Friday, November 19, 2010

Men! Is it true men really do keep chasing after women if they play hard to get?

Ive been with a guy for over a year.He seems to take me a bit for granted lately,and i admit i have been a bit too available and do everything to make him happy.What would you do if you were him and i didnt answer your calls or call you for a few days?Would you think you were losing me and think you better put a bit more effort in the relationship?Let me know how you men think.Men! Is it true men really do keep chasing after women if they play hard to get?
You've been with him for over a year...you've been ';got';. Hard to get is typically (an inappropriate) pre-dating behavior, not one to start in the midst of a relationship. It also can backfire about as often as it works.



If he's taking you for granted, stop allowing it. That's within your control. Don't be his beck-and-call-girl...that's not playing hard to get, that's just not being a doormat. You can control how available you are and perhaps he'll then realize his feelings for you. Hopefully, it'll be in your favor.Men! Is it true men really do keep chasing after women if they play hard to get?
Hmmm... its not that true...



ya we do like chasing those things which are hard to get.. but we do have our ego, so if any gal just keeps ignoring as u said by being hard to get then we always rethink and act the correct way!!

That's by changing the direction of our attention... you know what i mean by this....



There is nothing like 'too available'.... if you feel ignored by your man, its just because of his immaturity... I think no man can do thing like this if he is sensible... and here you simply did right thing by being available and making him happy...



Ignoring by not answering calls and stuff is again being immature on your part. Remember tina... by ignoring your man you cant generate feeling of 'love for u'; in him....



All you can do is to talk and settle it out.. I think he is not ready for marriage and you sound to be really very serious for him...



GIVE HIM TIME!!! BUT NOT TOO MUCH.....



All i have said above is for the situation where you want a serious relationship which should end in marriage...



Or if you want to have fun and hang around, then do all gal sfuff... Ignoring calls, fighting on small issues... blah blah...



So dear thats how i think.......
Stay away from deviousness. Just get rid of him if you have to.

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