Sunday, November 21, 2010

After play fighting with a guy, I masturbated to it, am I gay?

In the fight I was completely dominated. There was a point when he had me in a headlock and while trying to get out I became aware of his really hard abs and strong arms. He just kept squeezing and soon I passed out. Later that night I masturbated to the events and felt really good. I never saw myself as gay and I stick to the straight porns although sometimes I remember how great his body felt. what do you guys think?



cheersAfter play fighting with a guy, I masturbated to it, am I gay?
Sounds like someone hit a homoerotic streak.After play fighting with a guy, I masturbated to it, am I gay?
congratulation,

you are one of them.
Not sure what your sexual orientation is, but it sure sounds to me like you like being dominated. Try out fantasizing about gay sex, and maybe some Dominance/submission stuff, as well as gay D/s, and see what's best for you
Well, you could be bi, or gay, or even just bi-curious. Just go with what you think feels right, only you can decide what you are.
You're human. You got aroused. I mean it's not new news haha. If you really feel you might have different feelings when it comes to guys then maybe try looking at Gay porn to see if you really become aroused? Nothing too hardcore obviously. Try slowly introducing the curiosity to yourself and go with whatever you're heart...or your penis, tells you haha. Read more about sexuality and you'll figure it out.
I think you have to ask yourself if you have ever felt anything like that about a female. From what you have described here I would have to say that you are at least bisexual. But, if you don't have the same kind of sexual intensity toward females then you might want to start the acceptance process. And, it is a process.



Obviously its going to be a rough journey, as it is for most of us. Try to avoid self hating thoughts. You may try to go through the process of trying to change and avoid it for a while longer but...

you like guys Tom. Get online and find out some gay friendly hangouts in your area and meet some people you can talk to face to face. You will get through this a lot easier with someone to talk to that knows what you are going through.
Possibly bi, possibly submissive. Or it could just be a really exciting memory. But I'd bet on submissive.
I don't think it's as unusual as you might think. Your profile says you're 17, and I believe if you were truly gay or bisexual, you would have had feelings MUCH earlier than now. Straight and gay can be very constricting categories, some people think they aren't straight if they have thoughts or desires about the same gender, but that's ridiculous. I would say that you are straight as long as your sexual thoughts about men don't overwhelm your sexual and romantic desires for women.



During the Kinsey studies, almost nobody registered as a 0 or 6 (COMPLETELY gay or straight). Most healthy, happy straight men are a 1 or 2 (with 3 being equally homosexual and heterosexual), proving we're all to some extent bisexual.



I think you're probably straight, but your same-sex and domination/submission desires are worth pursuing so that you can learn what you enjoy sexually.



Watch Kinsey. It's a great movie.

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