It's hard to admit, but i am easy...?

i've always had a hard time with guys. i feel like i try way to hard just to get one guy to notice me. how do you play hard to get with someone that already knows you're easy? i wanna be able to start over new, and show guys that think im 'hott' that im not all about sex, and i just honestly, don't get how to do that, how do i get a guy to want more?It's hard to admit, but i am easy...?
I deal with alot of relationships so let me start out by saying that the past is the past.


If you honestly want to make a change then dont believe yourself ';easy'; just because sex was an enjoyment or done frequently. Dont judge youself as easy but something more and that will help with moving to the next step.


You need to show what else you like to do and make a time limit before you start to get more active with a guy. This will give you two time to figure out more about one another (its not fool proof but it works).


If a guy is willing to leave you bcuz you have expectations and goals for yourself then honestly that guy wasnt looking at you...only physical you.It's hard to admit, but i am easy...?
dont dress slutty, make them workfor a kiss. then tell them to stop if they move fast. no sex for at least the first month.
You should play hard to get since if guys think your easy to get then they won't want to get you any more since guys like girls who are hard to get.
you dont get a guy to want more you have to find one who does try dateing a guy who doesnt fit one of the old regulars
I don't know much and probably an answer from a guy isn't that useful to you but i would say try talking to the guy your dating about that or if you have a friend that is a guy tell him your not someone who is just about sex and just don't act like it and you'll be fine.





Hope i helped
Well, for starters try making little rulse for urself like ';No kissing on our first date,'; then hell really want to kiss, a better one ';no sex until we're dating for at least a year'; just try it. If u really want to change, than do!
It's just the way you carry yourself. My best friend is a really cute girl but she has so much confidence and has a really outgoing personality. She gives off really good energy. Guys are just mystified by her because she's nice to everyone and doesn't act desperate to make guys notice her. She has a calm self assured vibe that just attracts guys. I think guys want to figure her out and they go up and try to ger HER to notice THEM. So she has a gaggle of guys who like her but she never puts them down or anything. She has respect for herself and knows her boundries, but respects guys as well.
Well, once your reputation is out that way it is going to be really hard to get that back. But to help you, there really isnt any specific way to play hard to get. you just got to kind of put on a show. like if your with somebody and they start talking crap just act like you dont care. Let other guys that you talk to know about your past and how you want to change. you know they are using you trust me because once you see the player game you'll have it down packed.. Just got to keep your eyes open and your legs closed. just mentally say to your self what goal you want to acheive. if you need more help hit me back. lol =]





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Just be flirty with him but don't over due it. Make him chase after you, like don't cling to him. Act down to earth, a girl he'd want to get to know more about. If you want him to think your not all about sex than don't be all about sex. Just be yourself, and make him wanna make you his.








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Well. The bonus is you're attractive, too. But that's not going to help you in the easy department. Maybe you're just horny? There't (despite what others say) absolutely nothing wrong with satisfying your carnel needs. Maybe that's just what you're doing. You need sex, so you're havings sex.... I don't know - I'm not your psychaitrist, but I would say that you're probably being a little hard on yourself (no pun intended). Just go with the flow. I have know girls who were called ';sluts'; their entire youth and it wasn't true at all, they just wanted to make sexual contact faster than the average girl so the average girl called them a slut, and where I come from that makes the average girl a *********. So, you are just you. Take the necessary precautions, do the right things, and be careful. Don't get taken advantage of, don't get raped. And if something like that DOES happen, you have the same rights as all the girls who'd say that ';she's a slut and she deserved it';. You have the right to an investigation by the police, you have the right to counseling, and the right to know that it wasn't your fault it a guy takes it too far. So just because you may be more sexually active? PHUCK all those other girls. -john in Iowa
Hey there, first off, I believe congratulations are in order. You have just reached a stage that many people, both girls and guys, never get past. Sometimes, it seems as if all relationships boil down to is making yourself as ';hot'; as possible and finding as ';hot'; a partner as possible. The logic being that sex must be great with a hot person, and thus a great relationship it must be.





However, if you now know that you are searching for more, the last place you are going to find it is in a place where people don't want more. And unfortunately, it sounds like the guys you are trying to get to notice you as something special don't want to see more than a pair of open legs. So the sad news is, if people don't want to see more, you are not going to be able to get them to see more with you.





The question for you now becomes: ';What do you want more?';


a) I want this guy to like me, even if it is just for sex.


In this case, you already know what to do. From the sounds of it, you don't want this anymore though.





b) I am going to find the guy who I can have EVERYTHING with.


In that case, you have to be willing to give everything yourself. You have already seen firsthand that putting out gets people who want to take you up on just that. If you want something more and you want to get someone else to share more with, you yourself need to be someone that that type of person would want.





I know you are looking more for how to make a guy who is now with you for sex want more with you, but unfortunately, if he is only there for the easy sex in the first place, you are not going to get anything more out of him.


Playing hard to get won't solve anything. You are better off gently letting people know you are no longer looking for a little nookie, but if a guy does want more, give him a genuine, sincere chance.





There is sooo much to be said on this that there is no way it can fit into a Yahoo Answers reply ;-) But, first, I believe you need to clarify for yourself what is more important to you. After you have made this decision, you can ask more questions to guide you. Good luck to you, whichever path you pick.