Im in 8th grade and i want a boyfriend so bad! People think i play hard to get too!?

See im in 8th grade and i want a boyfriend like you couldent believe, You know to fall inlove with and to be all romantic with and cuddle and stuff but...The kind of guys i like are hard to find.Im not picky Just...Im really into certin guys. But Ive turned down so many guys from nerds to the best in the class some girls call me a lesbian and well all the boys say I play hard to get and am just greedy :(! But im not...Im only waiting for the right person to fall in love with and to take my first kiss that someone has to be special. Urgh! How do I tell people this and how do i put down people...Because I hate it!!!Im in 8th grade and i want a boyfriend so bad! People think i play hard to get too!?
It seems to me that you can't really want a boyfriend that bad, if you don't want to date. Girls who really want a boyfriend and who get asked out have no reason to complain. You might need to start kissing frogs to find your prince charming.





I think that you are more into the idea of romance and not really into being a girlfriend, which is not bad, but it is not being honest to yourself or the people around you.Im in 8th grade and i want a boyfriend so bad! People think i play hard to get too!?
Grow up first.
you are picky.
You don't need a boyfriend...boys in that grade only want to have sex with you, they don't know anything but that.
well ill tell you exactly whast you are doing wrong, your looking, quit looking for somebody, you need to wait, if you look for someone and you think youve found them it wont last and will not be exactly what you wanted, you need to be patient, love isnt something that comes on demand or that you can force, love is a natural feeling and comes on its own, be patient, and put your gaurd down.
im going into 8th grade too and just ignore them i have never had a boyfriend exept for some jerk lol but just ignore them seriously !
try to look at some of those other dudes you dont like maybe they arent so bad if you dont look like you could be a model don't expect to ';easily'; get a guy that does
u should go step by steps don't rejects the nerds just go out with them


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Just don't take notice of what other people say. Personally you seem very young to be worrying about things like boyfriends and falling in love. You won't really find true love in high school!
In 8th grade, you start going all crazy over boys. I completely understand how you feel. You haven't explained what kind of guys you DO like, for starters. If there isn't anyone you've found who IS good enough then just relax. He'll come along. But don't get the reputation of a boy hater. Be friendly and let them know that it just isn't the right time yet. He'll come around. Trust me.
Your young. Dont worry about dating right now. And if your really wanting someone just give a guy a chance. Just go to a movie or something with him, you never know what they are really like until you give them a chance. Just tell the girls that your not a lesbian you just like certain guys and plus your really young and dont wanna be tied down.





Live your life, have fun. Be a teenager. Wait!
well stop being desperate and go flirt thats the only way you are going to get with a guy..if you wine and cry all the time your not getting anywhere because flirting throws hints at guys that you like them so get started now
You are only in 8th grade, don't rush things. You'll get your Mr. Right, just be patient. If you keep turing down boys, the word will get around and you will never get a date. Be a little more mature and go out with somebody that is close to what you want.
Hey! Hey! Im in 9th grade! Just graduated 8th, don't rush your first kiss. If you do it could mean A LOT of akward moments.
Well where that may be true, you have to think: not everybody finds the one true love in middle school.. i mean i am the exact opposite. im in eighth grade, and no one asks me out, but i keep trying. you should try dating someone and see where it leads! one day you will find the true one however :)
i know what you mean i didn't have one boyfriend in middle school , because i didn't like the ones who liked me, so i found something wrong with any guy that asked me out , does that make me picky or greedy? - no i just knew what i was looking for and they didn't have it lol .trust me when you get to high school its alot easier. so just tell them that you just have a higher slandered and you don't want to waist your time on some one you don't like back, that seems fair, i mean i wouldn't want to be going out with someone who doesn't feel the same way back. just give it time.
LOL you must be rel pretty but its the same thing with me


I'm going to the 11th grade and i still haven't had a real boyfriend because all the not my type kind of guys always like me and i know what i like and don't...but i know what i want will come my way, i'm not going to force love..It's going to happen on its own and just let those people know that you don't want what you getting right know and that's end of story.
You tell people that you just have certian standards in a guy that you expect to be met. You don't want to settle, that's just going to leave you miserable in the end. But a little advice for you....you're in 8th grade, I promise that you most likely are not going to find your true love right now. I'm not saying that you're too yound to have a boyfriend, or to understand love, but you're definitely too young to be looking for the one. I think it's something that you won't understand till you get older, but you really should appreciate and take advantage of the single time you have time. Enjoy your friends and your freedom. It's really important for you at such a young age. A lot of great things can come with being in a relationship. But there's also a lot of complications and obligations that can get frustrating and annoying. You should just be patient and wait for that right guy to come along. If you look too hard you're going to find the wrong guy, mistake him for the right one, and end up in a lot of heartache. Don't rush, you have so much time.
You're living in a dream world little girl! You don't fall in love with the first person you go out with! DATING is to weed through people, see who you like and who you don't! It's not to hook up with one boy and be in love forever! You are VERY IMMATURE and have UNREALISTIC ideas about dating and love! It's good that you haven't hooked up with anyone yet, as it's going to be nothing but trouble for you! You're to young to know know what you want and who to go out with! You THINK you do, but you don't really! A boyfriend, is the LAST thing YOU need right now!
your too young girly... =) don't stress it you shouldn't have to worry about boys at this age....





be yourself if you don''t like a guy dont date 'em simple...





whop cares if ppl think your playing hard to get....





those boys just aren't your type....
you're in 8th grade..you really dont want to get serious at that age, believe me, i've been there..and guys arent mature enough at that age, either (they usually get there, at around 10th grade)...girls in middle school are bitches, so dont listen to them when they call you names





as far as the guys go, they just want you to ';get with them';, so to speak..and there's nothing wrong with wanting your first kiss to be special, but that doesnt mean you should b rushing the whole falling in love thing..you're not wrong for turning down guys at your age either





just be confident that you will eventually find ';the guy';..but dont assume its the first guy you find....hang in there..good luck :)
you're in freaking 8th grade.... wow.