How do you play hard to get?

everyone says when you want a guys attention play hard to get well my ex boyfriend and me dated for 5 months and we recently broke up everyone says im obsessed with him and that when i use to play hard to get with him thats when he noticed me and cared more... I dont know how to play hard to get anymore because I love him now and its so hard... i want him back can someone please tell me how to play hard to get or what i should do im not ready to move on...How do you play hard to get?
playing hard to get is exactly what it means. playing! i think youve gotten past that with him and you love him now. this isnt a time for games. if you love him, than the best thing to do is let him go. in a way, its like playing hard to get but in this case, youre not playing. you have to take that risk. you have to let him go and see if he comes back to you. when you play hard to get, your acting like you dont care and you can find love anywhere you want. well in this case, you have to take a step back and let him be. you cant force what he doesnt want to happend. one of two things will happen. hell either come back to you or hell find someone else and move on. if he does not come back, than it wasnt meant to be. you have to live your life and move on as well. this is a great time to be on your own and take care of you. go out and socialize. spend more time with friends. take care of your needs. its a great feeling when you do this and it will keep the focus off of him. itll help ease the pain. who knows, you might end up meeeting someone you never thought you would. give life a chance. take chances. live your life.How do you play hard to get?
Hard to get doesnt work as well with guys. If he's like me, he'l lose interest and move on.
Hard to get is a silly game, and dishonest. Relationships are for mature people, not game players. If you want to play a game, break out the Monopoly board...otherwise, be straight up about your feelings (without gushing or coming across as needy/clingy). If the other person likes you back, great. If not, then move on.



If you have to pretend not to like someone, to catch their interest, they aren't worth being with in the first place.
just look at a guy then you smile then you ignore them and pretend that they dont exist, then you talk to another guy infront of them. also when you are talking to him, count to 5 before answering. never answer your phone the first time he calls and when he asks why you didnt call back be like ohh you called ohh yeah i guesss i forgot.
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Go and talk to him......you better be straight this time.

Don't play a game if you don't know the rules.
one thing that seems to work really well for guys is ';why do girls go with the jerk than the nice guy?'; I don't know why but it does work. When I was a jerk, I got so much play and so much attention. Then when I started to be nice, my attention dropped. It's one of those things that you have to find a balance too. Ignore him for a while. Give him a call to say hi and talk about the good times you had together, then ignore him for a while. He will keep thinking about why you are not talking to him and try to get your attention.
he was in it for the hunt. move on its for the best. playing hard to get will only atract the guy that are in it for the hunt. if you like the guy let him know.
Hard to get will not work here anymore, he is already gone. You have to start bumping into him everywhere and strike up simple conversations until you perk up interest again. If that does not work, turn out the lights the party is over.
Hah, it neither works well with guys, nor works for guys.

if a dude plays hard to get, its kinda pathetic.