How do i play hard to get when hes playing hard to get too!?

okay so theres this guy and we have dated a few times but its odd i always have to be the one to text him or call him and if were at a party i always have to go up and say hello to him and if i dont he wont. and so when im with him he will flirt with every girl but me and he acts like hes ingoring me. but then he always wants to hookup later in the night.

and so one of my friends asked him what was going on between us and he said hes playing hard to get.

and i know him well enough to know he always wants what he cant have.

but last time i tried playing hard to get he got upset with me

how should i play hard to get and make him want me even more?

any help!!

please!How do i play hard to get when hes playing hard to get too!?
keep playing games, you'll go far in lifeHow do i play hard to get when hes playing hard to get too!?
hes not that into you!!!! in the first place...move on!
You CAN'T.



Use logic. If BOTH of you are playing hard to get (being passive) how will you get together????



Answer: You won't. ONE of you has to make a move.
If you BOTH play hard to get, you're going to defeat the purpose of getting to know each other.



Helpful Tip: Playing hard to get only makes you look bad. People can tell you're trying TOO hard and games aren't appealing to many people.



What's hotter? Being bold and walking UP to the guy and talking to him.
well why don't you try this: for about 5 days or 5 opportunities of seeing him don't call or talk to him for reasons like ';u didn't notice him'; or ';you were busy';(they really don't like that one) and i know he will talk to you or call you out of the blue to see ';whats up'; if not then he's probably not that to you



try it

good luck!
Stop playing games. Stop letting this guy use you for sex. What is there for you in the relationship? You might get him playing hard to get, but once you give in he will be gone. He isn't the only guy like that in the world. They are everywhere and they leave nothing but heartache in their paths. You can't get someone to ';want you more';. Either the feelings are there or they aren't. I'm sorry to say that it sounds like they aren't with this situation. However, once you except that and move on he will suddenly ';appear'; to care. That will last just long enough to get you back to where he wants you and where you don't want to be.



P.S. You can't win a man with sex. Stop having sex with a guy that doesn't treat you with respect ALL of the time.
Without being unkind, it does sound like he is using you.

You need to really step back from this relationship and see how he reacts once you arn't available at the next party or to return emails perhaps. Playing games is okay for awhile but this could wear you down in the long run not knowing where you stand with him. Good Luck with him !

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