Sunday, November 14, 2010

Do girls ever play hard to get?

Do girls ever play hard to get with a guy and how would they do it?Do girls ever play hard to get?
The simple answer is yes, girls do play hard to get. They do this by



- Teasing/fighting

- Deliberately turning up a few minutes late to a date.

- Deliberately taking their time when returning calls or texts

- Deliberately claiming to be unavailable to meet up when they are available

- Flirting with other men in front of you



However, you need to be careful not to mistake a girl who is genuinely not interested in you for a girl who is interested and just playing hard to get. If she does any of the following, it usually means she is simply not interested.

- She looks ANNOYED when teasing/fighting, as opposed to PLAYFUL

- She stands you up for a date without explanation and does not apologise sincerely afterwards or suggest another date.

- She ignores your all your calls and texts entirely (not just one or two)

- Always claiming to be unavailable, and not suggesting an alternative day for when she will be available. (Or suggesting an alternative day but then claiming to be unavailable when the day arrives)

- Flirting with other men behind your back, or dating other men.





The best way to test if a woman is playing hard to get is to play hard to get too (without being mean or annoying, and still flirt occasionally). If she seems to start chasing you or show more interest in you than she did before, it means she was playing hard to get and is infact interested after all.

If she doesn't change her manner at all and continues ignoring/avoiding/fighting you, then she was not playing hard to get, and she is simply not interested in you at all.



Don't try to make her jealous, though. It always always always backfires.Do girls ever play hard to get?
I just do it sometimes
Yes.
Gosh yeh all the time!



Guys like the chase , and if i play hard to get it will make them want me more haha :P



I act like they don't exsits somedays , and then somedays i always take notice of them. It confuseses them haha :P



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yes, they act like they dont want you but they really do =P
Heh... cute Starlett_x. Just one problem; you're wrong.



Let's all thank Starlett_x for giving us an insight into the way some women tend to think.



Now let's look at everything she did wrong.



1. Guys like the chase.



No we don't. Guys want things to be easy. We are very lazy, and if we get a shot at some easy action we're going to take it over something we have to work for.



2. It makes them want me more.



Lemme say this again : Guys are lazy. When we have to work for something, we want it even less. Guys like things when they're easy, or when the girl makes the first move.



3. It confuses them.



We don't like being confused either. Here's a little secret... we make fun of the girls that try to confuse us. The more confusing you try to be, the more you are labeled as a ';whacko'; and the harder it is for you to find a guy who will even remain slightly interested in you.



But here's the thing, I bet I can tell you something that I bet no one else has been able to tell you without talking to you... I bet that you have been in a countless number of relationships that always proved too clingy, or possessive, or abusive, but never a good relationship. Never an equal one.



But that's okay. When you can try to play mind-games with guys all day, why would you want a relationship?
Yes i have but most guys never figure it out
yes,some girls do that because she is testing you if you can really be good and honest to her.

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