Guys, when you do this what's it mean? Do you like it when girls play hard to get?

You don't know the girl, but you sit next to her on the bus anyway.


You say hi, and you start flirting, get up because you have to get off and than your friend asks if youre going out and you say, Hell yeah and the girl says, Wtf.





What does Hell yeah mean? You're serious or a player?


Next couple days, you compliment her necklaces and say ';Oh how adorable'; and when she misses school you say, ';I havent seen you in forever'; and it's only been a day or two but you say it not looking at her just staring straight ahead.





The girl is playing hard to get so she's acting all clueless and she's like,';We're dating? Wtf, since when? I don't even know you.'; And he says,';Fine I'm breaking up with you!'; And the girl's all like,';But we weren't even going out?';





You start getting quiet but STILL sit next to her on the bus, and you just sit there texting or listening to your iPod, sometimes you'd exchange glances and smile.





Than he decides to say,';I miss you, we're going back out okay!?'; Uhm, he's really demanding and it's cute, but it makes me think he's not serious.





WHY IS HE SO QUIET? IS IT BECAUSE IM PLAYING HARD TO GET??





I'm playing hard to get because this guy seems like a player, he's sweet and everything but I've never been dumped or play dumped and he seems like the guy who's not serious because he just suddenly wanted to go out with me when he doesn't know me.





Uh, from a guys perspective, what does that mean? Have you ever done that? Does he like me? Or is he just playing with my head to get some ***?





Girls can answer too, duh.Guys, when you do this what's it mean? Do you like it when girls play hard to get?
listen sister , i have a similar case ,in my case a girl used to flirt with me for a year and when i began liking her she began acting strange and when i expressed my feelings to her , she didnt reply, she keeps on talking bullshit and acts as if nothing happened , do u think i like that , do u think boys dont have feelings , iam extremely hurt by her attitude and thats why i have started to avoid her coz i wanna REMOVE her FRO M MY MIND , ur boy is also trying to do the same , when girls try to act strange and hard to get and if the boy is serious abt her , it really hurts the feelings of the boy and the guy bcomes silent coz they are angry and sad ...





ur boy may be acting in the same way do u want that ur boy begins to hate u and bcome sad like i have bcome , do u?????





bfore u loose someone who loves u try to realise his feelings, get him back ,he may be playing but how can u be sure when u dont give him a chance , plzz if u hurt someone's feelings by bcoming silent then god will get back to u ...





for the end i say PLZZ GIVE HIM A CHANCE ATLEAST AND ASK HIM HOW HE FEELS %26lt;%26lt; dont get too committed initially and see if the boy truly loves u , if he does then bcome completely committed if he doesnt then move on , but plzz dont hurt his feelings it feels really bad , and like me he may develop a deep hatred for girls ...








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the best u can do is give him a chance , if he is goin too fast then tell him that u need some time and such decisions are not taken hastily,see his reaction and decide





after all its your life, u have to decide who am i to interfere inside








with love....jayGuys, when you do this what's it mean? Do you like it when girls play hard to get?
i hate girls who play hard to get...yes its about the chase, but after a conversation im ****** ready to move on and i just wanna get my dick wet
id answer you, but the Q is too long, sorry
Quit being childish and Ask HIM!!!
NEVER play hard to get. It's frustrating to the point where it's infuriating. Most sensible dudes will take no part in that, and simply move on. If a chick and I were going out, then she pretended we weren't I probably wouldn't speak to her again.


Hell yeah is a method dudes use to seem in control and completely comfortable, while still enthused. If pulled off well, you should be completely flattered.


The reason he stopped acting serious is because you also started what seemed like an excruciating game of cat and mouse and he's decided that mouse is easier. He believes that you'll come to him if you really care. If you do, ask, and stop the stupid bull****. If it doesn't make a difference to you, let it play out, and no more stupid bull****. Seriously. It will get you nowhere.
It means he wants to seriously go out with you, but he's just testing you for what kind of reaction he'll get from you.
You're not hard to get. That guy is just really quick. Or mentally insane. Tell him to slow down, or if you don't like him, tell him to buzz off.





Also, the guy's kinda inconsiderate.





And as a matter of fact, guys do tend to not like hard-to-get girls. But you're not one of them, so don't worry.
i HATE it when a guy plays hard to get!!! it drives me insane!!! after a while you get tired of chasing him and you feel like you're wasting your time and energy on something that doesn't exist. i'm not completely sure if its the same with all guys but from the guys i know, they dont like it either.
I think the guy likes you, he's just totally clueless as to how to act romantically towards a girl. You're probably playing a bit too hard to get (which girls usually do).
If I were you, I would feel kind of played at. As early as now and he's doing that - making you feel pleased then disappointing you afterwards, then you're back again? Hello? And it's as if he likes it, too.





I think he's too immature to be playing that kind of game. Relationships are not supposed to be like that.
sounds like someone thinks they re high and mighty...no he's playing hard to get too cause he knows your type and he's keeping you on your toes if he even knows he's doing it. he may just be flirting just for the hell.he's been doing it for a while so he hasnt asked for your number so dont much more into it than you already have. he's got you and you don't even know it yet





WHAT should I do than?





';Because, I do like him and I don't want to push him away.';





-Famous words of women





Your are the perfect example of a girl. Most women dont know what they want. i'll ask this on his behalf. ';Not to offend but, with all due respect, make up your dam mind you dumb broad!!!';
Just straight out ask him. Say'; Why are you telling everyone we are going out? Are you joking or serious?'; If he doesn't answer than ignore him and sit with other people until he answers you.