i need good advise fast!! i let one of my friends know that i like the guy in our job, my friend who's really my x sister in law because she's divorced from my brother always was jellous of me. well my x-sister in law was working at this job 3 years before me, so she knows everybody their before me. i just started this job one month ago and this really cute guy got my attention, i would always see him staring at me and once in a while he would say hi, or something like that, but ever since i told my x sister in law that l really like this guy, i feel he tries to keep away from me even hide. i suspect she told him i like him, well how can i fix this problem and is their a way i can have a chance with this really cute guy or has he lost interest in me?How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
your friend messed it all up for sure..asking her is the only way to find out about the whole thing but she doesnt sound reliable!How can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
Do you really trust your sister in law
Sounds like your ex sister in law told him some bad stuff about you. And now he is freaked out.
Approach him and ask him if your x sister in law said anything to him to make him uncomforable around you. You could explain to him that your xsister in law and you are not always on the best terms and that she has been known to bad mouth you...and see if that is the reason he is avoiding you...maybe she told him you hate him...who knows?
If he ';lost'; interest in you because he found out you were interested in him, then - sad to say - that's a pretty clear sign he wasn't interested in you to begin with, at least not romantically.
Of course, it could be that your wicked ex-S.I.L. used the knowledge that you liked him against you in a different way. Maybe she didn't tell him you liked him. Maybe she told him something bad (and likely, untrue) about you, just because you like him. Is she that spiteful?
There is only one grown-up way to settle this and get on with your life: put on your confident-woman shoes, channel the spirit of Carrie Bradshaw, and ASK HIM OUT. Yes, if he rejects you, it will be an embarrassing two minutes, but then you'll know exactly where you stand, you can stop obsessing, and start dating someone new. The ';hard to get'; routine really should not continue past high school.
No sense beating a dead horse! He has lost interest, probably because of something she told him or just by himself....move on
P.S: DON'T EAT WHERE YOU SHIIT!
Almost the same thing happend to me and the guy I liked went away for a while.I started to forget about him and live my life and be me and he came back around.I guess guys are just weird at times and have to be looked over.So I think u still have a great chance.Just don't be nervous around him act like theres no problem you have to worry about be confident.He'll be attached soon.
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