How to play hard to get when i have been with a guy for 3 years but have never been official?

i have been with this guy off and on for over 3 years he is a real player and i want to be offical with him how do i play hard to get and snag him as mine......?How to play hard to get when i have been with a guy for 3 years but have never been official?
Why would you want to try a player? You are opening up yourself to heartbreak if you want to settle down..How to play hard to get when i have been with a guy for 3 years but have never been official?
smoke a fag, keep it low - key . . . .all good haha
LOL. Too late for that.
Why play games?



Just tell him you don't want to play games. Tell him you want to have a serious, monogamous relationship.





If he agrees to date only you and then screws around with other girls (and don't be a jealous girl who doesn't let him TALK to other girls) then break up with him.



If you can't trust him tell him you'd like to get serious with him but you can't trust him.
you have to make sure to act like you are more important to him than he is to you.. start ignoring his calls a little or when he wants to hang out just say you're busy hanging out with other friends.. guy friends maybe.. he has to know that he has to work hard to get you and he has to know that you are more important to him than he is to u
i have been in this situation and the best way to get your guy in my opinion is get a decoy guy that he knows and make him jealous and it does work
always wait 2 hours before returning ANY calls or texts, but hen you do, always sound enthusiastic so he doesnt think you've completely lost interest. but in calls, sound busy. get some new friends who are your friends. make sure they don't like you first though, lol. wait for HIM to ask YOU on dates

good luck :)

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lu, for christ's sake, please don't waste your time on the jackass. Have fun with him if you want, but do NOT try to have a serious relationship with him... Some people just aren't cut out for serious relationships. It will never work. He'll end up hating you, cheating on you, or both... Actually, don't have fun with him anymore. It's pretty hard to have casual sex with somebody you have feelings for. You obviously are developing feelings for this guy. Please get a grip on yourself. Take a step back (and a step away from him). Find a nice guy who is ready for an emotional attachment.