How important is playing hard to get when you start hanging out with a guy you like?

I can all go wrong .......so don't over do it or better still don't do it at all , the boy you like will get away .........Katie :-)How important is playing hard to get when you start hanging out with a guy you like?
Playing hard to get doesn't always work. If you do and he isn't into the ';chase'; then you'll probably lose any chance you may of had.How important is playing hard to get when you start hanging out with a guy you like?
Girls who play hard to get should die in a fire.



Preferably one which lasts eternally.



Like hell!



Yeah, that'd be good.
Personally, as a guy... a little chase is fun... but dont over do it. if it gets too hard... the guy will just move on.





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its Not that important....Whats really important is that you hold onto your values and you try to get to know this guy first, and truly get to know him, and then maybe you will be able to see the big picture and the ramifications of doing something you may regret later...People have to start getting real and to admitt that this world is in large trouble, and one of the main reasons for it is that everyone is thinking about feeling good and having sex, Before the right time, and its destroying peoples insides and we got to get honest, and to place priorities in our lives !
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Pretty important. Guys will move on if the chase is too easy.



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Umm..not really important cuz if you play too hard u gone loose him jus a lil bit
no no no!!!



When u start hanging with a guy you like. you flirt a little!!!! BUTTTTTTTT when u notice that he starts flirting with you... you flirt back JUST A LITTLe!





when he starts flirting ALOT!! you start playing hard to get and tease a little



then he will start trying harder and will eventually ask you out



when he asks you out YOU HESITATE for a little bit..... then you say yes
Don't play hard to get so hard

If that makes sense
it's important for him to know that you are not easy to ';get'; but you want to make sure that you don't toy with him.

don't chase him but don't tease him, ya know?





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I don't know if ';playing'; is really so much it. I know that it's important to have a life and convey to him that you have a life. And, after you start dating, you maintain your life and your routine. If you have your own life and your own interests, then you won't be too concerned with ';playing'; with him. You will just be yourself, and you won't be as concerned with whether or not he likes you as you will be concerned with whether or not you like him. Remember, it's your life, so it's all about you.
You flirt a bit, tease him if you get what I'm saying (not strip or anything like that). Sexual attraction gets any guy's attention, but personality is the hooker. Be mysterious. As the guy tries to find out more about you, open up to him and then ta da haha





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A girl is playing hard to get with me .its fun! =)



But if it gets harder ill.....move on cuz you can get hurt =(
omg I do NOT believe in playing hard to get. it's like 'I like the dude and I'm hanging out with him, so I think I'll give him a hint that I'm not into him'... what the heck? if you don't know that the guy likes you back then he'll probably just move on. and then youll never get to be with him.

I think it ruins chances of relationships. don't play hard to get, but then also don't be like openly overly obsessed with the guy. that's not good either.

that's just what I think anyway.
dont play too hard to get because he might just say f it and find another girl, thats what i would do. what you do is dont imediately reply to his messages because it shows that your not just sitting around waiting for him. when he asks how you've been say i've been good, kind of busy though. it will show him that you have a life besides him and if he doesn't act fast then he may lose his shot with you.
I don't like the chase. When girls look for ways to be unnecessarily unaccommodating that early in the relationship, that is a sign of bad things to come. I like women who look for ways to make it work, not ones who put obstacles in front of a man as a test. Playing hard to get with someone you hope to get makes sense only to a mindless flutterbrain. Real stable men who know who they are and what they want out of life won't settle for someone who plays these immature mindgames.