I met this guy at the party (mike) He is sooo incredibly cute, smart, everything i look for in a guy..playing beer pong we got totally wasted ended up hooking up ( makeout,fingering,*******,handjob,feelin鈥?up ) and he claims we had sex but i know for a fact we didnt.. im a virgin . my age is 15 and hes 16. we hungout after that, he got my number texted me asap the next day he texted me everyday first. we hungout three times once or twice a week b/c i was playing hard to get and didnt say yes everytime he asked. hes super sweet AND deep and wow. we get along super well..anyways, i lovee hangingout with him and hooking up he says im not a booty calll .. and i dont think i am . but all my guy friends say alll guys are the same and that i am just a booty call so they basically suggested/ really wanted to prove me wrong so they told me to text him and be like '; I want something more serious so i think is done... have fun in the summer'; and he was like wtf.. just wait till the school year. he texted me friday @ 12 i replied at like 4 and then he said ';your not a booty call im not that type of guy and never will be but think what you want its your choice not mine. i replied saying im not mad and i hope your not either:) no reply.. didnt text me at ALL saturday or sunday i texted him today asking what he was doing tonight he said '; sleeping'; he never sends one words texts.. i said cute one word txt..no reply. ..
whats happeneing?
what do i do/ say ?
how do i explain i didnt mean the serious thing , i was pressured to say it.
UGH, i really like this guy!! i was playing the hard to get game so good..now what do i do ?
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when i first saw him at the party i thought he was so incredibly totally out of my league.. he's gone out with super hot girls.. i mean i guess im pretty but not THAT pretty.Help!!! guys/girl what do i do !?!! easy points. desperatee?
i think youu hurt his feelingss . unless if he's playingg hard to get aswell . UGH one wordd textss annoy the livingg shiiit outta mee toO! lmaoo . well . just let him knoww that you weree pressured, he sounds like he wouldd understandd . :]
good luck .Help!!! guys/girl what do i do !?!! easy points. desperatee?
why don't you call him. you shouldn't try to get personal over text.
Your boys gave you advice that sounds like it should'a come from a b****y girlfriend who tries to be supportive.
NO, not all guys look for that. And NO, not al girls don't look for that.
Call him; explain everything you've told us. And say that you didn't think he was like that, but your guy friends pressured you into thinking that maybe he was...
He's hurt that you went down that road., doi. Fix it by being straight with him... If you can do it in person, if not NO LESS than phone.
oh hun that sucks im sorry and sorry to tell you .. but you are a booty call if your just hooking up he as total @$$ not even kidding drop the jerk hes not worth it find somebody else that is worthy of u
im sure your very pretty. never doubt yourself! if he is very interested in you....he will call/text you back. If not, there are plenty of hotter guys out there that im sure will look for a girl like you! oh and remember...guys likee hard to get but dont push it too far of he will think that ur not interested=)
You don't have very nice friends.
Tell him the truth.
he got caught he knows you know your a booty call and your friends are right.
apologize and explain that your friends were pressuring you
First of all it dosent mater how pretty you are or arent a guy should like you for who you are!
i suggest not listening to guy advice from guys. they r stupid. say ur sorry and that u want to get back together.
wow calm down. stop saying super every five mins.
just send him a text saying ';your not very good at the hard to get game';
when he asks you what your talking about tell him you were playing hard to get. who cares your young its not like you'll ever get married to the guy
So you hook up with a guy at a party simply because you think he is hot!?!? And you're only 15!?!? I hope you realize that if he claims you had sex, he is probably telling all his friends that. They are all calling you things like sl*t, wh*re, sk*nk, etc. Just let this guy go if he won't text you.
I guarantee you a lot of people in your school have heard, so in September (or whenever school starts back up), a lot of people are going to think you are really easy and will try and get with you. Since this is probably what you want, then don't worry about this guy, there will be plenty of others! You might get attention from some unattractive guys, but they deserve no less attention from you than the hot ones do.
Hm, it sounds like he really liked you and you really weren't a booty call. Then i guess you upset him when you said ';I want something more serious so i think is done... have fun in the summer';, btw the last part of it was kinda mean and sarcastic, i would be mad too.
Anyways, i think you should just txt him back saying your sorry and that you believe your not a booty call, and that your guy friends just simply pressured you into doing this, and since they are your friends you trusted them and toke their advise like any good friend would normally do. Then say that you really like him.
If u can't figure out how to tell him just explain everything to him that you've told us.
Also not all guys go for booty calls, trust me.
Tell him you were pressured into saying that stuff and didn't mean any of it at all. Then that should get his attention and if it doesn't tell him ';in all honesty I truly do like you'; and if that doesn't work then idk what will. And btw he does sound perfect 4 u. So good luck
Why does he want u to wait to till the school year? U might just be a booty call. Try being his friend again and no fooling around for while and you'll know if he starts to treat you different
i think it either means(if he is a good guy)that u hurt him. but he is not the good guy then it means he is tryin to play hard to get also (which will make u think he really wants a relationship with u but really jus wants sex) i think ur guy friends were really wrong! how the hell are u a ';booty call'; when u dont have sex?! if they mean jus fingering and touching then thats not a dam booty call. if he wanted jus sex he could get another girl.tell him flat out ur sorry about being an a$$ the other day about something serious. tell him u were givin bad *** advice and should have jus did what u really wanted to do. i think u should jus try to say ur sorry to the guy and get back in good with him.
i hope i was some help
im a guy and my last relationship went terrible not because i didnt like the girl but because the girl listened to her dumb friends who had no input on the relationship. she let her insecurities get to her and she would turn against me....... almost daily i would have to assure her that i like her and cared about her for hours on end. she would say things like i didnt like her at all, that i just wanted her for sexual things, and that my best friend was nicer to her than me.... i new these things weren't true and it made my life terrible,,,, i constantly felt tired and sick and depressed. i finally had to end it and tried to tell her that a relationship cannot work without trust, and you cannot love someone if you dont trust them... she didnt understand so whatever.... live one. So dont let your insecurities get to you and dont be a stupid follower. be a leader and follow your feelings. ooooo and please dont be sexes i hate when girls are and guys are. judge people for who they are and not on their sex or because the color of their skin
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