Thursday, October 28, 2010

Shy younger guy is playing hard to get, now what? HELP!

Its kind of a complicated situation, but I really need your help. Please bear with me, this might be kind of long winded!



There is this younger guy, and you could say we both like each other. We have had pretty verbal conversations by email and im but nothing has come out of it yet. First, he was pretty straight forward when it first began, but after this pretty hot emails we had, he kind of started acting awkward (and at times, I do too). He has made it clear that he likes to tease a little ( I have no problem with this!) and that he doesnt like to give all the information out, that he doenst want to tell me everything he wants/likes, because he likes to keep some excitement. He has been pretty forward in im, but not so much in person. In person, he is kind of reserved and I have even caught him looking at me, and alot of times we lock glances at each other.



I am trying to get him to open up to me a little, but its not going to be so fast. I have been told to be forward, touch his arm, etc. He is not easy to get close to, and I am shy myself but I figured one of us has to make a move or nothing will happen. So, more or less I have been talking to him on the phone today and making forward comments.



NOthing trashy of course, but I did offer a massage, and say things like how I needed to give him a drink because he is tense and I dont bite. I kind of think he is playing this game where I will want him more. Because when I call him and ask him to come visit me, he is kind of '; Ohhhh maybe I will come see you before I leave'; and of course he doesnt. Then, he plays another game with the IM's signing off and on, taking a while to respond, etc. I am all fine with this, its all part of the excitement I guess. But if someone can please give me a refresher course on this, I havent done it in a while. Oh, and he is 10 years younger than I.Shy younger guy is playing hard to get, now what? HELP!
My mother always told me, ';Never chase a man, because he'll just keep running';. You're giving this guy to much attention and WAY to much credit. Yes I'm sure he's reserved but it's not so much that he doesn't approach the women he likes. Why don't you try allowing him some wonderment. Let him wonder, ';Whay happened to her, she just stop trying?';. For some reason when you totally pay a guy no attention at all, you get all of his attention. They love TO chase, not TO BE chased. Stop all the emails, and IM's, and other forms of egar communication. Speak to him, ONLY after he speaks to you. IM him only in response to something he wrote and ';take your time replying';. Either he'll become scared that you're no longer interested, and persue you. Don't let guys play games with your mind.Shy younger guy is playing hard to get, now what? HELP!
too long to read.
He might be wierded out by you and too afraid to turn you down. Maybe he's getting a thrill out of leaving you wanting and has no intention of putting out. Or he could be intimidated by an older...you. On the internet, it's so easy to come on strong but meeting in person is a totally different ballgame. If anything happens he's just going to have to come around on his own. Maybe you should try being a little less forward for a bit and see if things can calm down a tad. He's not 13 is he?

How do u know if a guy is playing hard to get or not interested anymore?

I'm assuming this guy knows I like him since I sorta asked him out 6months ago, now that school has started again he's been showing more signs of interest like he would stare and try to keep eye contact, walks by me or stays near me to make me notice him. If he's walking out a room he'll keep looking back to see if i'm staring at him.



Well ok now he's disappeared and don't know what happened to him. I see his friend more often now and he'll always stare at me when he sees me, he kind of watches what I'm doing. So I'm not sure what is going on with the guy I liked, I can't tell if something happened to him, is he playing hard to get, or he is not interested. I thought about asking his friend about him, but changed my mind becuz it'd be too awkward since we don't talk or know each other. I just have no clue whats really going on becuz he showed his interest in me and then now he's just gone..I don't get it. Help me pleaseHow do u know if a guy is playing hard to get or not interested anymore?
More often ladies want to blame men for developing cold feet on the realationship which seemjed to be progressing well.

They should also blame themselves in other cases. What did you do yourself after the first meeting?



Well yours is easy:

a) Just call the guy and ask to see in private

b) Ask him what happened since you were last together and you thought that you were friends

c) Extend an invitation for a party to him

d) Invite him to a match / church or whatever he likes

e) Try to move closer to him once more



Make yourself available and amnswer in the positive encouraging way when you are with him.How do u know if a guy is playing hard to get or not interested anymore?
get a friendship wid friend then ask
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  • How would you play hard to get?

    Apparently I don't know how to play it.

    I was playing hard to get with the

    guy I reallly like, and guess what?

    He got a new girlfriend.

    Who is easy.





    Any tips?How would you play hard to get?
    don't do it.



    you obviously played the game to long and he got tired of it and moved on. I think playing hard to get is okay if he playing along and it only happens for a short period of time.



    If the fisherman never gets the fish after a long day of work he'd just eventually go home and give up.How would you play hard to get?
    I'm older (39) but I'll offer a bit o' advice:



    I think playing hard to get is fine to a point, but you can't let opportunity pass you by. Were you returning his calls, acting ambivalent? Or just being a little cool?



    If you and him were at a party - a little coming and going (as opposed to giving him your undivided attention the whole night) is a good thing, but don't hide how you feel. Have fun, flirt. Get on his radar before somebody else does.



    My advice and what I try to live by: if I feel there's a connection, I try to communicate it - no reason to beat around the bush. Sure, I usually wait a couple days to call a girl I got a number from, I'm not a big gift-buyer until we've dated a bit, I don't call a ton - but I try to communicate clearly and be there for the person. That is more important to me than playing hard to get.



    Maybe this guy was oblivious to your advances, maybe you weren't clear about your feelings for him. Maybe he's had feelings for his new girlfriend for a while. Could just be a case of bad timing. She was somewhere at the right time with him when you weren't.



    Oh well, his loss...
    well its obvious he was only looking for some tail so your better off.



    playing hard to get a fun game, but can always backfire on you with someone who is less patient as you are.



    big time flirting is usually the first time, but always lead him wanting more and more and when he comes to you saying would you like to go out tonight... just throw the occasional nah.... im going out with some friends tonight. even if you are not make it look like your very interested but he is going to have to earn his time spent with you.
    Playing hard-to-get is a combination of:



    1) Answering every question with a question, and



    2) Ramping up one's appeal, i.e., regular display of beaucoups

    cleavage



    Said another way- - - you want to keep them coming back; ya just aren't giving them any more than eye candy when they come back.




    when you answer him, give short answers that might lead somewhere but don't.

    occasionally look at him, but when he sees you watching look away like you don't care.

    be arrogant in a flirtacious way.

    if that makes sense.
    Well that guy was apparently looking for an easy girl!! When you play hard to get, it makes the guy who's after you mad about you more.

    So it really depends on the guy. You're on the right track.
    Smile and flirt, but once you get kind of in deep flirt mode...say you have to go. Smile and stuff. Have him want you but dont let him have you. YET.
    Stop playing hard to get.



    Guys will only put up with games for so long before they get impatient and irritated.



    Next time, try being honest and show genuine interest in the guy so he won't feel insecure and move on.
    Don't do it.

    I did it and it bit me in the butt.

    And he did it to me and I decided he was an jerk.

    It just doesn't work.
    Just try to be hard to get, pretend you don't like that guy.



    Or make him jealous then don't accept him for a while then sooner or later date him.
    ugh. that sukss.

    you just need to ignore him; and dont TALK TO HIM. guys just get more ATTRACTED to you when you ignore them ;D..[[trust me;ive been through it; it workss!!]]



    hope i helped
    Don't.



    From a guy's point of view, it's annoying and puts us off. It seems like the girl just wants attention or is playing with us.
    who plays hard to get? it's so stupid. if ya like him ya like him. don't play games. its a waste of time.
    What for? That's kinda not interested, right? Not the same as him picking an easy girl. He thought you didn't want him or like him.




    Don't play hard to get. A little aggressiveness never hurt anyone.
    How to play hard to get:



    go live on a mountain as a hermit
    Don't. Guys don't like that.
    you should play ';easy to bang';



    it's MUCH more fruitful
    It doesn't pay to play hard to get. Why would you do that? Just be yourself.
    obviously dont do it.



    thats the last thing a guy wants.

    People, What is the reality of purpose for girls who play hard to get with guys?

    What is the reasons in behind? Why they do it? How long will they stop?

    10 points if you give me a good answer, thanks!People, What is the reality of purpose for girls who play hard to get with guys?
    Many girls still feel that by taking the initiative will make them feel very loose and cheap. This will result in them waiting for guys to take action, and in some worse cases, even after the guy has taken action, a girl will still play hard to get with him so as to not make him think that she is easy to get.



    Guys are very straightforward creatures. They do not like to play games when it comes to relationships. Sometime by playing hard to get, things may get backfired. A guy will think that he has no chance and therefore will leave and look for other girls.



    So the ability to differentiate between a girl who is just playing hard to get and a girl who does not have any interest at all for you is very important here.People, What is the reality of purpose for girls who play hard to get with guys?
    Girl's Wanna Have Fun :) like the song says. they like playing it because its a game and they like to be fought for.
    its a game for them they want you to play the cat and mouse game catch me if you can
    Here's a good article below
    they don't them 2 think that they like them 2 much because then they'll think that the boys will do whatever they want in the relationship
    they do it because they know you'll go crazy because you cant have them, that and were just weird :P
    it's part of natural selection the girl is looking for the best guy to mate with. the one who does the most stuff gets the booty and the best children are raised. this is so ingrained into her nature she doesn't all ways understand why she is doing it. It just comes natural

    After total sexual agression, is hard to get an option? 10 points for best answer!?

    piggybacking off my last question. for those who didn't read it: dating a guy, played hard to get, got stoned, tried to have sex with him, he didn't want too in till it was special(no he's not a virgin), now he doesn't call me as much or seem as into me.



    I clearly need to get back into playing hard to get

    but hooow on earth do you play hard to get when he KNOWS that you would have had sex with him? how do you save face? what do you say what do you do?



    10 points for best answer :)After total sexual agression, is hard to get an option? 10 points for best answer!?
    the real question is do you want to be in a relationship with this guy or just bang him?? If u just want to bang him give it some time and try to seduce him again...he'll come around....all guys do. If you want to be in a lasting relationship then eventually that ';special'; time will come and you'll get to do it anyway.After total sexual agression, is hard to get an option? 10 points for best answer!?
    Only someone without brains would try that one again...
    Playing hard to get is very very stupid. If you overdo that he'll assume you're not interested and move on.

    How to play hard to get with a guy you like?

    and be good at it? best tips? thnx %26lt;3How to play hard to get with a guy you like?
    why you have to do this? just act normal..think it's cute but if you get overboard it kills



    just an advice:

    if you do those thing he might as well think that you're not interested in him (this is always come as 1st thought, more less try to rethink).. not so many people like to be played around and get confused.. they got something else to think about (job, study, problem arises)..if your guy is not into games you gonna loose him faster than you could imagine..don't be a burden be a helper



    try ask those who does those things..did she/he get married happily in the end? is she/he is happy now? they suffer more actually..



    something to share:

    once n i like this girl.. at first she talk to me but then suddenly she act like she don't care..not replying my text and ignoring my call..walk away ignoring me..i think she enjoy doing it that but i don't (actually she overdo it)..everyone has their own limits and when it got too much they exploded.. at first i do the chase but after all the confusion I stop calling or text her.. after one month she start calling me asking why i didn't call her anymore said that she's been waiting for my reply..i lost interest in her just because i feel that i can't trust her anymore..try to give her a chance but then she did it again (yay)..right now i don't care if she likes me or not, to me there's a 'better' person out there for her..How to play hard to get with a guy you like?
    thats easy - just act like he is no big deal -
    if he asks u out say lemme think about it and wink, flirt w/ other boys they get jealous, and it depends on ur rep to if uve gone out with a bunch of guys u should be good 2 go Hope this helps!
    dont play games wiv guys, they find you out sooner or later and **** you off.
    Why would you even want to ??? I get bored instantly with girls like that and move right along...
    Don't play games with a guy just be a respectable lady and don't be easy.
    The way to play 'hard to get' is to flirt and be friendly with the guy but not too close. Let him go on the answer machine several times before you speak to him and if you regularly see him out, show him that you like him by talking to him and being friendly but surround yourself with other male and female company as well. The best tip is simply : don't be overly available and NEVER appear too needy or interested. Nobody likes a needy person and the same goes for friendships of the same sex. Needy people are energy drainers and take more than they give. If a guy thinks a girl is needy or easy, there's no challenge in the whole thing. Good luck.
    My best tip is not to. It's dishonest and no way to begin a relationship. It reinforces the idea that all girls play games, which I personally resent. Be real. Then you can expect the same of him. But if you play games, don't feel justified in complaining when/if he ever lies to you.
    im sorry to me playing hard to get is saying im not interested --- so if he thinks like me (that no means no) he will not chase and lose interest --- be honest and dont play games --- best wishes
    don't do that. guys get really bored with that kind of stuff. i know i do. it's annoying. just be yourself.
    playing hard to get played out
    playing games will make him have no guilt in cheating on you
    don't unless u are still in 3RD GRADE
    just act like you would with a guy that u absolutely had no interest in whats so ever but still wanted to be nice. For example just talk to him only if he talks to you. dont make too much eye contact, but still seam available, u dont want to make him not interested in you if he know that you want nothing to do with him.
    Well I hope you dont like the guy. If I was him I would move on very quickly.
    Don't play hard to get-- it doesn't end well. Don't be easy and ';OMG ILY!!!';-- play it cool-- but don't give him the wrong idea.
    Just don't always be so available.
    flash him one day then when ever he comes hear you act all conservitave and zip your jacket or cross your arms.



    if you dont want to do that then flirt a lil one day so he knows then just make him feel like he is not important
    personally, me being a guy. i dont really like it when a girl plays hard to get, or at least really hard to get. if done wrong it can make it seem like the girl isnt interested at all. so if you do decide to play hard to get, dont completely ignore him, make it show that your interested, without making it seem like you really like him. just make him work hard, to a certain extent. cause a lot of guys dont like to work hard, although i think all good relationships require some work.
    One word: Don't. A lot of guys just get pissed off and stop dealing with you if they think you're playing games with them. Just be real. You don't have to be obsessed with them or whatever, but just get to know them without messing with their heads. If you do happen to find a guy that chases after you more because your playing hard to get, he's prolly desperate and thats not the type of guy you'll want to date.
    Now This is my forte! All my friends are so damn easy, and Im the only hard to get one, and trust me it turns out really well in the end. You cant just say things to make you hard to get, you have to think it. Don't settle for anything less than the best of your selection. Turn guys you dont really like down. Dont call guys (my friends do that and the guy they like thinks they are stalker and he asked me out) wait for them to call, and if they dont, they are not interested. (Your to good for them) and my number one rule do NOT NOT NOT, sleep with them, until marraige....well maybe(what im trying to say is dont get drunk and give bj's, and have sex!) . Dont makeout on your first day of going out. You have to make him want, and work for you. Tease a little bit, like if your bf, or crush says something erotic to you, then say something like ';mabey';, *wink* and walk away. Good luck!
    Hey, playing too hard to get will keep a lot of guys from trying.



    I'm sorry, but most of us guys just don't get the games.
    guys have too many other things to worry about than a girl that plays games. just make him a sandwich and let it be known that you like him and you got him.

    PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS GUY!! WHAT DOES HE WANT?

    I met this guy at a bar like 3 months ago. His friend came to me and danced with me first so he ended up dancing with my friend. He came up to me and introduced himself and shook my hand though, which never happens...usually only the guy I dance with introduces himself. And my friend says he didn't even introduce himself to her. And the whole time he was watching me and his friend dancing, it was kinda weird. Then they bought us shots and invited us to an afterparty but we didn't go cuz I thought his friend was being too aggressive with me and it didn't feel safe. I added them later on facebook though and kept talking to the guy/flirting with him online. At first he showed interest by being really flirty (but I am too) and even drunk chatted me but then he went on spring break and after he got back it was just casual talking I feel like. I kept talking to him though cuz I figured it couldn't hurt and didn't expect anything from it. But last week he was really flirty again and even came back to talk to me after taking a shower. I took my chance and challenged him to sports and he flirted back and said it's up to me so I told him I was down to play and then he logged off on me!! Do guys play hard to get like that? And then the next day he puts up a status asking if any girls wanna play on a volleyball team with him...so I wrote on his wall being flirty like saying oh i see how it is....and then two days later I sent him a message asking if he needed another girl on his team...I figured why not, it'd be fun, but he never replied and we haven't talked since....what do you think? Is he not interested or playing hard to get? He was interested at first right?PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS GUY!! WHAT DOES HE WANT?
    I think he has a gf and hes just like getting tired of one girl and he flirts but never really ties the knot. But thats just mePLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS GUY!! WHAT DOES HE WANT?
    Seems like he just wants to talk to you when its convenient for him or when he has nothing better to do. I wouldnt put too much into this guy you are just going to be disappointed. If he wanted to date you or you to play on his volleyball team he would have signed you up instantly and not played around like this.

    Move on.

    How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he give

    This guy I work with in the grocery store is Hott and I catch my self checking him out all the time, We always make eye contact from a distance and when he walks buy me he just looks at me and walks by but continues to look at me and doesnt say anything. When I go through the check out line to get something (just because he's the one running the check out line) We have small talk for like 10 seconds and thats it. When I see him in the store he gives off body language like he is gay, and he's not married but he may be engaged. What do I do to get his attention?How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he give
    Sorry, possibly gay guys don't give off different signals from other guys or I would have skipped my first husband. When you do your small talk thing, just slip in an innocent sounding question like ';how old do you think you'll be when you get married';. If he says he's engaged now, you'll know. If he says ';never';, ask why and he might tell you if he's gay.How can you tell if a possibly gay guy is playing hard to get , what kind of body language/signs would he give
    Huh????
    Getting anyone's attention is pretty much the same no matter who it happens to be. You either need an ';in,'; or you need to be bold enough to create your own.



    You are fortunate in that you two already work together - that's your in. If you're both old enough, try inviting him out for a beer after work, but be passive about it. (If he's going straight home after work, would he be up for stopping off for a beer - NOT like you're asking him out on a date for an evening.) If you're not old enough to do that, try getting your break at the same time he does and use the time to strike up a conversation. Find some common ground - sports you both like, other interests, whatever. Look for an opportunity to meet up outside of work, to watch a game for example.



    Use caution while you feel this guy out and determine what he's really all about. Not to discourage you, but we're all human and can tend to see or hear what we want, instead of what's really in front of us. You may interpreting his behavior the way you'd like to think of it, and the last thing you want to do is have him running around the store telling everyone you hit on him when he's got a fiance or something.



    Good luck.
    I guess you could always flash him the secret gay hand signal, and see how he reacts! Heh, heh, just kidding!



    If you are out, then maybe you should try wearing a 'Gay and Proud'; T shirt, or a rainbow pin to the store while off duty. Then when you stop to talk to him, see what he says. If he is gay and is interested, then he will make the next move.
    ask him

    How do I play hard to get with this guy?

    I'm sort of dating this guy... we hang out periodically and he acts like he likes me but then he says he doesn't do the ';dating'; scene... he just likes to take it one day at a time.. one day I get a vibe from him that he likes me, and then the next day he doesn't answer my calls... thats IT!!!!!! How do I play hard to get w/him cuz obviously throwing myself out there is not the way to go about it... I know he likes me, he compliments me all the time - is he just shy? wtf...How do I play hard to get with this guy?
    I LOVE this type of stuff...because I do so much of it myself.



    Firstly, from reading your post, you sound like your are kinda desperate to get him to notice you and not play it cool. That's NOT good - it only will encourage him to play hard to get even more.



    You have to let him know that two people can play the game - that he is not the centre of your world (even if he is.) For example, if he mentions he sent you a msg or email, pretend you didn't read it because you were too busy and had other priorities. Don't say yes to everything he asks for. Group outings where you and him are part of the group? Don't go to everyone - it will make him miss you more.



    The point of playing hard to get is to get the other person to treasure and cherish you for when you are around and miss you when you are not. Be cheeky but don't hurt him.



    I will admit it I played it overboard once and it turned out into a mess. He gave up and fell in love with another girl. I regret it very much.How do I play hard to get with this guy?
    DO THE SAME THING......

    How do I play hard to get without looking uninterested?

    When I like a guy, I usually just admit it without really saying it, by spending time with him when i can, but I'm afraid that's too obvious. At the same time, when I play hard to get, guys usually just give up and assume I'm not interested. How do I get them to actually sit around and pursue me? Sounds lame,but whatever.How do I play hard to get without looking uninterested?
    Stop playing the silly game and be honest with him.



    No chasing. No toying. Just be honest.How do I play hard to get without looking uninterested?
    Don't play games.. He will either like you for who you are or it's not worth it anyway.

    I really need some help in my life?

    Hi, Am 19 years old guy. Last few years have been really unfortunate for me, 3 years back i got into some really bad skin problems on my hands and back, Due to this reason, i use to you rarely get out. This made me sit more time at home,thus i started adopting an addiction towards gaming.

    I kind of play alot of everyday. I have forgotten how to 'Socialise'; with people. Last week i had a family function and i was quite and nervous the whole time. Any new crowds just gets really shy. Yesterday went with my friends away for the weekend after a really long time. My mates are full of confidence and approach women so easily, and this make me feel even more upset about my self. When i speak to girls my age, i just blank out and dont know what to say. The whole while i just think about what to say.

    I really need some deep help. I just want to get back into the reallity with people. I find it very hard to have good long conversations.. Am not able to bond with people.



    I hope to get positive answers.I really need some help in my life?
    Gaming addiction is just as bad as any other addiction. So go cold turkey on the games and (as you still seem to have friends) go out more with them just hang out. Basically watch and learn from them. Ease yourself into it.I really need some help in my life?
    Here are the steps in learning positive social behavior:



    1) start with one on one...Hi, my name is...., what's yours? Once you say a few words, and if the conversation starts, ask the other about themselves...I know of no one who does not love to talk about themselves. No matter how long the ';conversation,';, the other will think you brilliant if you have let them rattle on and on about themselves. They will want to see you again.



    2) After you master the art of getting others to open up by talking about themselves, begin inserting things about yourself. Hard at first, becomes easier with practice. Be aware of the others attentiveness...if you notice they are getting edgy, you are boring them..get them talking again.

    3) After getting steps 1 and 2 down, move on to groups of 3, 4, or 5...same rules...listen more than talk.

    4) once you have the first 3 steps under your belt (allow about 2 months serious practice, start sizing people up, ask a gal out for a date...you will get a yes. Go from there, and do not settle for the first to come along. Someone is out there made for you.

    5) Realize that the world is filled with people just like you. IN fact, very few are artful at conversation, etc....more are like you. Get the jump by practice.

    6) This is more like step One...TURN OFF THE COMPUTER! A computer is not a person. It is not a date. It is not a conversationalist! AS long as you have that computer to fall back on, you will fail in steps 1-5. In fact, unless you absolutely need a computer for work, loan it out or lock it up! People should not get involved with virtual until they can deal with real very well! I do wish you good luck, this is all far easier than it sounds. Goldwing
    aint there some cream to help you with your skinproblems?Dont use this argument as an excuse NOT to be able to bond with others,they care about your personality MORE I hope and stop comparing yourself with your friends,we are all different so this aint any use at all.you could ask for some tricks or watch them how they ';operate'; but it still aint the real you,you need to relax more,how about some assertive-training or some improvisation-workshops...just to boost your self-esteem and to open up more in general
    3 years is a really long period but don't worry you can get back on your feet easily. Many people today needs help with their socializing with others so you are not alone. Approaching girls is not as hard as you might think even after 3 years of doing nothing.



    The best way yet to approach a girl is just to be natural and approach normally. Go over to her and say: ';Hi, I'm _______ and i want to meet you because you look like an interesting person.';



    It doesn't matter where you are at the moment because this kind of approach works everywhere.



    Approaching like this will make her instantly attracted to you because you had the courage to walk over to her with nothing but a simple conversation, which also makes you look confident about yourself. It shows her that you don't need some cheap pick up lines or something 'catchy' in order to talk to her.

    It also shows her that you are decisive and that you know what you want and also that you try to get what you want. In this case, getting to know her.



    Anyway I know that approaching like this is kinda hard if you haven't done that before. But trust me it works every time.



    If you approach like this the girl will have no reason to reject you because all you ask from her is to meet her. You didn't asked her out yet, or you didn't asked her to have sex with you. It's just a simple name exchanging and socializing.



    After that simple sentence you can continue the conversation. The important thing is the opening. The ice-breaker. Later on just go with the flow.



    You can hang out in the local coffee shop or in the city park. Doesn't matter much where you will hang out but it should be somewhere where you will feel comfortable.



    I hope my answer helped and if you want to know more about how to approach, how to act and how to seduce women visit the source page below.

    How do i play hard to get with a guy i like but not to the point where he loses interest?

    i really like this guy and i think he likes me too and i dont want to look too into him by always picking up his phone calls and stuff like that but i also dont like to play games because thats childish to me so how do i make him not loose interest...for example how long do i wait after he texts me to reply back and if i ignore his phone call do i ignore it for a whole day and call him back the next day or just wait for a couple of hours...someone teach me how to play the game to keep him on his toes without overdoing it.... i hate games but my friends say thats the only way to keep a guy still liking you because if you always seem available he'll loose interest.How do i play hard to get with a guy i like but not to the point where he loses interest?
    there's nothing more sleezy than being easy. its a GREAT thing that u play hard to get. that exactly whats supposed to happen. if u really like the boy then he should work for your attention. u cant just have a relationship with random guys they have to earn it. he'll respect u and cherish u more by doing so. ;) theres no ';deadline'; to playing hard to get. just do it until u FEEL it's appropriate to establish a relationship. long enough that u know he's for real and that he's not a jerk pretending to be a nice boy.How do i play hard to get with a guy i like but not to the point where he loses interest?
    As a guy we absolutly hate that. Heres how to play the game : go in head first. When you tease him and play your little games hell loose intrest and move right on leaving you and your excotic teasing *** behind.
    Yes play hard to get... i would say dont return his call until like couple hours because then he'll be wondering why didnt you pick up or called back and you dont want to call the next day when he kinda forgot he even called you. Well i think your doing perfect cause i have sooo many s-l-u-t-s in my school they playy so easy to get its not even funny lol Good luck :)
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  • (For the Ladies) When you're playing ';hard to get';?

    In an attempt to understand this frustrating game that girls play I've made this list of questions:



    Part 1: How do you want the guy to respond?

    a. Subtle flirting

    b. More obvious flirting

    c. Come right and tell you he likes you/wants to date you

    d. Play hard to get back



    Part 2: If he responds by doing either a, b, or c (above) how are you MOST LIKELY to respond?

    a. flat out tell him you aren't interested

    b. act totally uninterested

    c. act uninterested but throw some subtle hints to the contrary (leave the door slightly open)

    d. show that you are interested



    If you answered a, b, or c, how long will you go before you crack and show interest?



    Part 3: If the guy plays hard to get back, how are you MOST LIKELY to respond?

    a. lose interest

    b. get confused and/or sad and therefore stop pursuing

    c. want him more and therefore show interest

    d. continue playing hard to get as usual



    Also, if the guy starts flirting with other girls (or they start flirting with him) how will you respond?(For the Ladies) When you're playing ';hard to get';?
    1. a %26amp; d.

    but a lot of guys dont notice subtle flirting so you have to make it a bit more obvious sometimes



    2. d.



    3. b.



    if its clear the 2 of you like each other, then flirting with other girls is a no.

    but if your playing the field then flirt away(For the Ladies) When you're playing ';hard to get';?
    1. d

    2. c

    3. c



    I would think they are a playa and not waste my time.
    1. A

    2. C

    3. C



    I would probably make sure he doesnt see my watching him and then when he tries to flirt with me i would just be like oh i see your not flirting with those other girls, and then i would just openly flirt with him!
    1:c

    2:c or d

    3:b and c

    if he starts flirting with other girls ill probably be sad but id still like him cuz im a teenager and we flirt
    you put effort in it so i will answer:

    part 1:B

    part 2:c? i guess..

    part3:ummm.....ugh makes me thinks! why many questions?
    Part 1: b.

    Part 2: c.

    I would show interest if i see him for the 4th time not in the same day!

    Part 3: b.



    If a guy starts to flirt with other girls, then i would probably stop pursuing and probably think his a player!!!!

    Why girls love attention is when they play hard to get with guys?

    Why would they DO it? Reason? Advice?

    How can I win her? When will they stop playing hard to get?

    10 points if you give me a best answer, thank you!Why girls love attention is when they play hard to get with guys?
    we will never stop,playing hard to get, because its our way of testing u on how much u really like us.



    on how to win us... just be patient sweet and nice to us..and surely we will like u too..

    How to play hard to get but also be easy?

    How do you play hard to get with a guy without being so hard to get he's turned off and thinks you're uninterested, therefore he backs off? But also, not be so easy that he thinks he can get you on any given day to give it up?

    How do you find a 'happy medium'?How to play hard to get but also be easy?
    Guys don't like girls that play games.

    If you want to play games, go to the video arcade.

    Sorry if you are offended by that comment, but guys won't waste their time and energy trying to get a girl that isn't receptive to their advances.

    Especially if the guy is a little shy - and 80% of guys in school are.



    There's nothing wrong with being ';easy';

    You're just out to have fun - it's not like you're getting married - keep your pants on.

    If he gets a little to physical, to soon, just tell him you're not like that and walk away from the ';relationship';How to play hard to get but also be easy?
    How to get him to chase you is all about knowing what makes a man tick.



    Firstly forget about comparing yourself against other girls like it's a competition and you will get in the right mindset to attract a guy.



    The key here is when you have the opportunity, to send him unmistakeable signals that you are interested.



    It gets back to basics so start with eye contact.



    The physiological effect of eye body language on a guy will immediately put you on his radar.



    Eye Body Language



    The effect of extended eye contact will put an indelible print on his brain as everyone else in the room will melt into the background.



    Secondly, you need a hook, a lure to make sure he not only notices you, but starts moving like the coyote after road runner to get to you.



    Flirting Signs



    Now at this stage he may show some interest, he may give you a flirting sign or two but he still may not be chasing.



    Why would this be? What's stopping him?



    Well not all men can think they can just walk up to a woman and sweep her of her feet.



    They need to be assured you are interested and what's the best way to make sure your guy approaches you?



    Keep repeating the above two steps but make sure you put yourself in a position for him to approach.



    How to get him to chase you - flirt clothes to wear



    This means don't cling to a circle of girls or create any barrier for him, it's hard enough to approach as it is. Try moving around, or even better get closer to him where he feelscompelled to make the big move.



    How to get him to chase you is as much about signalling him in to approach you as anything else. Keep flirting with him and if it doesn't work initially wait a while and keep showing interest.



    It's human nature for guys to first feel comfortable before they approach you so give him a chance.



    And good luck.
    Good question...



    Here's how I would do it. Reciprocate any feelings they have towards you, but don't be too quick to answer their phone calls or make yourself too readily available for dates. Make it obvious that you are interested in them, but don't respond to their every advance so quickly.



    Go out on dates, talk to them, but do it on your own time. Make it known you have your own life and do your own thing.



    Unfortunately with most men, its all about the chase. Once they have you, they tend to take you for granted. So in a way, its just a matter of time. Unless you find one of those rare one's who appreciates the chase and the find equally.
    y play games?...just be urself...he will like u more

    After you have sex with a guy can you still play hard to get?

    ME AND THIS GUY WERE TALKING FOR ABOUT A MONTH. WE WOO ULD JOKE,TEASE, AND TALK TO EACH OTHER. WELL HE WOULD TALK ABOUT SEX ALOT AND IT WAS AGGRAVATING AT TIMES BUT IT WAS A TURN ON. THE PROBLEM WAS I WAS A VIRGIN AND I DIDN'T WANT TO BE ATTACHED TO HIM, GO AGAINST MY MORALS, AND GET PREG OR HAVE AN STD. I TOLD HIM ABOUT AND HE RESPECTED IT, BUT AT THE SAME TIME I KNEW I WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM. WELL WE WENT TO A PLACE TO DO IT BUT WE REALLY COULDNT DO MUCH BECAUSE WE WERE AT A PUBLIC PLAY AND MADE ME FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE THAN ANY GUY. WELL AFTER THAT HE TEXTED ME AND WE TALKED ABOUT IT AND HE WAS REALLY COOL ABOUT IT. WELL THE NEXT DAY HE ASKED ME HOW I WHAT I WAS DOING AND WE JUST HAD LIKE A REGULAR CONVERSATION. HOWEVER, I STILL KINDA WHAT THIS GUY AS A BOYFRIEND IN THE NEAR FUTURE AND I WANT TO MAKE HIM WANT MORE SOOOOOOOOOOOOO CAN I STILL PLAYED HARD TO GET.After you have sex with a guy can you still play hard to get?
    maybe not.. you made out alreadyAfter you have sex with a guy can you still play hard to get?
    No thanks for description I hate caps lock.



    You can't play hard to get because I mean that's it theres nothing else to get!
    NO BECAUSE WHAT IS THERE TO PLAY HARD TO GET FOR? HES ALREADY REACHED HIS GOAL.





    TURN OFF CAPS.
    that is bad thing
    stop shouting and breath
    No. Because he got it. There's nothing hard to get anymore. It's all easy for him now!
    so your not even with this guy.....!!!???!!!
    there is nothing to get hard but still u feel like having go on it
    yes u can not only with one but with anyone

    How do i play hard to get when im dating this guy who actually is playing hard to get?

    I LIKE HIM A LOT AND HE LIKES ME AND WERE DATING BUT I HEARD FROM A SOURCE THAT HES TRYING TO PLAY HARD TO GET LIKE TEASE ME AND ACT LIKE HE IS NOT ';TOO'; INTERESTED.AND IM A BIG TEASE ALREADY BUT WITH HIM I GET INTIMIDATED LIKE I CANT TEASE AS WELL AS I WOULD WITH ANOTHER GUY.SO HOW DO I TEASE/PLAY HARD TO GET?How do i play hard to get when im dating this guy who actually is playing hard to get?
    quit playing gamesHow do i play hard to get when im dating this guy who actually is playing hard to get?
    That is too funny.
    you heard from a 'source'



    yikes, that just screams bad communication in your relationship.

    why are you overanalyzing so much? quit playing mind games and act yourself. you should be comfortable around him. teasing is fun but taking it to this level... jesus, too muhc effort.
    why would you want to do that? that would lead to a vicious cycle of sadness, haha but seriously talk to him, its not cool to play hard to get, some people might get hurt.. and y would u want to play hard to get if you're dating him already?
    If your already dating why are you playing games? Stop relying on ';sources'; and start asking what he likes/doesn't like so that you can actually keep him around.
    if you play hard to get he may get the idea of you not being interested at all. Since you know he is playing hard to get (which means he actually does like you) there is no need for you to also play hard to get. He wants you to flirt, so play his game. Atleast for a lil while, and then just stop. He'll know you were interested and then hopefully feel you got tired of trying to ';make him notice';, and then he'll come after you.



    I guess thats what you'll do, if your into games like that. I personally wouldn't waste my time. If he is really interested, he needs to just step up and be a man. But I guess a lil fun won't hurt anyone.
    Go down to Blockbuster and get the movie ';Gone With The Wind.'; It was on TV this weekend. Pay attention to the character Scarlett O'Hara. She is one chick who knows how to play hard to get with Rhett Butler. Once you watch that movie, you'll know how to do it. Also get the movie ';Lovestory'; with Ali McGraw and Ryan O'Neal. Ali McGraw played hard to get with Ryan O'Neal in Lovestory. You'll be educated for sure then.

    Btw, you have to start from the very begining of a relationship (before he even ask you for a date) for it to work. Not after you've already started dating him. It's too late then. Actually, playin' hard to get is simply.... easy to be with and hard to get. Because you have values, principles, and integrity.

    How to deal with a guy who wants to play hard to get?

    i dont want to be that girl that chases a guy. i want a guy to take an effort to persue me...How to deal with a guy who wants to play hard to get?
    Perhaps he just doesn't see things the way you do? Have you considered that? Without talking to him and understanding his intentions, you will never know and clearly you WANT to know! lol, so perhaps you want it more than him?How to deal with a guy who wants to play hard to get?
    i dont think u should waste your time and try to waste ur time to chase one fish one fish out of the big sea i think u should just try to be friends first and if he makes you laugh a lot that will b a really good sign
    Screw guys who are cocky like that.

    I'd rather date someone who isn't all into himself and thinks he's too good for you.



    They will chase after you someday! Just watch, :)

    How do i play it hard to get with a guy?

    I met a guy and i have been given the advise to play it hard to get with him and i don't know how to do it and what to say in situations. Any help and any suggestions. thanksHow do i play it hard to get with a guy?
    DONT play hard to get it's annoying when girls do that i just ignore them as i deem the behaviour to be rude regardless of weather it is hard to get or not.How do i play it hard to get with a guy?
    It's best not to play games in relationships and ';playing hard to get'; is a game. If you really like the guy just let him know it.

    Im a guy and my ex wants me back. How do I play hard to get?

    I really like her but she broke up with me and now she wants me back. How do i make sure she is for real and how do i play hard to get?Im a guy and my ex wants me back. How do I play hard to get?
    try ignoring her but not too much because thats going to show your not interested in her, be arrgoant, when you walking with your acts and see a female friend go up and talk to her because that will make your ex very jelous trust me

    How do you play hard to get with guys, try and reel a guy back in?

    Thanks for your answers



    xHow do you play hard to get with guys, try and reel a guy back in?
    Oi viverio!



    Sorry but I can't help you on this one......... I'm a bloke!How do you play hard to get with guys, try and reel a guy back in?
    if you want to play around and reel something in, go fishing.

    stop playing stupid little girl games.
    if you need to ';reel'; him in - he's not the one for you.
    Hi

    Well guys need to feel wanted and they like being fed , so say for instance you give the guy the cold shoulder and now you feel like getting to know him again ask for some help with a project or maybe there is something you need fixing , he'll come with his tail wagging eager to please and to show how clever he is . ( but we all know girls are smarter than guys )



    If he's a good boy treat him to a burger or what ever he likes , say something nice about what he did , but praise the action not the guy , don't give him too much confidence : )

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    How to play hard to get without her thinking I'm not interested (please answer)?

    This question is mainly something I wondered after having a conversation with a friend. We were talking about this girl I like. She was saying that girls like guys who play hard to get (the girl I like liked a guy who didn't like her, so I guess she thought he was playing hard to get). When I showed interest in that girl her interest in me seemed to completely disappear. And now that I've not really tried to go after her for a few months she seems interested in me (not sure if it's because of how I've acted or the fact that she realized that the other guy didn't like her). Anyway my question is how to I maintain her interest (she seems to like guys who act uninterested) while showing her that I'm interested. I'm afraid if I do anything that might show that I'm still interested then she'll stop seeing me as a challenge and lose her interest again. Thanks.How to play hard to get without her thinking I'm not interested (please answer)?
    Talk down to her and make her feel insecure. Then she'll really look for your approval. You have to treat girls like that like an azz-hole. Sounds crazy but it works.How to play hard to get without her thinking I'm not interested (please answer)?
    I wouldn't worry with this girl. We like a guy that plays hard to get, but not for a couple of months. We mean for you to ask us out, then don't call for a few days. Then, if she ask you to do something, tell her you have plans, but then make alternate plans with her for another time. We like a little chase, but we don't want to have to work too hard for it. Also, we always want what we can't have. You can't want it if you already have it.
    Dont listen to the first answer.

    Thats bull.



    Be cool. When your with her be flirty and nice, but then (nicely) walk away to talk to some one else. That way she'll want to follow you cuz your nice, yet not obsessed with her.



    DONT be harsh or rejecting, she'll just retaliate, just be a social god =]
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  • How to play hard to get without her thinking I'm not interested (please answer)?

    This question is mainly something I wondered after having a conversation with a friend. We were talking about this girl I like. She was saying that girls like guys who play hard to get (the girl I like liked a guy who didn't like her, so I guess she thought he was playing hard to get). When I showed interest in that girl her interest in me seemed to completely disappear. And now that I've not really tried to go after her for a few months she seems interested in me (not sure if it's because of how I've acted or the fact that she realized that the other guy didn't like her). Anyway my question is how to I maintain her interest (she seems to like guys who act uninterested) while showing her that I'm interested. I'm afraid if I do anything that might show that I'm still interested then she'll stop seeing me as a challenge and lose her interest again. Thanks.How to play hard to get without her thinking I'm not interested (please answer)?
    Talk down to her and make her feel insecure. Then she'll really look for your approval. You have to treat girls like that like an azz-hole. Sounds crazy but it works.How to play hard to get without her thinking I'm not interested (please answer)?
    I wouldn't worry with this girl. We like a guy that plays hard to get, but not for a couple of months. We mean for you to ask us out, then don't call for a few days. Then, if she ask you to do something, tell her you have plans, but then make alternate plans with her for another time. We like a little chase, but we don't want to have to work too hard for it. Also, we always want what we can't have. You can't want it if you already have it.
    Dont listen to the first answer.

    Thats bull.



    Be cool. When your with her be flirty and nice, but then (nicely) walk away to talk to some one else. That way she'll want to follow you cuz your nice, yet not obsessed with her.



    DONT be harsh or rejecting, she'll just retaliate, just be a social god =]

    Do guys like to play hard to get?

    So I was talking to one of my guy friends about my situation with a guy that I've recently started seeing. Recent being less than a week. My guy friend told me that this guy is playing hard to get and I'm falling for it, when it should be the other way around. Now, I'm not new to dating, but I always thought it was the women that played hard to get, and the guys who chased them. I've heard lots of guys say they don't like to be chased, cause the women lose that ';mystery';. I'm not sure if I should take how he is being recently as not interested anymore or if I should still try to talk to him/make plans or if I should back off and wait for him to come around.



    We hung out on Friday night for the second time and kissed and cuddled and what not, and he asked me if he was gonna get to see me this weekend, I told him maybe, but said it in a joking tone. He im'ed me the next day on Facebook and we talked a bit. I asked what he was doing, he told me what his plans were. He goes, why? what did you have going on? Since I had nothing to do, he said I could go to his shop with him but the guy didn't end up being there, so we didn't go. I invited him here to hang out, and at first he said maybe (him and his roommate share a truck together), then later when I asked him again, he said he wasn't gonna be able to come since his room mate had the truck. I asked if he wanted some company and he said not really cause he was still kind of cleaning and gets easily distracted.



    So what gives? Is this guy just all of a sudden not interested, or is he playing hard to get? I didn't think someone's feelings could literally change over night. He had told me that he liked me the previous night; actually he said it's a little bit more than like. It's been almost a day since we've talked. Granted, it's not that long, but he was talking to me on a daily basis for a bit.Do guys like to play hard to get?
    Both sides should be honest with each other rather than play hard to get. Many guys these days when they realize a girl is playing hard to get, they just move on to someone who isn't playing games......Do guys like to play hard to get?
    Hard to get is a waste of time, if you really like someone, why act like a fool?
    I hate hard to get, for either side. If someone is interested, why beat around the bush??
    Looks like he's just busy, or not interested. Most likely not interested, since he would let you know if he was busy.



    Also if someone is playing that game hard to get, don't waste ur time.

    This guy is playing hard to get?

    how do I get him!

    what should I do? should I just give in and say I really want to hang out with him? or should I act like a don't care?

    if you play hard to get what is it you want the other person to do?

    sometimes we are flirty and hanging out and other times he's kinda mean to me but in a fun way.This guy is playing hard to get?
    It sounds like he cannot make up his own mind, so you can either approach him directly and make it for him or you can move on and find someone who is more sure of what he wants.This guy is playing hard to get?
    I think the best way to get the guy is to come out and tell him how you feel. Believe it or not, guys can be quite dumb (myself included) and we do not realize what exactly is going on or pick up on hints at all, even if it seems that we are. Most guys dont play hard to get, thats more of a girl thing, we usually like things laid right out on the table. If you like him, just tell him. It sounds like he likes you too, being ';mean'; especially in a fun-like way is almost always a sign of flirting. Take the chance and go for it. You most likely wont be disappointed.



    Good luck friend



    ~James S.
    y dont you go up to him and give him a real sexy come and get me smile and see if he wlks over then youll now u have him in da bag and also if it works ask him out!!
    try playing hard to get as well. its really fun when you get into it.



    tease him back. a lot of guys like that go nuts for it. itmight be what he is after.



    if this doesnt work try the direct approach.
    Guys are always mean in a fun way when they have a crush

    go with the flow
    play hard , guys don't like a girl to up front but smile and touch there arm. talk sweet to them, and be flirty,
    Are you both grown and out of school --working full time and all?? If so don't sweat it --if not don't bother--finish school have fun and then see where you are--it doesn't sound like he is playing hard to get--just maybe dating one on one isn't what he is into--and that is fine--if you each enjoy hanging out that is fine--don't force the issue--if its right and I believe that people come together if its meant not because its fought for--
    Guys ain't that emotionally savvy. He's not playing hard-to-get, he's just playing. If you like him, go with the flow. He's dancing, follow his lead.
    act like u dont give a **** about him, talk to other guy in front of him
    Guys dont play hard to get. Either he's shy, you're throwing him mixed signals and it's confusing him, or he isn't really interested. Tell him you want to go out!
    just be yourself .. if he is really into you, you don't even have to do a thing .. he will move heaven and earth just to be with you!
    read the book Why men lov bitches...and yes!be hard to get!!wutever u do dont admit u like him!be harder to get than he is.hell luv that challenge
    hes just being playful, just play along, have fun
    Treat him like he treats you. Act a little flirty but then blow him off. See if comes after you
    ok you are11 an he is 12 what the f**k
    Alright, well as a 20 year old guy I can tell you what I would want. Personally, I love the hunt. I like a girl to make me work for it a little bit, but if you pull away too far he might get sick of it and move on, I know I have my breaking points. My suggestion would be to drop hints; don't make it easy or TOO hard; and make physical contact every once in a while to show what you think. I don't mean grope him or anything, just a quick hug, hand on an arm, something small. People forget how important body language is and says a lot more than words could in the early stages of a relationship.



    Assuming he is anything like me he will follow you like a lost puppy if he has any interest in you and ask you out soon enough.
    i just can say ';good luck with that';
    He probably wants some fun but is reluctant of possible strings attached (commitment that you may want). So if there are no strings then go on and tell him. Have a good time and just let it develop if it ever does. Who knows. Remember, who dares wins!
    Men are obsessed with the chase.

    Mean playfully flirt and then ignore him for a couple days, see what he does. But just make sure you don't play TOO hard to get..
    mm i would give it a little more time then if it's going nowhere tell him how you feel if he reciproacates then good if not move on =]

    How should I react to a guy whos playing hard to get w/ me?

    Okay I really like this guy he says he likes me too but now he's playing hard to get. He'll get my attention then flirt with other girls. When he does he'll literally stare into my eyes from across the room. He said to me once ';We're not going out yet'; I already played hard to get with him and got him to like me. So now how do I act around him? I'm not gonna just dump him because I really like him like....ALOT!!!!!How should I react to a guy whos playing hard to get w/ me?
    Would just show total disinterest in him.He'll reactHow should I react to a guy whos playing hard to get w/ me?
    play the game guys always want what they can't have

    Guys playing hard to get?

    how do you deal with them?



    there's this guy who's always playing mind games with me. he'll shower me with attention for a while, then just turn cold and/or distant. he'll tell me he wants to be with me, then the next minute he's all, 'i'm not looking for a relationship right now.' he's actually asked me out before, then didn't speak to me for a few months.. leaving me to wonder. then he just pops back up and does it again.



    it seems like EXPECTS me to chase him. i really want to be with him but i don't chase guys--i never have. he tells me i play hard to get, but it's not that i'm playing, i actually am hard to get (hope that doesn't sound stuck up). it's like he just wants me to give up and throw myself at him, and that just ain't me. so i don't know what to do?Guys playing hard to get?
    This guy needs to get a grip!! Tell him that you don't want a guy who can't make his mind up and that plays stupid mind games!! He'll soon get the message and be mature :) xxGuys playing hard to get?
    Drop his ***. He's treating you like ****. If he acts like that then you can totally find someone better who will treat you right. You may want him but he clearly only wants a sex toy.

    How to get a guy that is playing hard to get?

    ugh well i like this guy but hes been talking to my friends and telling them hes playing hard to get so how is a 14 year old gonna get a guy that she really likes..gggrrrr whoever came up with hard to get is stupid.well please answer my questionHow to get a guy that is playing hard to get?
    He doesn't want to be caught

    How can i play hard to get?

    how can i play hard to get with a guy that plays hard to get really well and is a major player??i want him to fall over me. every girl likes him in school but they get turned down alot. everyone says im pretty i am just turning 13How can i play hard to get?
    You should be yourself, and let it happen. You're 12, please don't be stressing about this, and why would you want a player?? They're nothing but drama.

    Don't try to be something you're not for a guy. Be you, and guys will be attracted to your assurance and self-confidence.How can i play hard to get?
    flirt with him a little and then turn him down he will want what he can't have, don't make yourself look desperate ok
    dont be so available for him and ignore him sometimes and he will get the picture
    Don't play this game. It's not becoming of you.
    oh, guys dont like it when girls plays tricks on them or play hard to get. just be yoruself.
    13 wait till u cross 19 u will get all the answer
    well how do you play a game without any knoledge on how to play.
    you shouldn't be playing anything but school and baby dolls be a kid your only aloud to be a kid for a short time just do that don't worry about that it want matter in a few years just get out of school and go somewhere and do something but be smart now ,,,,,really just be a kid .....god bless
    Be open and vague.

    Try to not look like you like him.

    If he looks at you pretend you don't even see him.

    If he talks to you pretend he is just your friend he will think he has to win you over.
    The best thing I can tell you is to seem just as unavailable and elusive as he is. Also don't be a girly girl! Be interested in the sports he is, so if he plays football be a cheerleader! If he plays basketball, join the girls basketball team... Show that you have something in common, which means you happen to be in same place as he is all of the time. Then just ask like you don't notice him... Or if you should make a comment to him, make it something like, that was a great play or something like that....

    I hooked-up with a guy friend, but why's he 'playing hard to get' now?

    So after he suggested it, me and a guy friend of mine went and fooled around. It was pretty fun despite my nervousness and he asked me quite a few times if I wanted to do it again, I said yes.



    He is Not interested in me romantically, said so himself, but he actually seems to play hard to get whenever I talk to him. :/ It's weird because he is a guy, and I guess I assumed guys would want to suggest sex a lot.(considering it was his idea, i don't ask him for sex btw!)



    So how should I approach this?





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    [I would like advice on how to approach a guy who plays hard to get, and why he's doing it.]I hooked-up with a guy friend, but why's he 'playing hard to get' now?
    well hes probably being a idiot %26amp; trying 2 b a playa by thinking hes had u %26amp; could get it with u when ever he wants . sounds like 2 me that he was never really that much of a friend 2 u , most likly would b good 2 chalk it up as a bad idea %26amp; just move on %26amp; find some1 thats accually treat u alot betterI hooked-up with a guy friend, but why's he 'playing hard to get' now?
    Hard to get is stupid for a guy. Force his hand by flirting with someone else. Touch him on hands, arms, chest a lot.
    hes seeing someone else or he was really drunk!

    How do you play hard to get well with a guy who your going out with?

    If he asks you out, say you're busy and suggest a different day instead; don't always reply to his texts or answer your phone; go for a few days without initiating any contact at all.



    But don't overdo it, or he'll just lose interest!How do you play hard to get well with a guy who your going out with?
    Don't do that, you have the guy already. if you play hard to get well going out with the guy its most likly going to end.How do you play hard to get well with a guy who your going out with?
    You don't.

    The chase is over, he's got you, there's no reason to play hard to get, you'll juts piss him off.

    Just don't be clingy and it'll be fine.

    Tease him every now and then.
    Don't play games...you already have him



    Just hanging out with your girls instead of being with him all the time will do the trick ;)
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  • How do you play hard to get well with a guy who your going out with?

    If he asks you out, say you're busy and suggest a different day instead; don't always reply to his texts or answer your phone; go for a few days without initiating any contact at all.



    But don't overdo it, or he'll just lose interest!How do you play hard to get well with a guy who your going out with?
    Don't do that, you have the guy already. if you play hard to get well going out with the guy its most likly going to end.How do you play hard to get well with a guy who your going out with?
    You don't.

    The chase is over, he's got you, there's no reason to play hard to get, you'll juts piss him off.

    Just don't be clingy and it'll be fine.

    Tease him every now and then.
    Don't play games...you already have him



    Just hanging out with your girls instead of being with him all the time will do the trick ;)

    How do you know if a guy is playing hard to get?

    give me some signs. and for ex. if a guy makes a lot of eye contact with you usually, but it seems like hes trying to stop....do guys ever want you to kind of approach them? cauz i never do that..and things havent been working outHow do you know if a guy is playing hard to get?
    playing hard to get is a girl thing. yes, go up to the guy and start a conversation. guys hate rejection so the shy ones won't even try until they think its time. could be too late by then.How do you know if a guy is playing hard to get?
    Be the approacher! I'd love it for a girl to walk up to me an say ';Hey, wanna have a drink?'; or something...
    it sounds like your shy the thing is so are guys if u like someone who acts like your example and you like him go and say hi

    Tips for a guy on playing hard to get (Or if I should)?

    I came off a bad breakup recently and am still recovering. Ironically, my ex's friends are doing more to comfort me then she herself is. (Go figure) She makes it harder by refusing to talk about the breakup and the other guy. The thing about that is, I'd have been able to cope much better if I didn't overhear her say ';I won't be making that mistake again'; when her sister asked if she will ever get back together with me. It may have come out wrong cause she seems to still care, in terms of common courtesy and friendship, but it still hit me like a brick to the face.



    Now, as I mentioned, her friends are doing more help than she is. One of them, SEEMS to be falling for me. But I honestly can't tell and am afraid to think about it cause it'd seem sorta sleazy to go from my ex to her friend. What the friend does is is there to listen, and says I'm smart, sweet, and most recently... sexy. But I sorta think she's just trying to cheer me up.

    I believe maybe she is falling for me, but I want to play hard to get just in case so if she is, she'd be more likely to stick with me and if she's not, it wouldn't be so obvious I thought she was.

    Is this a good idea?



    And if it is... er... how exactly DO I play hard to get? Cause in the 2 relationships in my past, I was open to my feelings and fully faithful in the relationship. (Probably why the end hurt so bad both times) I felt that anything less would be lying, so there I was.

    Now I would like to know how to do the hard to get thing if its the best way in this case.Tips for a guy on playing hard to get (Or if I should)?
    yes it's a good plan because she is being a FREIND, and trying to get gf whe you are obviously on the rebound is gonna be a turn off for her..



    Stay talking/ maybe even flirt a bit, BUT don't try anything just yet.. give it time.. see how she feels.Tips for a guy on playing hard to get (Or if I should)?
    A way to play hard to get is to flirt with a lot of single girls including the one who called you sexy.
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    That's easy. DON'T TAKE THE BAIT! If she is throwing stuff out there for you to respond to, don't react. Ignore it. What part of hard to get is that? [translation: okay, sure hate it for ya'. SO WHAT?]

    Have you girls or guys ever had someone play really hard to get?

    Anyone can answer this question!

    Alright have you ever had someone play hard to get and not know how to play it properly? I mean, you know they are interested, they show signs of it but they play the hard to get card none-the-less. I.E. They toss you a bone like kissing you then they say they don't want to get with you.(and I mean kissing kissing, not the 'oh how cute' kiss. The make-out type of kiss) You know they are interested when you get with someone else and then they say 'darn it I should've asked you sooner'. So on and so forth. I can go throw a lot of these. You see, there's this guy that played hard to get with me, played it like this... His 'card' for playing hard to get was 'I need to get over (insert someone's name here)'. I give him time to get over them and he starts dating another girl while I am not in contact with him due to me temporarily giving up, dating another person... so on and so forth. In other words, this guy likes to use the 'I'm trying to get over someone' hard to get card. But anyways, it doesn't matter the hard to get card they play, just the question of. 'Have you had someone play hard to get and obviously not know how to play it right?'Have you girls or guys ever had someone play really hard to get?
    You know how girls mess with guys even though they'd never ever ever be interested, they just do it because it's fun? Well, guys do it too, guys can be jerks too. Do you really want to be with a guy that can't express his feelings? If all he's going to do it play the hard to get card, just walk away from the table.Have you girls or guys ever had someone play really hard to get?
    answer my question for me, the question and explaination may just answer your question for you.....







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    I loved a girl and she got married in front of my eyes.. could anything worse than this????

    How to play hard to get with a shy guy?

    I like this guy, who's really shy and i'm very outgoing and will talk with anyone. he told my friend a few weeks ago that he liked but but it seems to me hes starting to lose interest.. how can i stop this?? please help



    p.s. an info on shy guys will help!! :)How to play hard to get with a shy guy?
    You DONT. Have you thought about this? At all? If he's shy he won't go for the chase.How to play hard to get with a shy guy?
    Okay, I'm a really shy guy when it comes to girls. With that said, It is never a good idea to play hard-to-get with a shy guy, particularly one you like. Oftentimes even when I like a girl, it's hard for me to show interest in her because I'm afraid of being judged by other people for it (hence the shyness). So it may appear as though I'm losing interest, or just didn't have any interest to begin with, but I may actually be very interested. I just don't show it easily or very much. Your guy is likely similar. Guys' interest in girls tends to be pretty black-and-white. We either like a girl, or we don't. There's not much in-between. So the fact that he told your friend he likes you means he certainly does.



    You said you can talk to anyone. I know it's kind of unconventional, but you need to be the one to talk to him first. Otherwise it could be awhile before anything happens. Even shy guys open up over time when someone talks to them first. However, don't be surprised if he's slow to open up. Shy guys often are slow to open up to girls they like for fear that the girl won't like them for who they are (hence why so many guys to tell their crushes lies to increase their chances), even if they're convinced that the girl likes them. Keep working at him, and eventually you two will be dating.
    If you have a bubbly personality with everyone including him, then yeah he may begin to lose interest. How about you show him another side to yourself that no one has seen. Show him something that you are passionate about, or your low key side. Try to have one on one time, and dont be too outgoing. Try to bring him out of his shell and see what he is about. Shy people are shy because they are a little insecure. So go up to him and ask nice and calmy if he would like to do something. If you play hard to get then he will think you lost interest as well
    dont play hard to get with a shy guy- the only way toi get him to open up is to let him know that you like him- he's shy because he doesnt want to feel vulnerable, and so you playing it cool might be mistinterpreted by him..

    if he likes you and you like him, you're there.. ask him to a movie or something not to confronting.. get to know each other, take it slow and it will be beautiful
    Don't play hard to get with a shy guy! D: Just let him know you like him!
    i am shy

    and well don't

    Im clingy towards a guy who is playing hard to get how do i play that game?

    i dated this guy two years ago and i cheated on him and he has finally forgiven me. But now im clingy around him because i just want to jump into a relationship. i already know everything about him so i don't know what else there is to do. He is always sarcastic towards me and i dont have any combacks to what he says to me and there pretty rude. All my friends hate him because he is mean to me and i just need to stand up for myself but how do i do that to a guy i love? i know he likes me i just dont really see him act like it. I tried telling him to text me or call me and he wants me to or else we wont talk. we went a week without talking cuz i didnt try to talk to him so i dont know how to make him text me first... :( Im confused on how to make him fall in love with me. and to not be so clingy. HELP!Im clingy towards a guy who is playing hard to get how do i play that game?
    I'm gonna guess that he actually DOESN'T like you and he HASN'T forgiven you and he's just messing with your head. Which you are letting him do by being borderline stalker-ish.Im clingy towards a guy who is playing hard to get how do i play that game?
    Don't go after him all the time, go out and have fun, let him know you have a life and stuff. Let him come to you after seeing you're worth it. Just act normal, like you used to and don't act like you're trying to be around him all the time, maybe he'll see if he likes you that you have options and he'll have to go after you before you get over him and move on.
    He probably see's exactly what you trying to do and is pushing you away for a pretty good reason, I would think. Leave everything the way it is and move on. If you cheated on this guy once, your more than likely to do it again. You can tell that to your girlfriends to. The only reason I could be upset with this guy is, what the hell did he ever see in you? MOVE ON.
    I think maybe hes getting revenge on you for cheating on him, I know it was a long time ago but maybe now hes finally over you and wants to get even, so hes going to treat you like crap which there's no excuse for. Move on before you get your self really hurt.

    I wouldn't trust him if I were you.
    Move on! I know you say that he forgives you, but he doesn't. He will never fully trust you again. Let's face it, you betrayed his trust. Now you want things to go back to the way they were. No matter what he tells you, he doesn't forgive you and never will.



    Move on, and don't be unfaithful. Things will go much better next time if you don't cheat.
    If you dont want to be clingy, then just ignore him all together. Dont text him or call him or anything. If he actually does care about you, then he'll eventually text you. If he doesnt care about you, then he wont and you're better off without him.
    You already blew it with him, why are you still trying to date him, He will just continue to make you look like a dumb b i tch. Its a good way of getting you back. You should get a life with someone else to cheat on, and then start over again.
    The question I would ask myself is - Has he really forgiven you



    I don't think he has ,He's playing with you and he's going to drop you like a ton of bricks just like you did him .
    Sounds like you're setting up a great relationship. Sarcasm is the foundation of many successful relationships.



    It sounds like he's still pissed at you. Which I would be. Because you're a cheating *****. And I wouldn't take you back ever.
    you need to play hard to get back, you cant be the only one chasing, if not you shouldn't be together you both have to want to be together
    hun. you really need to let this go. hes just not into you. i know how hard it must be. but once you can get over it. it will be so much better, i promise.
    if hes not bothering to talk , dont talk to him and maybe try and get another guy and try to get him to see you and your new guy with eachother

    then he will realise how much he wants u
    Don't play games. If you feel you must, then you are not ready for a relationship.
    Grow up and don't play games. And stop being a promiscuous slut.
    Play the same game.
    Ignore him.
    continue u as u r. make googlle eyes toward's his fem fetale.
    Playing games is childish and stupid. Be upfront and honest.
    He is playing hard to get but he is also being sarcastic and hurtful at the same time. First get yourself in the right frame of mind, so you love him, ok well does that mean he gets to walk all over you and make you do all the work in the relationship, NO! Are you willing to give someone your heart and time that treats you rudely because they think they have a right to?



    Here is what I would do: Wait until you are together and alone in a private area. Have him sitting and stand in front of him. This may seem ackward but you will be amazed at the confidence and attention you get just from having him sitting and you standing while you talk. Give him direct eye contact even if you blush or feel uncomfortable, eye contact is a must. Tell him, I want you to know the things that you are saying and doing are hurting me (don't say feelings or we need to talk because guys block out all after those words). You can say it firmly or say it softly whatever makes you comfortable. After you say this get silent, do not give details or further insight. He will look at you and have to think about what he is doing wrong. Then he will ask you. When he asks tell him that he speaks to you harshly with sarcasm, that he does not call or text you himself, and that you are not receiving any signs, words, or actions that imply he cares for you at all. When he says he doesn't understand or what are you talking about, give him an example. Say well for instance....... Tell him you want a guy to text or call you at times because this lets you know they are interested in you and that you don't always want to be the one doing it. The important thing is throughout the conversation (no yelling or sarcasm) be specific about what is wrong (not vague or giving a hint), explain why it bothers you (not how it hurts your feelings because guys don't always understand the full impact on our feelings).



    You cannot make him fall in love. You cannot change him. YOu can explain to him what you want and what you feel for him. You can communicate openly. If he continues sarcasm or says hurtful things or brings up the past I suggest telling him you want to take a break from the relationship to think about what you really want. Then walk away. YOU DO NOT OWE HIM BECAUSE OF THE PAST!!!
    STOP BEING CLINGY. It's the biggest turn off with guys.

    How would you feel if he was doing that to you? Sure at first you might like it but after a while it get's to be annoying. Jumping into a relationship is bad. Take your time.



    Find comebacks. Practice them. Get good at being sarcastic. It's a good trait.



    Geez, stand up for yourself girl! Doesn't matter who it is and how much you love them. No one deserves to talk to you like that. No one.



    If you want him to text and call you first and talk to you you have to make him want you.

    1. Stop being clingy.

    2. Punish yourself to stop talking to him first.

    3. Make him miss you.

    4. He will talk to you if he wants to talk to you.



    If you go away and stop being clingy he'll start to miss you. Just take time. I know it sucks waiting for him to call and talk to you but you HAVE to punish yourself to do so.



    The girl isn't supposed to be the one chasing. The guy is supposed to chase the girl. Always. Don't sell yourself short. Make him want you. Make him chase you. You have to be the one playing hard to get. Guys like a chase, guys like playing that game. Don't let him play you.
    I'm a girl logged on my friends name btw. Seriously, the boy should do the chasing in my opinion. Personally, i would never run after a boy or make the first move in any circumstance. Playing hard to get is much more effective. He has never forgave and has you right where he wants you. Stop acting so desperate. I'm not trying to sound harsh but to put it bluntly.... He doesn't want you- MOVE ON!









    p.s...... you sound a bit... well....... weird =/
    He's not going to chase after someone that isn't worth it. If all your doing is being clingy for long periods of time, that makes him run, and never chase you. The way to do it is to make him run but leave, and have him want to come chase you (example, to initiate with you for once). To get this to happen, have a great time with him. You say you know him, thats good. Take initiative and go do something with him that he enjoys, keep the conversation playful. I am sarcastic and usually without the intention of hurting people, but many people misinterpret it as offensive. Hes probably doing the same thing. Just play around with him the whole date, laugh at his sarcasm and make him feel like your fun and playful. Then just wait a bit. He should respond to you before you initiate back. Good luck

    Who knows how to play hard to get with a guy? if so i need help?

    Okay so me and this guy have been hanging out.. 3 times to be exact.. we've kissed every time and the problem is he has a girlfriend he's been dating for awhile but has been wanting to end things with her cause shes caused him a lot of problems but he likes me and i like him and have for a while.. but how do i play hard to get to make him like me even more? any ideas/suggestionsWho knows how to play hard to get with a guy? if so i need help?
    dont play hard to get. its dumb and it makes guys think you dont WANT them. then they stop trying.

    How does a girl play Hard to Get, while still letting the guy know that you're interested in him?

    What I mean is that how does a girl play hard to get with a guy, while still appearing interested in him. I don't want to look too earnest to go out with him, yet I want him to know that I still like him! How does a girl play hard to get???How does a girl play Hard to Get, while still letting the guy know that you're interested in him?
    make eye contact and look away and smile .How does a girl play Hard to Get, while still letting the guy know that you're interested in him?
    playing hard to get is allways a tricky game .. the girl should know it



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    Flirt your *** off, and if or when he figures it out and asks you out, say no
    Flirt a little, but then give some time in between when you see him. Dont make it an everyday encounter. talking for a day, then not for 2 keeps him on his toes.
    Don't play to hard to get,because he will go looking elsewhere.
    umm just go out with him and STOP playing hard-to-get....it makes me mad...i dont know bout the rest of you..
    say some sweet or kinky things to him and then leave or hang up dont answer every phone call and dont call him alot either
    say hey to him like your gonna start a conversation but then ignore him and walk away or something. Just remmber guys love a chase
    two words:

    eye flirting

    you act like u do dont care, but then u always make i contact, or in other words, eye flirt. then get his crew to go to the movies with ur crew and take it from there.
    Why would you want to play stupid games and take the chance of losing him? If you like him, let him know. I doubt he is interested in playing games...
    Brush him off nicely and then a smile and a wink will make him crazy about you! (I can't believe I'm giving away the secrets!!! LOLOL)
    be a ***** to him but wen he does even a lil thang 2 get ur attention show him u notice it DNT SHOW UR interestid tats wat playin hard 2 get iz al bout

    Do Guys Play ';hard to get'; just like girls do?

    Because i like this guy and we both exchanged numbers and everything and have been texting back and forth almost every day for the last week and a half...him texting me first most of the time.



    But it was good conversation, and im kinda confused now because he would text me things like on my b-day, ';So your commin over for b-day penunt butter and jelly sandwich and coffee right?';....and the one night he asked me to go to breakfast with him...but then directly after he ask me he told me ';nevermind..i didnt realize the time';...LOL...



    So he came in to my job on Friday, because he said he was meeting people there to go out BUT THEY NEVER SHOWED...so he ended up talking to me FOR like a half hour on my break while i ate and ppl saw us talking at my job walking around...and they even noticed that we were flirting ....



    Soo right when he left that night he text me and asked me to ';Come over his house to show him my skillz';...meaning how i can massage cause im good at that...i didnt, BUT THE THING IS HE HASNT TEXTED TO OR REALLY COMMUNITCATED WITH ME EVER SINCE THAT NIGHT----- WHAT IS HE DOING??? -----I REALLY LIKE HIMDo Guys Play ';hard to get'; just like girls do?
    No most guys don't play games.

    He either is too busy to talk to you or just doesn't think of you in that way.



    What you need to do is make your self more available to him and be more positive. Guys HATE negative, Caty girls. Jealous girls are a total turn off for most guys, if you want to attract a good man you have to stop being a b1t@#!Do Guys Play ';hard to get'; just like girls do?
    I've seen guys play hard to get, but it doesn't happen very often. It's possible that he's just busy. He could be caught up with work or other things, but he still should have time to text you. I'd say try giving him a call; that way if he answers, you can ask him what's been going on.
    Yeah guys play hard to get, it can be fun and sometimes it's done to make them seem like they have a life - it's strategic. It's possible that he feels he messed up since you said no and that you weren't interested. You could always try the hard, effective route of talking to him about having a crush on him and asking if he feels the same way - we're living in the 21st century, girls can do that nowadays too.
    Maybe he lost his phone, cuz that sounds a little weird that he just stopped talking to you altogether. I think maybe there's something else you're leaving out? The story just doesn't sound right. He must've had something happen to his phone or you are leaving out some details.
    seems like he wants to bone you.

    watch out because he just might want to do only that and it's gonna hurt if you do fall for him and he turns out a regular scumbag.

    ask him directly.see what he says.
    Text him back. Even though most guys wont admit it, we play hard to get. and sometimes even, we dont realize it.

    Do Guys Play ';hard to get'; Just Like Girls Do?

    Because i like this guy and we both exchanged numbers and everything and have been texting back and forth almost every day for the last week and a half...him texting me first most of the time.



    But it was good conversation, and im kinda confused now because he would text me things like on my b-day, ';So your commin over for b-day penunt butter and jelly sandwich and coffee right?';....and the one night he asked me to go to breakfast with him...but then directly after he ask me he told me ';nevermind..i didnt realize the time';...LOL...



    So he came in to my job on Friday, because he said he was meeting people there to go out BUT THEY NEVER SHOWED...so he ended up talking to me FOR like a half hour on my break while i ate and ppl saw us talking at my job walking around...and they even noticed that we were flirting ....



    Soo right when he left that night he text me and asked me to ';Come over his house to show him my skillz';...meaning how i can massage cause im good at that...i didnt, BUT THE THING IS HE HASNT TEXTED TO OR REALLY COMMUNITCATED WITH ME EVER SINCE THAT NIGHT----- WHAT IS HE DOING??? -----I REALLY LIKE HIMDo Guys Play ';hard to get'; Just Like Girls Do?
    Guys do play hard to get so that's when you play hard to get right back and eventually it'll aggravate him and he'll come to you. It's either that or he's not really interested but by the sounds of it he is. So I'd just play hard to get and see if he comes to you trust me it works guys can't stand it.
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  • Why do guys try to play hard to get and how do i get back at him?

    My best friend (for a few years) and I have recently fallen head over heels for each other - we were not expecting this at all - we truly care and adore each other but we decided that right now is not a good time in our lives to have that serious relationships we long from each other. He's been STRESSED with financial/schoo/work - as for me too but we're still great friends.





    I heard that SOME guys will play hard to get with the girl so that the next time the girl sees them, she'll ';miss him'; and want him more - flirtier. I notice with this guy is that he'll say ';you need to get over me'; yet he'll initiate the moves and his actions show that he REALLY wants to be with me. Then after we'll ';get close';, he'll ';limit'; himself but not completely avoid me. I'm confused - i thought he didn't want a relationship right now - i thought he wanted something serious for later? and why did he say that we needed to get over each other?





    What do i do? Play hard to get back and see wht he does?Why do guys try to play hard to get and how do i get back at him?
    Its a game, it has been since the dawn of humans. Its not a game of logic, although logic can be a weapon.





    Don't think about this too much. Also if you want to be in a relationship just do it. Theres no such thing as the right timing for a relationship.





    That ';you need to get over me'; comment- it depends the tone and context in which it is said. It sounds as if he said it without being very serious- that is just playing. Its VERY immature. But there you go, the game of love is often immature.





    Don't play anything. You will just twist yourself up. You don't sound like the game playing type. That thing about making people miss you-- I think its only wise to like give people time to think after a date for example- you know if you call the next day it takes the excitement away a little.





    Just be straight up. He is probably just insecure about you and hence the game playing. In fact if I were you I would just lay it out for him and be quite earnest. He won't want to play you then and he will take you very seriously as a possible partner. Think about it, do you want someone in the long run who plays games? No its just part of the mating ritual





    Good luckWhy do guys try to play hard to get and how do i get back at him?
    iv heard that too. some guys try to play the silly game ';hard to get';. most of the guys that i have liked in the past don't play the silly game. i have also heard that they look at the female a lot so then she will start liking them. and that actually does work for me. not on all guys though. but maybe he is trying to resist you with his sentience ';we need to get over each other';
    Not worth your hassle. If he's seriously interested in you - he'll get the message and play less hard =\
    i say grow up and find a mature relationship
    thats it you play the game to .let him have it good
    read this: www.sosuave.com. this will give u a glimpse of his mental state. it's a site for men, hod to play games with women. after reading it any man is an open book for me. very very useful tips about those dumb men
    Tell him ';I really look forward to the day when we can have a real relationship, because I'll be able to do much more of this.'; Then grab him and kiss him. Then walk away.





    THAT will change the game ...
    What makes you think you're ready for the hassle he's gonna be. He is obviously impressed with himself, and with you considerably less.





    Tell him to cut the crap because he knows he loves the attention. Tell him this train's getting ready to pull out of this station. So, if he's gonna get onboard, he better make up his mind before its too late.
    for me, act normal. u know the way u treat him like a friend. coz let say if he is being sweet and u also respond more than that, its like he's making a temp check if u still like him. in some way, u r making urself too available for his comfort. probably he said that line just to confuse u more. just act normal and when he's being overly romantic or way too sweet/flirty ignore it. ignore meaning u dont have to respond on the same way. probably acknowledge the action but no need to act the same way.
    Well if it's not going anywhere now anyway, I say let him be a jerk, and if he feels like being nice then be friends. In the meantime, try finding some new BF material-- someone more MATURE. Friend lovers never seem to work out, I'm sorry this is so frustrating... Good luck!!!
    Sounds like he is scared of it. Show him it wont bite. Kidding. Really he may be a virgin. Some guys are scared.
    Grown ups don't play games. Real men don't play hard to get either. This guy is messing with your head. He probably likes you but I think he thinks you like him a bit more than he likes you so, he's got some control and he's loving it. He can make moves without any expectations from you because that's how he's got it set up.





    No man will put off a realtionship (ie sex!) because of work, etc. If they like you, they'll figure out a way to fit the realtionship into their life. That's just common sense. This guy doesn't want a realtionship. He wants to string you along and so far, it's working.





    Your best bet is just to keep it on a friend level. Take his advice and get over him. He's saying that for a good reason. Like I said before, he thinks your feelings are stronger for him than his are for you and he's trying to tell you that's he going to let you down. He knows exactly what he's doing so, don't think he's confused.





    If you want this stuff to continue, don't change a thing. If you want things to change, you need to put a stop to his fickleness. You can do that by stopping his little moves before they get started. Set up boundaries and keep them.





    If you really can't tell him no because you think he'll stop liking you or something, stop hanging out with him altogether. I can tell you, he's not going to wake up one day and decide he wants to be with you. He's already made up his mind and right now, he's just playing with you head. You deserve better than that. He might be a good friend but, he's a lousy person. If he cared for you, he wouldn't be confused and playing games. You either like someone or you don't. He doesn't like you enough to stop being a douchebag so, stop it for him. Find someone who is mature and doesn't play headgames. Good luck!
    This guy isn't worth your time, and you're not ready for a serious bodyfriend. Next.

    How Do you Play Hard to Get with a Guy?

    On text preferably :)How Do you Play Hard to Get with a Guy?
    By not getting got..... and ending up alone.

    By text? Just block incoming texts, and don't respond or send anything.How Do you Play Hard to Get with a Guy?
    ignore them every so often come up with excuses like oh i forgot you text i was busy oh really let me check my schedule