Do you think guys play hard to get?

I hooked up with this kid and after that he never really talked to me anymore..i was kind of looking foward to a relationship or at least moving more foward with it...but the day after i saw him i asked him'; so are we officaily going out or what'; and hes like '; not yettt'; and i was like '; when'; he said ';the next time i see you'; and then after that he was acting MAD WEIRD. He didnt talk to me anymore and stuff and then later on that week he was like '; im not ready for a relationship '; so i was like okay we can just hookup and not be commited..and he still didnt seem to care anymore..sooo time has passed its been like almost a month we havent talked soo much but then like 2 days ago i texted him saying ';hey'; and he texted back'; how you been'; and iwas respoding and then I was like '; we should hang out'; and he said '; i have wrestling and im on lockdown but yea';and i was like ';just hitme up whenever you can chill'; sooo my point is..what should i do..wait for him to talk to me now ? what ?Do you think guys play hard to get?
You should just act normal. Be yourself - whether you're goofy, silly, crazy, or not the coolest person. You've seen this advice before, and you'll see it again. Develop your identity as an individual and stick with it. There's no point in getting him to like someone you're not--you're only setting yourself up for lies.



Have patience. These things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don't be obsessive. Let things progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes.



Try make more conversation with him. Take an interest in who he is--what he likes, where he's coming from, where he wants to go--and show him who you are, too. While some guys don't like to talk that much, it's nearly impossible for someone to like you if he doesn't get to know you--unless he ';likes'; you for all the wrong reasons. In between, crack a joke. Having a good sense of humor makes everything better.



Try do things together with him. If he loves rock-climbing, ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why he's so into it. Have an open mind. Find out what you have in common, and include him in your world. If you love a certain kind of music, ask him if he's ever listened to a particular artist and offer to play a CD for him. Finding activities that you can enjoy together can really lay down a bond and further his appreciation of you.



DON'T be shy! being shy will just make him think that you're not interested. and if he has an interest in you, and you in him, then don't be afraid to be a little outgoing. be yourself, but have some fun with it!



Good luck!