Sunday, December 11, 2011

Should i play hard to get to keep her interested? im confused?

soo i met this girl a couple weeks ago and we made out and what not...she said that she really liked me and i really like her....she lives kinda far away like 30 minutes by car and i dont have one yet...so we have been talking online...but in the last week she just dosent seem as interested or at all interested in me..i always talk to her when shes online but she dosent seam as eager to talk to me anymore..i also told her i thought she diddnt like me and she said tht she was on social strike thts why she wouldent talk to me...idk im confused...does she not like me anymore because she likes the challange of trying to get a guy to like her and i was to easy, and if i start to ignore her will tht boost her interest in me back up? why do people like to play hard to get and all these games with peoples emotions ...its really frustrating!! how can you really like someone and then just ignore that person because they like to talk to you..Should i play hard to get to keep her interested? im confused?
People play hard to get to frustrate people and get control of their mind and their emotions.



The game is as old as time itself. The problem is, despite popular belief, you can't play hard to get. You are either hard to get or you aren't. You are not hard to get, so you can't play that card.



She's probably not playing hard to get, she probably doesn't like you that much. But she lied to you, so it's time for you to fire back.



You are going to talk to her on the internet and tell her you like her, but it's too bad she's busy being alone. Really put the screws to her on this one, sounds like she is pretty resilient. Play on cultural stereotypes. For instance, tell her it's too bad you're a guy and you can go up to any girl you want and ask her out, while she has to sit around and wait for a half way decent guy. Even if it isn't true, she'll believe it because it's part of cultural stereotypes.



Tell her it doesn't matter anyway you just wanted to sleep with her. Say ';I'm gonna buy two 40's and send one to your house. A cheap girl deserves a cheap drink. We can toast to your misery and you can get drunk and hate your life alone in your empty room.';



End it like this: ';Sorry i've got to go meet a real girl who knows how to have some fun at this big football game tonight. It's too bad, there are going to be lots of guys there, you could have come with me at least as a friend. Oh well, you're on social strike, and I have no more time to cyber with the internet girls who sit at home and chat alone. Enjoy your social strike. I hope you're not old and wrinkly by the time you figure out how to have fun with a guy. I'll IM you when I get back, I already know you're going to try to ignore me because you couldn't win an argument if your life depended on it. But I want to make sure you not sitting around like a loser.';



You win. Believe me this is no worse than trying to tease her with hard to get. If you can't pull this off, leave her alone. All that will end up happening is she'll come to the realization she was attacked by a weakling. She'll get depressed and angry, not frustrated and fiery.Should i play hard to get to keep her interested? im confused?
sounds like shes possibly bored??? i think she thinks th relationship is going nowhere. i mean she likes u, u like her. ASK HER OUT ALREADY!!! shes waiting!!! n set up a date or something lol
IGNORE HER!



Sadly, you have to play the game. Once she calls you maybe you can ask her if she has talked to her friends about you, sometimes friends are the ones telling you not to call the guy, or telling her to look for a boy that has a car. Make sure they're not turning her against you!



good luck
oh... ignore her... do not pay attention and she will be back, right now she things she have you anyways... stay online but do not say a word untill she says hi... dont go after her... she will be after you.

by the way i dont think she is a good choice if she plays game...but it is up to you
listen 2 me . an exactly trying it wiz ur self.

if u love a women let her hold 2 know how she wanna 2 be touched.u,ve got 2 know her realy . teast her . u have 2 feel her in ur blood when u see unboren child in her eyes . u know realy u loued a women, himo. X
Sounds to me like she may be pushing you away. I don't think that she really knows what she wants. It could be that the long distance thing isn't working for her....Good luck!

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