Tuesday, November 16, 2010

How do I play ';hard-to-get'; with this guy I like?

I don't think he has a major crush on me, but I think there are some feelings there. For months I was chasing after him, but now I want to turn the tables. I want to make him like me. Well, of course I can't MAKE him, but whatever. How can I make him jealous or do to make him think of me differently? He's 13, and so am I.How do I play ';hard-to-get'; with this guy I like?
Just don't text/talk to him that much but still keep in touch. Like go a month in the summer (i no its a long time away but it works) without talking to him and he'll develope more emotions for you.How do I play ';hard-to-get'; with this guy I like?
Personally, jealousy isnt the way to go. But.. I know im a guy and its kinda wierd saying this.. but I want to get points to level two lol. But okay

WHAT WOULD MAKE YOU EFFECTIVE: Look every now-and-then, whenever you have a class with him just say like ';hi'; and then smile. Try to be friends with him first.
HAHAHA 13 year old's playing games. Why don't you play monopoly or cowboy and indians in the backyard
Playing hard to get is a bad idea, you don't want to be sending conflicting signals. It's usually best to be direct.
Please don't play hard to get, guys don't like it very much. And it makes things sooooo confusing.
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if you like him why would you want to make him jealous ,cause yous like one other :)
why the crap would you play hard to get with someone you like
1) A wise and intelligent awareness about what you are doing



Look at it this way鈥攜ou鈥檙e the owner of a luxurious brand who wants to confer an image of superior quality to a buyer. You are not going to achieve this by using 鈥渙pen house,'; (I鈥檓 desperate, I will take anyone) or 鈥減ermanently out of stock'; (don鈥檛 take calls, cancel dates, try to make him or her jealous etc) methods. You confer an image of superior quality by a good understanding of yourself first and foremost.



Self-awareness is the key. I cannot stress this enough. Self-awareness especially awareness of your sexual imprint (why you are attracted to certain people and not others, why you behave the way you behave, why you fear what you fear, why you believe what you believe and do what you do etc) will enable you direct your energy in positive ways, make the right decisions and maintain balance and moderation.



2) Knowledge of what appeals to a particular man or woman



Each and everyone of us has a uniquely personalized set of things that naturally attract or repel us sexually and erotically. How do you figure out what attracts or repels a particular man or woman? One, by asking questions... lots of them. Ask questions with the intention of finding out what makes him or her tick - his or her own sexual imprint. And two, by doing things that make him or her feel that you truly and genuinely understand him or her as a unique individual. When you tap into the deepest and sometimes most forbidden desires, fantasies, and passions of a person, it is possible to spend just five minutes with him or her and create such strong attraction that he or she later on, on their own, recalls the experience with good feelings about seeing and being with you again. It's this ';good feelings'; that fuel the chase.



3) Ability to make someone feel special without seeming too needy or eager to please



If somebody is going to chase you, they want to know with some degree of certainty that you are worth the chase. There nothing that is a bigger turnoff for both men and women than someone who is predictable, not much of a challenge, too rigid or controlling, desperate or too eager to please, incurably negative and downright boring. The person must feel that you鈥檙e worth his or her time and energy and what he or she is chasing is not something he or she can easily get on the street corner but rather something offered to only a 鈥減rivileged'; few. Men and women want to feel that you're valuable and only those who deserve it will earn you as a reward. It kind of like a 鈥渕embers only'; exclusive club where the person being allowed in feels 鈥渢hey must be special';. When you make someone feel special, they in return will feel you are also special.



4) Capacity to impact on someone's life so much that they are positively transformed as a result of knowing you



Really savvy and skilled brand creators take 鈥渆xclusivity'; one step further. They just don鈥檛 stop at 鈥渂y invitation only'; phase, but instead create an entire lifestyle. That is, they challenge a man or woman pursing them to become more of themselves and do more than they鈥檇 dared to do before. If your words, actions, and behaviours can actually make the person experience a very strong state of arousal, excitement or deep sense of peace creating strong memories those memories will be added to the person sexual imprint and so will you - forever.



Playing hard to get done the right way can be the most powerful form of seduction there is. And we all have the ability to craft transcendent experiences that can make our dates, lovers, and spouses feel they are flirting (literally!) with the unpredictable and the unknown in a most intense, agreeable, pleasing, charming, endearing, enticing, enlivening, and reality altering way.



Who wouldn鈥檛 want to spend eternity with someone like that?



If you are just getting to know a man or woman and not sure whether he or she is 鈥減laying hard to get'; or just ';not interested'; see my article: How Do You Tell If Someone Is Playing Hard To Get Or Just Not Interested? (article can be found in the Articles section of my website under sub-heading The Art Of Seduction).

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