Do i need counseling if the grass is always greener on the other side?

for example:



-when a guy focuses on me and wants only me, it drives me away...but when he wants someone else, it makes me want him more...



-or when i have a boy friend..i find other boys attractive. but when i DON'T have a boyfriend...i DON'T find other boys attractive..



-and when a guy plays hard to get..it makes me want to chase after him more. but when he is already there...it makes me look else where...



what is wrong with me? i think this is the MAJOR reason why i can't keep a boy friend. how do i stop this?Do i need counseling if the grass is always greener on the other side?
It sounds like a maturity issue and your're not ready for any type of commitment. I wouldn't say you need counseling unless there is something in your past that is making you think the way you do. You just like to have fun and you want what you can't have, it's a challenge.. You'll grow out of it. Good luck!Do i need counseling if the grass is always greener on the other side?
simple find a guy like you, but i'm not really legible for this question cause no matter what the subject is i need counceling.lol,
Hm.. maybe you are a man after all.
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Personally, I think you need to concentrate on making yourself happy before getting into a relationship. You have what most normal people have. Its the Forbidden Fruit Complex (I came up with the name). You want what you can't have. It happens. Work on yourself. Learn to be truly content with yourself and your life before getting with a guy on that level. You don't want to sabotage a potentially fabulous relationship. Just have fun being single. When you meet the person you click with, you'll know. In the mean time, have fun.



P.S.

Trust your instincts. You know yourself the best.
Sounds like it does relate to your mind. Not necessarily the perspective of how you look at a boyfriend. But rather, you can't seem to slow your mind down. Your mind is racing and occupies itself by considering the unknown. While to be complacent with the known (present boyfriend) you mind must be tranquil. I am not a professional psychologist and this is just my opinion. You may be bi-polar and this is why your mind races.
All you have to do is start at the start by finding someone who likes what you like and dislikes what you dislike and then you will have better luck from that guy.
thats normal...

i guess....