Friday, November 12, 2010

How to play Hard to get with a guy?

There's this guy I used to really like %26amp; we kinda had a ';thing'; .


He moved away a year %26amp; 1/2 ago and now is moving back.


I still have feelings for him.


My friends said the best way for him to want me again is to play hrd to get because he will wounder if I like him still %26amp; how I feel about him %26amp; he will try hard to make me want him.


I reallllllllllly realllllllllly want him to like me again.


so what are the best ways to play hard to get %26amp; how should I get him to like me ?


any good tips or advice.


thank you :D





oh p.s.


he hangs out with my group of friends at school ( which is like 30 people )How to play Hard to get with a guy?
i hate it when girls play hard to get


i dont no if thats the best way to deal with it


maybe if u just be nice and funny and have a good time with him ull get that hoe becuz if u play hard to get he might not wanna play ur game and give upHow to play Hard to get with a guy?
i hate it when you girls play hard to get! lol, but the best way is try to get him to notice you have matured from the last time you met, or if you really want his full attention, tell your group of friends to (pretend) ditch him, and if he's alone at the courtyard or whatever, walk up to him and become his only (pretend) friend!
no no thats how guys get women, thats why women think it works.





Guys on the other hand don't like it/get it. and heres why.





Guys usually do the pursuing; women usually do the resisting.





So when you play hard to get to a guy he interprets that as 'just another girl who's not interested like so many others'





Or ';just another girl who's moved on and found another guy';





hence he will move on. Guys like a girl who acts like she cares about him. just ask dr laura hehe
Your friends are right. I did it this week, and it worked so far. I've been like kinda seeing this guy since June. I was calling him all the time. He never answered when I called, and as of Sunday, I said to myself, this is it. I'm not calling for a while. Well, he called Sunday nite, Monday, and today wondering what the heck was going on. SO you see, play a little hard to get and they wonder what's going on. Its kinda cool. And easy to pull off.
How about you DON'T play games and don't play hard to get. It doesn't make a guy want you more it just lets them see the low level your willing to operate on. The reason most people have problems in their life is because they are never honest or straight forward about them. All playing hard to get will do is make him think you don't like him and he will move on to someone else. Don't be a fool, tell him you still have feelings for him.
There is no reason for you to play hard to get. I mean a year and a half is a way too long for you to still keep those feelings you had for him so now that his back, i guess it's a chance your waiting to tell him how you feel about him. If he also still feel same way as you do i don't think he wouldn't want it that way. Don't waste your time..in that way you'll know how he feels about you too.
Don't play games with him, you'll come across as false, even if you don't want to.





If he approaches you, tell him you'll need to talk with him about starting over again before anything happens. Ask him how he feels, if he's interested, then tell him how you feel. If things are still cool then see where things go. But don't play him. If it were me, nothing would piss me off faster.
ok im going to give you some of the best tips.


first when a guy wants you to go to them tell them that your B****es come to you and that you dont go to them.


second, when they say that they are going to do something tell them that they better. and laugh and then just tell them that you are kidding.


third never show any sign of emotion saying that you are interested.


never make the first move, always let them come to you.


tease them a lil bit, but dont go to far.
Your friends a dumbass!!


I hang out with nothing but guys


and i learn ALOT from doing that!!


And if there's one important thing i've learned..


It's that guys HATE girls playing hard to get..


They think it's stupid and a waste of time to be ';chasin' skirts';.


If you like him be truthful.. Dont play games..it's stupid and immature.
a huge myth.. it doesnt work. girls for some reason think it does


its actually a huge turn off to many guys... we just get sick of the chase and think we are in the friend zone so we simply give up





just flirt.. it will get him attached





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yes flirt with him, start talking to him again via text or phone, tell people from the group that you still like him they will pass it on to him....





hard to get works sometimes but it can easily backfire
do. not. do. it. he'll move on :( sad I know. but don't do it if you like him.
Dudes hate the games tat girls play. Just be straight up with him. If you play childish games he'll just think you're crazy. Teasing people or leading them on shows the level of maturity in a person...
Let him be the one doing the chasing , try ignoring him a little , not too much, or he might think you are not interested, let him be the one to call or text you first.
first dont open your legs lol just acknowlege him but pretend your busy or got a hot date make em a little jealous and get him interested
pretend like for the most part your busy,show him some attention but act like youve got better things to do..


but if you really like him,dude let him know,get this steaming,dont be Too desperate though
Well i would like to say that coming from a guy, you can play hard but not too hard lol..
playing hard to get can make a guy move on to someone else so just flirt a lil that always worked on me and i should know cuz im a guy and were hard to predict sometimes same with girls.
Don't do that stupid sh*t there will only be a negative outcome. Be forthright with your feelings.
I agree with the first answer. Don't even bother playing ';hard-to-get';. Many guys find it a complete turn off.
just be yourself :]
just lead him on.
Flirt a little, wink, and smile. Then you're good to go. ;)
its a bad idea
flirt with him and then ignore him, but playin games is so stupid just tell him how u feel quick and easy just do it
Try Flirting alot but like Fake Flirts like your too good for him . Like hey Cutie but den say sike wave at him but den it turns out ur wavein to ur friend behind him lol make him look dumb but show him you dont care . Make sure to show him things have change since hes left find a cute boy an talk to him in front of him an laugh too.


Change your look show him a better you a lil makeup hair diff ect .


wen hes around like 5 feet away make sure your with ppl showing him you dnt need him an how everyone is into what your saying like (start saying something funny that had happened to you ) and hes gonna want to get involve . Don't talk to him first !!! make him come to you like make your friend call him over an talk an dont let it be awkward be comfortable funny an out der don't look bored or mean either wen he comes around be nice smile patter your eye lashes at him twice an walk away make another friend call you over . And soon hes gonna think your cute funny and sweet out der an trust me he will want you bad . If dis doesn't work find someone better .

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