up a boy just be like nah i don't like him ect.!! Or you can just ask her out since your the guy its not hard for you to have trouble with a girl liking you!
PS- I am a girl and normally it means that they like you when they lead you on like that and just can't make up there mind so my advice for you is to just ask her out and if she says no then you'll know that she dosen't like you and if you don't like that idea then you should just go to the movies with her ';as a friend'; and see where things end up and if it seems like she likes you when you guys go to the movies then im sure she does
I hope i helped i was the girl in this situation at one point and all i had to do was flirt and the guy asked me out and now he is my boyfriend so just keep doing what you are doing! :)
p.s also any tips over the net? we talk on that too aswel irlHow to play hard to get as a guy?
Playing hard to get is a really good idea but basically you just need to walk down the hall way while your with her and say D*** she is hot (about other girls) and stuff like that. Then whens she brings up a boy just be like nah i don't like him ect.!! Or you can just ask her out since your the guy its not hard for you to have trouble with a girl liking you!
PS- I am a girl and normally it means that they like you when they lead you on like that and just can't make up there mind so my advice for you is to just ask her out and if she says no then you'll know that she dosen't like you and if you don't like that idea then you should just go to the movies with her ';as a friend'; and see where things end up and if it seems like she likes you when you guys go to the movies then im sure she does
I hope i helped i was the girl in this situation at one point and all i had to do was flirt and the guy asked me out and now he is my boyfriend so just keep doing what you are doing! :)
How to play Hard to get with a guy?
There's this guy I used to really like %26amp; we kinda had a ';thing'; .
He moved away a year %26amp; 1/2 ago and now is moving back.
I still have feelings for him.
My friends said the best way for him to want me again is to play hrd to get because he will wounder if I like him still %26amp; how I feel about him %26amp; he will try hard to make me want him.
I reallllllllllly realllllllllly want him to like me again.
so what are the best ways to play hard to get %26amp; how should I get him to like me ?
any good tips or advice.
thank you :D
oh p.s.
he hangs out with my group of friends at school ( which is like 30 people )How to play Hard to get with a guy?
i hate it when girls play hard to get
i dont no if thats the best way to deal with it
maybe if u just be nice and funny and have a good time with him ull get that hoe becuz if u play hard to get he might not wanna play ur game and give upHow to play Hard to get with a guy?
i hate it when you girls play hard to get! lol, but the best way is try to get him to notice you have matured from the last time you met, or if you really want his full attention, tell your group of friends to (pretend) ditch him, and if he's alone at the courtyard or whatever, walk up to him and become his only (pretend) friend!
no no thats how guys get women, thats why women think it works.
Guys on the other hand don't like it/get it. and heres why.
Guys usually do the pursuing; women usually do the resisting.
So when you play hard to get to a guy he interprets that as 'just another girl who's not interested like so many others'
Or ';just another girl who's moved on and found another guy';
hence he will move on. Guys like a girl who acts like she cares about him. just ask dr laura hehe
Your friends are right. I did it this week, and it worked so far. I've been like kinda seeing this guy since June. I was calling him all the time. He never answered when I called, and as of Sunday, I said to myself, this is it. I'm not calling for a while. Well, he called Sunday nite, Monday, and today wondering what the heck was going on. SO you see, play a little hard to get and they wonder what's going on. Its kinda cool. And easy to pull off.
How about you DON'T play games and don't play hard to get. It doesn't make a guy want you more it just lets them see the low level your willing to operate on. The reason most people have problems in their life is because they are never honest or straight forward about them. All playing hard to get will do is make him think you don't like him and he will move on to someone else. Don't be a fool, tell him you still have feelings for him.
There is no reason for you to play hard to get. I mean a year and a half is a way too long for you to still keep those feelings you had for him so now that his back, i guess it's a chance your waiting to tell him how you feel about him. If he also still feel same way as you do i don't think he wouldn't want it that way. Don't waste your time..in that way you'll know how he feels about you too.
Don't play games with him, you'll come across as false, even if you don't want to.
If he approaches you, tell him you'll need to talk with him about starting over again before anything happens. Ask him how he feels, if he's interested, then tell him how you feel. If things are still cool then see where things go. But don't play him. If it were me, nothing would piss me off faster.
ok im going to give you some of the best tips.
first when a guy wants you to go to them tell them that your B****es come to you and that you dont go to them.
second, when they say that they are going to do something tell them that they better. and laugh and then just tell them that you are kidding.
third never show any sign of emotion saying that you are interested.
never make the first move, always let them come to you.
tease them a lil bit, but dont go to far.
Your friends a dumbass!!
I hang out with nothing but guys
and i learn ALOT from doing that!!
And if there's one important thing i've learned..
It's that guys HATE girls playing hard to get..
They think it's stupid and a waste of time to be ';chasin' skirts';.
If you like him be truthful.. Dont play games..it's stupid and immature.
a huge myth.. it doesnt work. girls for some reason think it does
its actually a huge turn off to many guys... we just get sick of the chase and think we are in the friend zone so we simply give up
just flirt.. it will get him attached
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yes flirt with him, start talking to him again via text or phone, tell people from the group that you still like him they will pass it on to him....
hard to get works sometimes but it can easily backfire
do. not. do. it. he'll move on :( sad I know. but don't do it if you like him.
Dudes hate the games tat girls play. Just be straight up with him. If you play childish games he'll just think you're crazy. Teasing people or leading them on shows the level of maturity in a person...
Let him be the one doing the chasing , try ignoring him a little , not too much, or he might think you are not interested, let him be the one to call or text you first.
first dont open your legs lol just acknowlege him but pretend your busy or got a hot date make em a little jealous and get him interested
pretend like for the most part your busy,show him some attention but act like youve got better things to do..
but if you really like him,dude let him know,get this steaming,dont be Too desperate though
Well i would like to say that coming from a guy, you can play hard but not too hard lol..
playing hard to get can make a guy move on to someone else so just flirt a lil that always worked on me and i should know cuz im a guy and were hard to predict sometimes same with girls.
Don't do that stupid sh*t there will only be a negative outcome. Be forthright with your feelings.
I agree with the first answer. Don't even bother playing ';hard-to-get';. Many guys find it a complete turn off.
just be yourself :]
just lead him on.
Flirt a little, wink, and smile. Then you're good to go. ;)
its a bad idea
flirt with him and then ignore him, but playin games is so stupid just tell him how u feel quick and easy just do it
Try Flirting alot but like Fake Flirts like your too good for him . Like hey Cutie but den say sike wave at him but den it turns out ur wavein to ur friend behind him lol make him look dumb but show him you dont care . Make sure to show him things have change since hes left find a cute boy an talk to him in front of him an laugh too.
Change your look show him a better you a lil makeup hair diff ect .
wen hes around like 5 feet away make sure your with ppl showing him you dnt need him an how everyone is into what your saying like (start saying something funny that had happened to you ) and hes gonna want to get involve . Don't talk to him first !!! make him come to you like make your friend call him over an talk an dont let it be awkward be comfortable funny an out der don't look bored or mean either wen he comes around be nice smile patter your eye lashes at him twice an walk away make another friend call you over . And soon hes gonna think your cute funny and sweet out der an trust me he will want you bad . If dis doesn't work find someone better .
He moved away a year %26amp; 1/2 ago and now is moving back.
I still have feelings for him.
My friends said the best way for him to want me again is to play hrd to get because he will wounder if I like him still %26amp; how I feel about him %26amp; he will try hard to make me want him.
I reallllllllllly realllllllllly want him to like me again.
so what are the best ways to play hard to get %26amp; how should I get him to like me ?
any good tips or advice.
thank you :D
oh p.s.
he hangs out with my group of friends at school ( which is like 30 people )How to play Hard to get with a guy?
i hate it when girls play hard to get
i dont no if thats the best way to deal with it
maybe if u just be nice and funny and have a good time with him ull get that hoe becuz if u play hard to get he might not wanna play ur game and give upHow to play Hard to get with a guy?
i hate it when you girls play hard to get! lol, but the best way is try to get him to notice you have matured from the last time you met, or if you really want his full attention, tell your group of friends to (pretend) ditch him, and if he's alone at the courtyard or whatever, walk up to him and become his only (pretend) friend!
no no thats how guys get women, thats why women think it works.
Guys on the other hand don't like it/get it. and heres why.
Guys usually do the pursuing; women usually do the resisting.
So when you play hard to get to a guy he interprets that as 'just another girl who's not interested like so many others'
Or ';just another girl who's moved on and found another guy';
hence he will move on. Guys like a girl who acts like she cares about him. just ask dr laura hehe
Your friends are right. I did it this week, and it worked so far. I've been like kinda seeing this guy since June. I was calling him all the time. He never answered when I called, and as of Sunday, I said to myself, this is it. I'm not calling for a while. Well, he called Sunday nite, Monday, and today wondering what the heck was going on. SO you see, play a little hard to get and they wonder what's going on. Its kinda cool. And easy to pull off.
How about you DON'T play games and don't play hard to get. It doesn't make a guy want you more it just lets them see the low level your willing to operate on. The reason most people have problems in their life is because they are never honest or straight forward about them. All playing hard to get will do is make him think you don't like him and he will move on to someone else. Don't be a fool, tell him you still have feelings for him.
There is no reason for you to play hard to get. I mean a year and a half is a way too long for you to still keep those feelings you had for him so now that his back, i guess it's a chance your waiting to tell him how you feel about him. If he also still feel same way as you do i don't think he wouldn't want it that way. Don't waste your time..in that way you'll know how he feels about you too.
Don't play games with him, you'll come across as false, even if you don't want to.
If he approaches you, tell him you'll need to talk with him about starting over again before anything happens. Ask him how he feels, if he's interested, then tell him how you feel. If things are still cool then see where things go. But don't play him. If it were me, nothing would piss me off faster.
ok im going to give you some of the best tips.
first when a guy wants you to go to them tell them that your B****es come to you and that you dont go to them.
second, when they say that they are going to do something tell them that they better. and laugh and then just tell them that you are kidding.
third never show any sign of emotion saying that you are interested.
never make the first move, always let them come to you.
tease them a lil bit, but dont go to far.
Your friends a dumbass!!
I hang out with nothing but guys
and i learn ALOT from doing that!!
And if there's one important thing i've learned..
It's that guys HATE girls playing hard to get..
They think it's stupid and a waste of time to be ';chasin' skirts';.
If you like him be truthful.. Dont play games..it's stupid and immature.
a huge myth.. it doesnt work. girls for some reason think it does
its actually a huge turn off to many guys... we just get sick of the chase and think we are in the friend zone so we simply give up
just flirt.. it will get him attached
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yes flirt with him, start talking to him again via text or phone, tell people from the group that you still like him they will pass it on to him....
hard to get works sometimes but it can easily backfire
do. not. do. it. he'll move on :( sad I know. but don't do it if you like him.
Dudes hate the games tat girls play. Just be straight up with him. If you play childish games he'll just think you're crazy. Teasing people or leading them on shows the level of maturity in a person...
Let him be the one doing the chasing , try ignoring him a little , not too much, or he might think you are not interested, let him be the one to call or text you first.
first dont open your legs lol just acknowlege him but pretend your busy or got a hot date make em a little jealous and get him interested
pretend like for the most part your busy,show him some attention but act like youve got better things to do..
but if you really like him,dude let him know,get this steaming,dont be Too desperate though
Well i would like to say that coming from a guy, you can play hard but not too hard lol..
playing hard to get can make a guy move on to someone else so just flirt a lil that always worked on me and i should know cuz im a guy and were hard to predict sometimes same with girls.
Don't do that stupid sh*t there will only be a negative outcome. Be forthright with your feelings.
I agree with the first answer. Don't even bother playing ';hard-to-get';. Many guys find it a complete turn off.
just be yourself :]
just lead him on.
Flirt a little, wink, and smile. Then you're good to go. ;)
its a bad idea
flirt with him and then ignore him, but playin games is so stupid just tell him how u feel quick and easy just do it
Try Flirting alot but like Fake Flirts like your too good for him . Like hey Cutie but den say sike wave at him but den it turns out ur wavein to ur friend behind him lol make him look dumb but show him you dont care . Make sure to show him things have change since hes left find a cute boy an talk to him in front of him an laugh too.
Change your look show him a better you a lil makeup hair diff ect .
wen hes around like 5 feet away make sure your with ppl showing him you dnt need him an how everyone is into what your saying like (start saying something funny that had happened to you ) and hes gonna want to get involve . Don't talk to him first !!! make him come to you like make your friend call him over an talk an dont let it be awkward be comfortable funny an out der don't look bored or mean either wen he comes around be nice smile patter your eye lashes at him twice an walk away make another friend call you over . And soon hes gonna think your cute funny and sweet out der an trust me he will want you bad . If dis doesn't work find someone better .
How do you know if a guy is playing hard to get with you and what are the signs to look for?
Its a very rare and smart man that does this and he tends to be very successful with women. Its against our nature. Some do it by accident or by being shy. I don't like giving away the secrets of us guys, but someone who is playing hard to get is paying you attention as a start right? Ok so they're paying attention. Now a player will give you just that much attention that you enjoy it because its gone just as quick and then it comes back for a moment and then is gone. Guys who know how to manipulate this are in charge, you will not work out their game because no one knows what anyone else is thinking. But eventually they will go for you and so you get what you want right. Signs with less sophisticated players is that they talk a lot of trash, like how they are going to Brazil or whatever to seem mysterious. Have an eye to picking up on crap and that should unveil the game. Your intuition is your best tool. If you get a feeling from a guy he wants you, you can take it to the bank that he does. Some people and this is girls as well pull back if you move forward. Its cat and mouse and its fun. So hes giving you attention and you're not sure coz he seems to be playing hard to get. Step back and make him come to you. He will step forward if he is playing hard to get to get you back in the zone where HE can pull back. He is doing this if he is interested. You then pull back on him coming forward and if he steps forward again you have him. Beat him at his own game.How do you know if a guy is playing hard to get with you and what are the signs to look for?
Guys dont play hard to get.
If they like you, you'llcatch them looking at you a lot. if they aren't doing that or finding excuses to talk to you, then they're not interested or unbeleiveably shyHow do you know if a guy is playing hard to get with you and what are the signs to look for?
Thats a very hard question to answer, but in my opinion, I would try talking to him.
If I was playing hard to get, I would try not to look at the girl sort of ';ignore'; her. But if the girl approached me, and tried to talk to me, then I would talk to her too. Good luck :)
also, can anybody please help me with my dilemma?
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Guys dont play hard to get.
If they like you, you'llcatch them looking at you a lot. if they aren't doing that or finding excuses to talk to you, then they're not interested or unbeleiveably shyHow do you know if a guy is playing hard to get with you and what are the signs to look for?
Thats a very hard question to answer, but in my opinion, I would try talking to him.
If I was playing hard to get, I would try not to look at the girl sort of ';ignore'; her. But if the girl approached me, and tried to talk to me, then I would talk to her too. Good luck :)
also, can anybody please help me with my dilemma?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Shy younger guy is playing hard to get, now what? HELP!
Its kind of a complicated situation, but I really need your help. Please bear with me, this might be kind of long winded!
There is this younger guy, and you could say we both like each other. We have had pretty verbal conversations by email and im but nothing has come out of it yet. First, he was pretty straight forward when it first began, but after this pretty hot emails we had, he kind of started acting awkward (and at times, I do too). He has made it clear that he likes to tease a little ( I have no problem with this!) and that he doesnt like to give all the information out, that he doenst want to tell me everything he wants/likes, because he likes to keep some excitement. He has been pretty forward in im, but not so much in person. In person, he is kind of reserved and I have even caught him looking at me, and alot of times we lock glances at each other.
I am trying to get him to open up to me a little, but its not going to be so fast. I have been told to be forward, touch his arm, etc. He is not easy to get close to, and I am shy myself but I figured one of us has to make a move or nothing will happen. So, more or less I have been talking to him on the phone today and making forward comments.
NOthing trashy of course, but I did offer a massage, and say things like how I needed to give him a drink because he is tense and I dont bite. I kind of think he is playing this game where I will want him more. Because when I call him and ask him to come visit me, he is kind of '; Ohhhh maybe I will come see you before I leave'; and of course he doesnt. Then, he plays another game with the IM's signing off and on, taking a while to respond, etc. I am all fine with this, its all part of the excitement I guess. But if someone can please give me a refresher course on this, I havent done it in a while. Oh, and he is 10 years younger than I.Shy younger guy is playing hard to get, now what? HELP!
My mother always told me, ';Never chase a man, because he'll just keep running';. You're giving this guy to much attention and WAY to much credit. Yes I'm sure he's reserved but it's not so much that he doesn't approach the women he likes. Why don't you try allowing him some wonderment. Let him wonder, ';Whay happened to her, she just stop trying?';. For some reason when you totally pay a guy no attention at all, you get all of his attention. They love TO chase, not TO BE chased. Stop all the emails, and IM's, and other forms of egar communication. Speak to him, ONLY after he speaks to you. IM him only in response to something he wrote and ';take your time replying';. Either he'll become scared that you're no longer interested, and persue you. Don't let guys play games with your mind.Shy younger guy is playing hard to get, now what? HELP!
too long to read.
He might be wierded out by you and too afraid to turn you down. Maybe he's getting a thrill out of leaving you wanting and has no intention of putting out. Or he could be intimidated by an older...you. On the internet, it's so easy to come on strong but meeting in person is a totally different ballgame. If anything happens he's just going to have to come around on his own. Maybe you should try being a little less forward for a bit and see if things can calm down a tad. He's not 13 is he?
There is this younger guy, and you could say we both like each other. We have had pretty verbal conversations by email and im but nothing has come out of it yet. First, he was pretty straight forward when it first began, but after this pretty hot emails we had, he kind of started acting awkward (and at times, I do too). He has made it clear that he likes to tease a little ( I have no problem with this!) and that he doesnt like to give all the information out, that he doenst want to tell me everything he wants/likes, because he likes to keep some excitement. He has been pretty forward in im, but not so much in person. In person, he is kind of reserved and I have even caught him looking at me, and alot of times we lock glances at each other.
I am trying to get him to open up to me a little, but its not going to be so fast. I have been told to be forward, touch his arm, etc. He is not easy to get close to, and I am shy myself but I figured one of us has to make a move or nothing will happen. So, more or less I have been talking to him on the phone today and making forward comments.
NOthing trashy of course, but I did offer a massage, and say things like how I needed to give him a drink because he is tense and I dont bite. I kind of think he is playing this game where I will want him more. Because when I call him and ask him to come visit me, he is kind of '; Ohhhh maybe I will come see you before I leave'; and of course he doesnt. Then, he plays another game with the IM's signing off and on, taking a while to respond, etc. I am all fine with this, its all part of the excitement I guess. But if someone can please give me a refresher course on this, I havent done it in a while. Oh, and he is 10 years younger than I.Shy younger guy is playing hard to get, now what? HELP!
My mother always told me, ';Never chase a man, because he'll just keep running';. You're giving this guy to much attention and WAY to much credit. Yes I'm sure he's reserved but it's not so much that he doesn't approach the women he likes. Why don't you try allowing him some wonderment. Let him wonder, ';Whay happened to her, she just stop trying?';. For some reason when you totally pay a guy no attention at all, you get all of his attention. They love TO chase, not TO BE chased. Stop all the emails, and IM's, and other forms of egar communication. Speak to him, ONLY after he speaks to you. IM him only in response to something he wrote and ';take your time replying';. Either he'll become scared that you're no longer interested, and persue you. Don't let guys play games with your mind.Shy younger guy is playing hard to get, now what? HELP!
too long to read.
He might be wierded out by you and too afraid to turn you down. Maybe he's getting a thrill out of leaving you wanting and has no intention of putting out. Or he could be intimidated by an older...you. On the internet, it's so easy to come on strong but meeting in person is a totally different ballgame. If anything happens he's just going to have to come around on his own. Maybe you should try being a little less forward for a bit and see if things can calm down a tad. He's not 13 is he?
How do u know if a guy is playing hard to get or not interested anymore?
I'm assuming this guy knows I like him since I sorta asked him out 6months ago, now that school has started again he's been showing more signs of interest like he would stare and try to keep eye contact, walks by me or stays near me to make me notice him. If he's walking out a room he'll keep looking back to see if i'm staring at him.
Well ok now he's disappeared and don't know what happened to him. I see his friend more often now and he'll always stare at me when he sees me, he kind of watches what I'm doing. So I'm not sure what is going on with the guy I liked, I can't tell if something happened to him, is he playing hard to get, or he is not interested. I thought about asking his friend about him, but changed my mind becuz it'd be too awkward since we don't talk or know each other. I just have no clue whats really going on becuz he showed his interest in me and then now he's just gone..I don't get it. Help me pleaseHow do u know if a guy is playing hard to get or not interested anymore?
More often ladies want to blame men for developing cold feet on the realationship which seemjed to be progressing well.
They should also blame themselves in other cases. What did you do yourself after the first meeting?
Well yours is easy:
a) Just call the guy and ask to see in private
b) Ask him what happened since you were last together and you thought that you were friends
c) Extend an invitation for a party to him
d) Invite him to a match / church or whatever he likes
e) Try to move closer to him once more
Make yourself available and amnswer in the positive encouraging way when you are with him.How do u know if a guy is playing hard to get or not interested anymore?
get a friendship wid friend then askCAT lose WEIGHT
Well ok now he's disappeared and don't know what happened to him. I see his friend more often now and he'll always stare at me when he sees me, he kind of watches what I'm doing. So I'm not sure what is going on with the guy I liked, I can't tell if something happened to him, is he playing hard to get, or he is not interested. I thought about asking his friend about him, but changed my mind becuz it'd be too awkward since we don't talk or know each other. I just have no clue whats really going on becuz he showed his interest in me and then now he's just gone..I don't get it. Help me pleaseHow do u know if a guy is playing hard to get or not interested anymore?
More often ladies want to blame men for developing cold feet on the realationship which seemjed to be progressing well.
They should also blame themselves in other cases. What did you do yourself after the first meeting?
Well yours is easy:
a) Just call the guy and ask to see in private
b) Ask him what happened since you were last together and you thought that you were friends
c) Extend an invitation for a party to him
d) Invite him to a match / church or whatever he likes
e) Try to move closer to him once more
Make yourself available and amnswer in the positive encouraging way when you are with him.How do u know if a guy is playing hard to get or not interested anymore?
get a friendship wid friend then ask
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